aww catya sher thank you so much yeah they constanly just brought up things but i tried my best to answer things a few girl actually read that who dont really come on here now that often but sent lovely messages how they understood and are in simliar situtions but their happy so it was amazing to get support from people who arent logging in that often but floating around the sight now and again , im so glad to hear from you your a girl your self catya sher and a amazing debater and poster i appreciate what youve just said its always m16 who brings this stuff up with me constantly hes done it 2 other threads too , grew in all girls private schools the 1st ones were opened by my own families back in the 80s but catholic people have segregated scholls any way in uk he uni i go to belongs to rich catholic buissness men its private my father pays quite a high fee but so do my uncles their daughters go there too theres 5 of us in the same uni