Poha shwam ... right there are so many, I may need time to figure this out.

Perhaps you might help me out with the ones that you know because I know in Urdu a sister-in-law is a bhabi, nanand, jetani, devrani, blah blah depending on where she figures in the family tree. I have some Pashto equivalents, but you see, one I've never been able to figure - which in Urdu goes by the word "Sandoo" I think (and sounds damn impolite) is what the husbands of two sisters would call one another.