is it weird for a man to learn how to sew?

[emkhan]

Segregation segregation segregation

[Iqra]

yay....it shows you're in touch with your feminine side ....chicks eat that stuff up.

you'll get lot of babes now bro ....go for it.

ohhhhhh Good idea ... I am going to learn to sew for the ladies too

I'm thinking of going on a sewing course to learn how to make traditional female clothes amongst other things etc. What do you think yay or nay?

The holy prophet peace be upon him used to sew his own clothes.


so did Umar ibn khattab radiallahu anhu.

still sewing clothes for women requires that you measure their bodies and be familiar with the different proportions of sizes.

Usually when people ask these types of decision question, they have already made up their mind...so it's up to you bro.

Khyber Khan, maybe you should learn how to sew traditional men clothing and later on with the assistance of a female taking the measurements and what not of the female, you can sew traditional female clothing too?

[Iqra]

Segregation segregation segregation

Is this where the "Shut Up" button would be used?

[emkhan]

Is this where the "Shut Up" button would be used?

Sister, it is better for you and all our women otherwise everything will be collapsed as we have seen in the west. They are now crying for their family system to come back but can not do anything now.

[ScimitarXEdge]

the best tailors and hair dressers are biologicaly male. a definite yay.

basically men are awesome at pretty much everything. *flexes guns*

[ScimitarXEdge]

including you! how you disrespect women and you dont want wife you want a servant.

No; you can't have intimate relations with your servants.

[Notorious Pashtana]

In west what good have you done...??? you have brought men in women's slavery.
If this is what you want in our countries then let me tell you, you are just wasting your time.
in my countries none of these is slave but we give respect to each others.

Actually emkhan, i beg to differ on what pashtun men are like in the west. We are pashtuns so lets concentrate on ourselves here for a minute.

from what i have observed, pashtun men are of 4 kinds.

1st kind is into marrying non-pashtun women and living the western life.
2nd kind is into marrying non-pashtun women and forcing them to learn the pashtun way of life and living like pashtanay.
3rd kind is into marrying pashtanay to keep the house running while they galavant with other women on the streets
4th kind is into marrying pashtanay and "making" them work for extra income in the house because they have a flock to feed back home and can't manage it alone.

A handful of the leftover men are capable of living decent lives within pashtun and islamic values and are able to support their families in the west and back home. Pretty much everyone I know in person would prefer these leftovers, so your claim that women have brought on men slavery is totally inaccurate if I consider real life examples.

However, which category of men do "you" fall in?

[faye]

i agree scimitarx, they are very good at lots of things including invideous inferences and aggression, destroying the planet, inventing amazing weapons with depleted uranium etc.
historically women have not had the opportunities to be educated to the same degree and have been idly flopping about the homes letting the food cook itself, the housework do itself and the babies change their own nappies, whilst they gossiped (ask emkhan) but arecatching up slowly, including in the fields of aggression.

[ScimitarXEdge]

Let's be fair here; care taking of the home and cooking are normal activities which are intend to attain family life and historically this has been the general domestic role for women EVERYWHERE even in the West for most of human civilization; the only reasons things have changed now in America/Europe is because people are lazy and spoiled brats and have developed the minds of children.

hence you hear the juvenile and spoiled brat reactions of "ewww you just want a servant".

No; this isnt servitude these are standard responsibilities of domestic life; if there are certain extremely mentally under developed women here who believe it is; then you only demonstrate how shallowly irresponsible, incompetent and useless in life you are.

what benefit are you to anyone? May as well hang yourselves.

[ScimitarXEdge]

i agree scimitarx, they are very good at lots of things including invideous inferences and aggression, destroying the planet, inventing amazing weapons with depleted uranium etc.
historically women have not had the opportunities to be educated to the same degree and have been idly flopping about the homes letting the food cook itself, the housework do itself and the babies change their own nappies, whilst they gossiped (ask emkhan) but arecatching up slowly, including in the fields of aggression.

and yet women still reap the benefits, by putting on make up, wearing nice clearn fine clothes, eating delicious food, having a roof over their homes, being given jobs....that we dont actually need them to do but because they need it to feel better about themselves ...we're emotionally black mailed into giving anyways.

you ladies grimace at the ugliness but have no problem reaping it's benefits. How quaint

[faye]

so, the only thing women are good at is emotional blackmail, is that what you are saying?

[Iqra]

Sister, it is better for you and all our women otherwise everything will be collapsed as we have seen in the west. They are now crying for their family system to come back but can not do anything now.

I am not a sister..

[Notorious Pashtana]

Scimi I speak for myself when I say that women do not prefer 9-5 stressful jobs and then coming home to hungry kids, tired husbands and messy homes. The fact remains that most men I have seen are making their women work, and demand full attention towards the house as well, with little or no help. It's 50/50 when it comes to finances because "thats how it is in the west" but 100/0 when it comes to the house because "we are pashtuns and this is our way of life". That's also not fair is it?

[Iqra]

and yet women still reap the benefits, by putting on make up, wearing nice clearn fine clothes, eating delicious food, having a roof over their homes, being given jobs....that we dont actually need them to do but because they need it to feel better about themselves ...we're emotionally black mailed into giving anyways.

you ladies grimace at the ugliness but have no problem reaping it's benefits. how quaint

lollll

[Iqra]

Scimi I speak for myself when I say that women do not prefer 9-5 stressful jobs and then coming home to hungry kids, tired husbands and messy homes. The fact remains that most men I have seen are making their women work, and demand full attention towards the house as well, with little or no help. It's 50/50 when it comes to finances because "thats how it is in the west" but 100/0 when it comes to the house because "we are pashtuns and this is our way of life". That's also not fair is it?

Actually some of the Educated (okay I only know of one pashtun guy who has a child and helps out his wife a lot as she works but I don't know many people..etc etc thus I say some as I don't know everyone) people are a bit different