Children and religon

[IvNoName]

If I have kids and my wife is a Muslim, the children will be Muslim but they will not be indoctrinated. Once they're smart enough they should be able to decide what belief system they want to pursue.

They will also not be nationalized into being Afghan or whatever. They need to decide on those issues themselves.

Is this is a wise good idea?

[Shamlawar Khurasani]

If I have kids and my wife is a Muslim, the children will be Muslim but they will not be indoctrinated. Once they're smart enough they should be able to decide what belief system they want to pursue.

They will also not be nationalized into being Afghan or whatever. They need to decide on those issues themselves.

Is this is a wise good idea?

No.

[torkham]

Why would you confuse your kids. Since you the parents are Muslim and afghan,so they too will be raised with Islamic education and afghan identity, assuming you are afghan.
The idea of giving them choice is absurd. That confuses kids.
I think indoctrination is something else.

[Khostai]

I was raised with Islamic indoctrination since the age of 7, but it failed on me :P.

[HalloIsBack]

I was raised with Islamic indoctrination since the age of 7, but it failed on me :P.

me too lol although it was not islamic

as i started to get another view or critical they tried to shut me up but without any success

[Zarim]

Parents have the right to raise their children in conformity with their own religious convictions (within the boundaries of reason). Indoctrinating is however a different story. When I look around at the people from 'fundamental families' in my surroundings, I can say that most of them rebelled against the views of their parents.

Teach your children about your religion if you believe that that is the truth, but don't force them to believe anything. And more importantly, if they choose to believe something else, respect their right to choose.

[IvNoName]

I'm going to say something that might sound radical, but parents have no rights over their children. The parents don't do a favor to the children by bringing them to this world. In fact its children who end up sometimes being the only redeeming aspects of their parents.

One has no right to psychologically impair a child with religious indoctrination, for one, the moment they see the hypocrisy of the parents, they're going to feel betrayed and the parents will lose their influence.

The parents have the moral responsibility to bring up children with their best ability and prepare them for the harsh life.

[کیش]

don't get married my son, just like your old man. all you ever need is some weed.

[IvNoName]

Smoking weed is overcoming loneliness, smoking weed is inherently social, true addiction is alcohol. Drunks die alone.

[کیش]

Smoking weed is overcoming loneliness, smoking weed is inherently social, true addiction is alcohol. Drunks die alone.

i'm 27 and I have no problem being alone for another 27 years. You get used to being alone after so many years. as long as you got grass. I turned down a marriage offer just last month. im just not interedted

I must sound sterile

[IvNoName]

i'm 27 and I have no problem being alone for another 27 years. You get used to being alone after so many years. as long as you got grass. I turned down a marriage offer just last month. im just not interedted

I must sound sterile

You sound like someone on the cusp of madness.

[Pakwatan]

I'm going to say something that might sound radical, but parents have no rights over their children. The parents don't do a favor to the children by bringing them to this world. In fact its children who end up sometimes being the only redeeming aspects of their parents.

One has no right to psychologically impair a child with religious indoctrination, for one, the moment they see the hypocrisy of the parents, they're going to feel betrayed and the parents will lose their influence.

The parents have the moral responsibility to bring up children with their best ability and prepare them for the harsh life.

Parents are the ones that give you birth, clean your ass, and give their wealth for your education.

There is no religious indoctrination. Don't be a kaafir.

Those same parents are the ones that brought you up with the values that they are providing for you today.

I stole money from my mother once to buy a slingshot/galel, and I was caught, she said to me "If I wanted to raise a pig, I would have raised a pig".

She didn't talk to me for two weeks and I realized what the importance of parents are.

Ultimately you can be whoever you want to be, so there is no need to drag your parents and blaming them for your failure.

[Pakwatan]

i'm 27 and I have no problem being alone for another 27 years. You get used to being alone after so many years. as long as you got grass. I turned down a marriage offer just last month. im just not interedted

I must sound sterile

Salaam wror,

I am interested in knowing why you don't want to be married.

Is it because you are not financially stable?

In history, even homosexual men married women, and had children to spread their Khandan.

Why are you not interested in marriage?

[کیش]

Salaam wror,

I am interested in knowing why you don't want to be married.

Is it because you are not financially stable?

In history, even homosexual men married women, and had children to spread their Khandan.

Why are you not interested in marriage?

I have lost the will to live, including every aspect of life (no homo) a long time ago. that is why.

I just do this everyday

[Pakwatan]

I have lost the will to live, including every aspect of life (no homo) a long time ago. that is why.

I just do this everyday

Kyun yaara?

It seems like someone has broken your heart.

So tell me the true story.