Best advice in the world

[Mr. X]

"Everyone should learn from their own mistakes, but smart people learn from other people's mistakes."

good advice? smart members what say you'all

[$hiva]

Flawless logic. We all live such identical lives with identical circumstances...



I have reached a stage where I no longer trust my own judgment in emotional matters. She is my emotions; I follow her lead. It sounds lazy but its true... If she says someone is my friend that person is my friend, if she says someone is my enemy, that person is my enemy. After the crap that I have put her through and she still never give up on me, I basically owe her my life. I'm what I'm today thanks to her.

She was always right, I was always wrong.

And I feel sick when I think about what I have put her through. because of me she has become overanxious and paranoid. I have to live with that guilt. I can never say sorry to her because no words can express the depth of my remorse. And I need not preface this with something like 'its true' because she already knows if I'm lying or telling the truth.

[Shamlawar Khurasani]

Flawless logic. We all live such identical lives with identical circumstances...



I have reached a stage where I no longer trust my own judgment in emotional matters. She is my emotions; I follow her lead. It sounds lazy but its true... If she says someone is my friend that person is my friend, if she says someone is my enemy, that person is my enemy. After the crap that I have put her through and she still never give up on me, I basically owe her my life. I'm what I'm today thanks to her.

She was always right, I was always wrong.

And I feel sick when I think about what I have put her through. because of me she has become overanxious and paranoid. I have to live with that guilt. I can never say sorry to her because no words can express the depth of my remorse. And I need not preface this with something like 'its true' because she already knows if I'm lying or telling the truth.

After reading this i am surprised why you didnt use taxi driver as your avatar.

[$hiva]

My take on the quote is simple, its dumb and more so coming from someone posting photos of bowling balls to boast about her... Posted for fun but someone got upset... Wheres my phone...

[$hiva]

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[Mr. X]

Flawless logic. We all live such identical lives with identical circumstances...

forget that. think of of it this way, what kind of cruel person looks for other peoples mistakes?

[$hiva]

forget that. think of of it this way, what kind of cruel person looks for other peoples mistakes?

There are smart cruel people, and there are dumb cruel people. Since I fall into the latter category, I really have nothing much to add.

[Mr. X]

i feel bad about creating this thread. sorry

[DaZahroJaam.]

Flawless logic. We all live such identical lives with identical circumstances...



I have reached a stage where I no longer trust my own judgment in emotional matters. She is my emotions; I follow her lead. It sounds lazy but its true... If she says someone is my friend that person is my friend, if she says someone is my enemy, that person is my enemy. After the crap that I have put her through and she still never give up on me, I basically owe her my life. I'm what I'm today thanks to her.

She was always right, I was always wrong.

And I feel sick when I think about what I have put her through. because of me she has become overanxious and paranoid. I have to live with that guilt. I can never say sorry to her because no words can express the depth of my remorse. And I need not preface this with something like 'its true' because she already knows if I'm lying or telling the truth.

whether a man or a woman, it's always important to have one's own identity. she/he is my everything and he or she is always right and i am wrong is garbage talk. if you made a mistake and she or he does care for you, she or he should consider forgiving you. they are not obliged to forgiving you but i am sure if you meant something to them at a certain time and they are worth your love or respect in future, they will try. a heartfelt apology can mean alot as long as it's not followed by the same type of bull**** that it was proceeded by. whether they forgive you or not, once you truly realize your mistakes, you owe it to the person.

[$hiva]

whether a man or a woman, it's always important to have one's own identity. she/he is my everything and he or she is always right and i am wrong is garbage talk. if you made a mistake and she or he does care for you, she or he should consider forgiving you. they are not obliged to forgiving you but i am sure if you meant something to them at a certain time and they are worth your love or respect in future, they will try. a heartfelt apology can mean alot as long as it's not followed by the same type of bull**** that it was proceeded by. whether they forgive you or not, once you truly realize your mistakes, you owe it to the person.

The most painful part for me is the knowledge that she has forgiven me. Or to put it another way, she has always has forgiven me. That pretty much kills me.

[DaZahroJaam.]

well, when you love someone, you are supposed to support them, be their backbone and give them wings to fly with, not to torment them emotionally or create insecurities in their minds. she may have or will forgive you for the next little while but she will grow tired of it sooner than later.
your situation is not as bad as you make it sound. you made a mistake, she forgave you. fix your bad habits and live happily ever after. so much love between two individuals goes to waste due to others creating obstacles for them and what don't they do to overcome those obstacles.. the least you can do is not create problems for each other.

[$hiva]

I don't know anything about love, I'm a brute underneath my westernized bs. Perhaps that is why she loves me, because she knows that I'm inherently stupid... Naturally as a stupid brute I only have a primitive sense of loyalty, and that is all I can give her.

As a primitive brute I also dislike English language because it makes everything sound like a f'n essay. I will say what I'm saying now in my own language and in my own way of saying it, inshallah.

[Mr. X]

As a primitive brute I also dislike English language because it makes everything sound like a f'n essay.

glad that your humor is back... come on say something in you your language... common!!!

DaZahroJaam, thank you jaan

[$hiva]

bi hamagan basar shawad bitu basar namishwad
dagh tu darad een dilam jai digar namishwad



I have no idea where that came from... I always suspected that she had some powerful backers...