khuday pa aman

[Zari]

have u ever had a moment in ur life were u have to choose between 2 things and u knw that if u choose one ur gonna loose the other...even if the other puts a fake smile on and tells u hes ok with it...but deep inside u have a feeling that if u pick the other ur never gonna be same with the one u love....
well that wat im going through rite knw....
i have decided to leave pashtunforums on my own account......no ones forcing me to leave...

i knw im never gonna regret this...cux this is only gonna be bringing me closer to my loved ones....
ive gottent to knw sooo many ppl on this site..and im gonna miss each and everyone of u...

keep me alive in ur hearts everyone.....

long live hakimullah and pashtunforums..

tcxxxxxxxxxx.....

allah pa aman...

OoOo...p.s. can the moderators or the admin plxxxxxxxxxxxx dissactivate my account.......
it would be greatly appreciated.....

anyhoooooo tcxxxxxxxx....everyone...im gonna miss ya'll

[Pakhtunzai]

I understand khor, I was about to leave for my education but I was on the verge of 5 months holiday so in the end I decided to stick around.

Insha allah you will be closer to your loved ones

Take care of yourself dear sister..we will never forget your enthusiasm and your uplifting behavior..

Insha allah may you achieve your aims in your life

But please don't delete the account..just visit us now and again kha?

[Master Khan]

I am going to miss you , You was the only I spoke to on messages .
May allah keep you happy.

[AnGaaR]

oh have a great time.. but come back soon

[Admin Khan]

I completely understand what your going through. Say no more. I wish you good luck with your future endeavors. It was not only an honor but a pleasure to have you in our community.

[Laila]

Awww sweetie....it was great knowing you. You know what is best for yourself. I wish you a good and happy, prosperous life. Keep that beautiful smile of yours, and bring joy in everything you do.

When you get married, blessings to you and your family. You are a good person, sweet, and full of life. Do not change! lol

i will always remember you dear. Good bye =)

[Badlun]

i dont know how a forum on net and some one,s personal life can have a clash. Time, exams, job, health can be valid reasons for leaving a discussion forum like this but not reasons like marriage, engagement, parents etc. We should have that much confidence in an emotional relationship to let our beloved ones to participate at least in net based social activities if not in practical life.

Mistrust, jealousy . no confidence and extremists approach like not talking to na moharrams, friends, male, female gender issues are all quite psychological disorders not social issues. If we love or like some one let her or him to do what he or she want , not to imprison or restrict that person. Even such activities can be done jointly as we have few couples here.

Pashtoongal is a typical example of the human resources waste that we have in Pashtun society where women are not allowed to participate in social, economic, cultural , political and mixed educational and religious activities. This trend must be discouraged.

I request Pashtungal to convince her beloved ones to let her participate here as her personal life and participation here can never have a clash.

[Azmatullah]

Take care of yourself... come back when you can.

[Feroza_Banu]

i dont know how a forum on net and some one,s personal life can have a clash. Time, exams, job, health can be valid reasons for leaving a discussion forum like this but not reasons like marriage, engagement, parents etc. We should have that much confidence in an emotional relationship to let our beloved ones to participate at least in net based social activities if not in practical life.

Mistrust, jealousy . no confidence and extremists approach like not talking to na moharrams, friends, male, female gender issues are all quite psychological disorders not social issues. If we love or like some one let her or him to do what he or she want , not to imprison or restrict that person. Even such activities can be done jointly as we have few couples here.

Pashtoongal is a typical example of the human resources waste that we have in Pashtun society where women are not allowed to participate in social, economic, cultural , political and mixed educational and religious activities. This trend must be discouraged.

I request Pashtungal to convince her beloved ones to let her participate here as her personal life and participation here can never have a clash.

thank you for your meaningful post.

i can't seem to understand how she has to pick between forum and her loved ones... shouldn't there be no comparison between forum and the people that u love?...

[pir_Rokhan]

i dont know how a forum on net and some one,s personal life can have a clash. Time, exams, job, health can be valid reasons for leaving a discussion forum like this but not reasons like marriage, engagement, parents etc. We should have that much confidence in an emotional relationship to let our beloved ones to participate at least in net based social activities if not in practical life.

Mistrust, jealousy . no confidence and extremists approach like not talking to na moharrams, friends, male, female gender issues are all quite psychological disorders not social issues. If we love or like some one let her or him to do what he or she want , not to imprison or restrict that person. Even such activities can be done jointly as we have few couples here.

Pashtoongal is a typical example of the human resources waste that we have in Pashtun society where women are not allowed to participate in social, economic, cultural , political and mixed educational and religious activities. This trend must be discouraged.

I request Pashtungal to convince her beloved ones to let her participate here as her personal life and participation here can never have a clash.

Seconding and corroborating Osho

I would like to add that these forums are a way of catharsis for Pashtuns women in particular who are going through a trauma of 30 years of war devastation winessing their loved ones being killed for Pakistani and Saudi vested interests in Afghanistan in addition to state terrorism ,human rights violation , exploitation, ethnic cleansing and genocide in Pakistan. The loved ones of our dear sisters themself need a gaddamned education while our Pashtun women need to convince their kith and kins.

[MeemWawMeemNoon]

Do whatever it takes to protect yourself and your future. In order to have a peaceful marriage you and your spouse must do whatever it takes to make it function. If leaving here is the way, then all the power to you.

We are not made for everyone and everyone is not made for us: each to his or her own. You have to do whatever makes you and your loved ones happy.

Fee Aman Illah!

[mashaal]

OMG....ur leaving.....

UR THE ONLY REASON I JOINED...chicka....fone me and tell me wat happened...

[Sheenka]

Nah,
thank god and i hope it will never happen
when i left my school i was so glad LOL