Do you like "mardana" females?

[Khidr]

Actually my question is do you like autoritative and bossy women?

Personally za khazay/jinai wale nakhray kho pasand kawa kho mutabri ye na.

a related question,
Do you attract towards feminists (those of west are prone to become lesbian)?

So long as they don't have a moustache, hairy arms, and bad B.O, I don't mind them as collegue/friends. lol

[kandahari ella]

My argument is that the bossy, overbearing woman is hiding VOLUMES of ANGER which will inevitably erupt on You, the prospective husband. And on all children.

Notice how cross the expressions are, how short the attention span and patience are of a typical American woman.
Whether "successful" or not. The women corporate executives are the worst of all, from my observation.
Many of my friends who were fun in college transformed into demanding, snappy type professionals.

The more specific idea of that latter a man has, the more he will find that type. Especially when he asks for Allah to select the right woman, not a mother or parents or peer pressure or any exterior force.

Catya Sher- You bring up a very good point in ways that these women absorb all of this anger that eventually erupts onto the husband. But my question for you is, those husbands do the same. What's so different about a professional man versus a professional woman? The woman in actuality has to be able to handle a lot more, to prove to her man supervisor that she indeed is able to handle the demands of the work force and on top of the be the best mother in the world. While the husband, works and works. He has no responsibilities at home. Either he marries a girl that is willing to take on the entire lode of the family all on her own, or he has marries a professional where again the pressures fall onto the woman. Did you know that the average male spends on average 12 minutes a day with his children? 12 Minutes. That's about how long it took me to respond to a couple of posts on the forums! You state, that women might scream and "volumes of anger" will come out onto the man and the children. But the same thing happens with men screaming their angry out. How is it different when a woman does that? It still brings problems into the marriage and onto the children if a male does all of that.


Again, with issue of the corporate individual, do you not believe that the men don't have the same characteristics that you portrayed these women to have? We live in a society where financially you have to be independent. No matter what gender you are, so do you think these women are at fault for wanting to be able to stand on their own two feet? I'm not judging you on what you want to have in life, but I feel that maybe its better to understand where each side is coming from, it doesn't matter what you're gender is. Learn, find out what that other person is going through and then see if you can handle that in life. I know that I cannot be with a man that spends 12 minutes a day with his children. I'd rather both have us work less and be with our children than to rush off to work and work through literally 100 hours of work a week.

Insha'Allah, Allah (SWT) will find us (the single ones) the type of husband or wife that we desire. =)

[IamDZJ]

[afghan]

i am going to post couple of videos of afghan women who are outspoken, and much braver than most of the afghan men.

Mr.luffy where can you fit them? Bossy, mardana or some thing else.
YouTube - Afghan women journalists in danger[/URL]
YouTube - Malalai Joya interview with CNN: US Get OUT of Afghanistan[/URL]

[akbarkhan]

lol Akbara, he is talking about women that act like men. Nargaddey sha ye.

Women that act like men? My kitchen could do with a few of them.

[شمله ور خراساني]

Actually my question is do you like autoritative and bossy women?

Personally za khazay/jinai wale nakhray kho pasand kawa kho mutabri ye na.

a related question,
Do you attract towards feminists (those of west are prone to become lesbian)?

Luffy, whats up with the zanana threads you are opening every day? You ask about laila being black and ugly, then you say that all nurses are prostitutes in peshawar and now you talk about mardana females?

Don't you have anything masculine to do?

[Michin Khel]

^I have stopped eating halwa, may be thats why.

[Shehbaz Khan]

Lol at the pic zahro jam da di kom zegi ki paida kro

[Catya Sher]

Yeah. I hope she meant it the way I am taking it.
First I thought the creepy specimen was a bilingual Afghan....
[Is bilingual meaning both Pashto and Dari ?]

Kandahari Ella, what about taking up this discussion on a separate thread?

[IamDZJ]

Yeah. I hope she meant it the way I am taking it.
First I thought the creepy specimen was a bilingual Afghan....
[Is bilingual meaning both Pashto and Dari ?]

Kandahari Ella, what about taking up this discussion on a separate thread?

hello there miss scripted reality, your political correctness is beyond nauseating and you talk too much.
why don't you write a book on the subject??
o and just because i posted something on a thread where you happen to be blabbering as always doesn't mean it was directed at you. don't act all paranoid. it doesn't suit some one your age.

[IamDZJ]

DZJ stop being so fiesty and rude to our lovely member Catya who we admire for her amazing posts and writing skills.

last i checked you were still a no body in no position of telling me what to and what not to do.

[Catya Sher]

THANK YOU, laghmanking, I appreciate your forthright defense.
Now that's like an Afghan, yay, there are still some around here in the Forum.

dzj, go home and say some prayers - you sound like you are sound asleep.

[IamDZJ]

i know what you want but i am not going to tell any one if you promise to stop chewing on your nails like that.

[Shamaar]

I like them kharattah types.