Well, you're right ... at least this way, we get to have some intellectual discussions and nothing less. But I don't see what the fuss has to be about and why . . . I mean, don't you learn anything on here? I know I certainly do! People should be happy when they confront an opposing perspective, and I can't understand why they wouldn't be ... I sometimes worry what happens if I run out of stuff to say :O I mean, imagine that, especially with a life partner! And so, the hope is that the life partner will have some different beliefs (not the important ones, of course ... meaning, I won't be able to handle a typical Muslim type of guy; gosh, that'd be torture!) ... but if we have some religious differences and political and personal and all, I'd think that'd be exciting! means we'd NEVER run out of things to say :D or reasons to fight :p what's the fun if you can't fight? lol