LOL its okay. I dont think makeup is an adornment either....maybe because i dont have that sort of mind lol.

I mean i understand what modesty is and where the lines start and end.....but a man needs to be modest too, meaning he should 'lower his gaze' aka stop looking dammit!!! lol i mean i dont know how else to say it in simpler terms.

If you like the piercing, get a fake gem. Where it everyday everywhere. If you get good and nice responses.....go for the real deal. But if your family and other Muslim/Afghan community gives you a hard time, maybe it will be a bad idea then