Hijab bathing suit

[randolph85]

a woman in a bikini, that a general description which doesn't specifically imply someone who look like a monster or like that fat black girl from precious. but if u want to get into the specifics of it, there are ugly women and women who aren't ugly.

[Pakhtunzai]

No, I would not wear it. I would wear something more revealing and easy to swim in. Thats too much cloth for a swimming suit. Why? Because, first of all, I would NOT swim in the presence of men, thus absolutely no need to cover to that extent. Secondly, Hijaab is not limited to covering your hair. Theres much more to it.

You know the Hadeeth that says that one of the signs of the day of Judgement is that tight clothing among women will become so common, to the extent that it will look like they've been painted on her, revealing everything - this suit is a clear example of that. Not a nice sight. I still remember how much I laughed when I first saw it...

I totally agree, simply put women shouldn't be in the presence of men anyway and vice versa. Thank you for this post

Me and my friend went to the gym sauna once and we had no clue women went there too. Until one awkward moment we were sat in the room and a woman with bikini walked in and sat next to my friend, he got so fidgety looking at me and trying not to look at her then a min later we just wanted to get out and jump in the steam room. I got seriously annoyed, theres a gym for women so why don't they go there ufff. I think that was one of the last times we went there.

[faye]

pakhtunzai, that is your problem but you are blaming the woman. when i was younger i went for a short time to a gym. there were men and women there. i just did my thing not caring who was there. i was there for doing the exercises and that was it. when you are not from a segregated culture these kind of things are not an issue.

[randolph85]

pakhtunzai, that is your problem but you are blaming the woman. when i was younger i went for a short time to a gym. there were men and women there. i just did my thing not caring who was there. i was there for doing the exercises and that was it. when you are not from a segregated culture these kind of things are not an issue.

what is to blame is the social conditions where mixing in compromising situations such as being almost naked is possible. as a guy who has grown up in the west among other guys in the west, i can guarantee u that when a guy sees a woman like that, they are not thinking about them as a person but as a sexual piece of meat.

[faye]

ok. then those men have a problem, if that is how they think about other human beings, as apiece of meat.

[randolph85]

well when men see women with little clothes on, thats how it is. when a guy looks at a barely clothed woman, they are not thinking about their mind, personality, honor, dignity....they are thinking about the goods. i dont think anyone buys a playboy magazine for respectable reasons.

hence, its best to keep the sexes separated when it comes to bathing suits and bikinis.

[faye]

i have known thousands of men who don't think like this. if every man thought like this there would be tents in every mans bathers at the beach. i have never noticed this to be the case. many societies throughout history were naked. you think all the men raced around with erections the whole time and their lives were just one big orgy? according to the records that is not the case.

[طالب]

Probably a money making scam.

Naa, I remember reading an article in the local liberal paper about Arab women lifeguards. There was a picture of one of them wearing the suit. Can't remember what country it was.

[faye]

possibly australia. i am pretty sure thay are doing it here.

[roadrunner]

Randolph, you appear to be extremely sexually naive. Men do not act as one unit when it comes to women, or even as feminist faye would put it "as a piece of meat" when scantily clad.

It sounds as if you're spouting what your Mullah or internet Mullah has been telling you, that any "normal" man will act like a pervert.

It's quite the opposite, most normal men won't act like perverts. Even if they are, their self dignity overpowers any perversion they may have.

How do you know your Mullah is not the pervert?

[طالب]

possibly australia. i am pretty sure thay are doing it here.

IIRC it was an Arab country.

[faye]

good to see some redeemable features in pf's very own, 'sensitive new age guy', roadrunner.

[roadrunner]

what's there to redeem?

[faye]

your reputation as a serial pest and a woman basher, roadie.

[roadrunner]

ah, you mean the telling the truth.