Qarz or qarza

[AnGaaR]

Salamoona

Handsome guys and Paighlo injono.......

Lets talk about qarza ..

A friend comes to u and asks for some money.. u give him/her.. when u r in need of it you dont get it back.. it happened to me many times.. right now i was in need of money and asked my friend to return it, he was like.. os kho neshta bia ba yai darkum.. another friend wanted to goto europe,, i gave him alot of money which he promised to return in 6 months... 5 yrs passed but no clue.. the worse part is that whenever i pay them money, they forget the money and me.. they never call to ask how am i lol

i am fed up now.. nooooooo more qarza..




what do u guys say about it?
if we are in need of money so should we take from others? even if we take shouldnt we return it asap?

have u given qarza to someone? did u get it back? did u take qarza from someone?


lets talk about it caz other topix r dead right now

[AnGaaR]

Deathmatch.. some friends are matlabi but its yet very difficult to know ur friend very well

[Feroza_Banu]

well... hopefully u will learn ur lesson one day and not let them borrow money from u...

[AnGaaR]

The problem is you should always someone before you lend someone money. It is sunnat.

you should always somoene before.... what do u mean shlombay? i didnt get u

[IamDZJ]

ever since i have started working i have not asked any one for anything. i only ask my brother knowing he will never refuse if he has it and he asks me when he is in need. and he never takes money back when you pay him... not even our parents.
i used to be like you. now when some one i know is effing around asks me i simply tell them i don't have any. the good part is that my friends don't ask. i wish some of them did because they have families and children or their partners don't work or got laid off and i am just saving my money or blowing it off on silly things...

[AnGaaR]

^ what if ur very close friend comes to u and says shez in need of money.. she needs it badly.. wont u give it to her?

One came to me and said my mom is sick (laters i got that he wanted to buy a bike lol)
other came n said i need to go to pakistan.. i need money plz this that..

other said i need visa of dubai so help me out
some said medical problems


this is how they take ur money

[Khan]

Salamoona

Handsome guys and Paighlo injono.......

Lets talk about qarza ..

A friend comes to u and asks for some money.. u give him/her.. when u r in need of it you dont get it back.. it happened to me many times.. right now i was in need of money and asked my friend to return it, he was like.. os kho neshta bia ba yai darkum.. another friend wanted to goto europe,, i gave him alot of money which he promised to return in 6 months... 5 yrs passed but no clue.. the worse part is that whenever i pay them money, they forget the money and me.. they never call to ask how am i lol

i am fed up now.. nooooooo more qarza..




what do u guys say about it?
if we are in need of money so should we take from others? even if we take shouldnt we return it asap?

have u given qarza to someone? did u get it back? did u take qarza from someone?


lets talk about it caz other topix r dead right now

With this eye-blinding color you use, they should never return your loan. :p

[AnGaaR]

Khan

With this eye-blinding color you use, they should never your loan. :p

np i wil give u loan to get New pair of Chushmai :P

[AnGaaR]

Hey Angaar,

In my opinion the best thing is to turn them down.

Pas la goza charzano?
Os kho yai akheistai da os ba sa kawum

and ofcoarse i do refuze all of them now..

[Son of Mountains]

Qarz ki peetay thay Maey,aur samajhtay thay k han,
Rang Laaway gi hamaari faaqa masti aik din.........!!
(Ghalib)

[Roshina]

Handsome guys and Paighlo injono.......

RRUUUUDE!!! Handsome guys and paighlo injono?!

It should read: Handsome guys and khaapero injono! (k, fine - "khaista injono" would do as well!)

Hmph!

As for the question ... yeah, well, you don't lend money to just acquaintances. You lend it to only extremely close friends -- you know, the type of friends who call you names out of love and respect The ones whom you are in such close touch with that you can call frequently. To others, you just say, "Got no extra money right now." OR just remind them that you're a married man and have a lotta responsibilities on your head. If they have some respect for themselves, they will back off.

Many times, you can judge from their personality whether they're likely to return the money, or at least be there for you when you need them badly, or not. And lend money to folks just so they can visit another country?! :O No way... unless it was an emergency or something, like their old mother/father was dying or longing to see them or something. Otherwise, for just a luxurious visit? Hell no.

[AnGaaR]

I would give Qarz to people I trust a lot and respect a lot.

Nazia gulai.. thats what i did too.. i didnt give qarz to strangers.. i gave it to very close friends of mine.

oh well.. atleast they made me not to give qarz to anyone anymore..
it was so rude when my mor jana (mom) asked me for 500 dirhams and i said.. qarz mai band karai da
ops i remember my momand miss her so much



anyways.. so qarz awal dasai wei laka qand, bia janjal shei aw bia jang

sometimes you cant say No to everyone

[AnGaaR]

laghmankinga.... dont u count ur best best friend as ur family member?

[Admin Khan]

Friends make you smile, Family makes you cry.

[AnGaaR]

Friends make you smile, Family makes you cry.

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