arranged marriage

[Master Khan]

staso bia Ayub zama khaza kra lol

[Master Khan]

I never been to a pashtun wedding here.

[Alia]

i thought in uk there are livin many pashtun or not ??

[Dreamer]

I never been to a pashtun wedding here.

shame u shld have come 2 my sisters about 3 months ago... 500 ppl or so came

[Feroza_Banu]

as long as it is not a forced marriage.. arranged marriages are ok...

i was OK with it... but mine was not just arrange marriage...

talking out of experience... you can be 'in love' with a person before marriage but don't think you will hold the same feelings afterwards too. pre-marital love is only based on what we see and how much we know the person... it could be based on extreme physical attraction, or emotional. but love after marriage is a complete different case... you can never know a person unless you live with that person. when u start living with the person thatyou thought you love, you will know whether you really love the person or not.

alot of times love marriage fails because once the couple start living with each other, they simply can't stand each other. they can't stand each other's habits, characteristics, and way of life... love changes to hatered little by little...

i consider myself one of the lucky ones because in my case... the love I and my husband shared before marriage is simply NOTHING compared to how deeply in love we are now! after living with each other.

[Master Khan]

I been to weddings in the UK.
these pakistani people (which was a good wedding)
and my cousins...which my cousins did all the spendings...they did was take our cousin .
this proves that they only married because she was fair skinned lol.

[Master Khan]

as long as it is not a forced marriage.. arranged marriages are ok...

i was OK with it... but mine was not just arrange marriage...

talking out of experience... you can be 'in love' with a person before marriage but don't think you will hold the same feelings afterwards too. pre-marital love is only based on what we see and how much we know the person... it could be based on extreme physical attraction, or emotional. but love after marriage is a complete different case... you can never know a person unless you live with that person. when u start living with the person thatyou thought you love, you will know whether you really love the person or not.

alot of times love marriage fails because once the couple start living with each other, they simply can't stand each other. they can't stand each other's habits, characteristics, and way of life... love changes to hatered little by little...

i consider myself one of the lucky ones because in my case... the love I and my husband shared before marriage is simply NOTHING compared to how deeply in love we are now! after living with each other.

ooooh that soo cute!!! mashallah, allah di taso khoshala saati...I sound like a girl in this comment lol

[ayub]

^ master lol. Shabooos d pa deh see

[eyeliner]

^ lol, once again the fair skin thing

[Alia]

@ mk yeah you really sound like a girl ahhahaha xD
now we can be bestfriends xD

[eyeliner]

ayub.......the church bells are ringing

[ayub]

wahwah feroza so your family must be very liberal that you were allowed to have a boyfriend before marriage and fall I. Love with each other. Good for you. Even though in my family this would never be able to happen we are hardcore consevative pakthuns. Lol.

[Master Khan]

^ master lol. Shabooos d pa deh see

shabooos see?

^ lol, once again the fair skin thing

most mipuris loves light skin people! ...if a mupiries wants to marry then it would be because of your skin colour lol.

[ayub]

eyeliner: look how sad Alia is she looking for a bestie tranny friend ....she desperate she tryin it with master khan lol.

[Master Khan]

@ mk yeah you really sound like a girl ahhahaha xD
now we can be bestfriends xD

...so we was dushmanaan before