WHy was Unknown Banned?

[qunduz92]

Dear Mods,

Please dont delete this topic first off.

Why was unknown prince banned from the site? I didnt see him breaking rules. It seems as though Tor Khan used personal bias when deciding to ban him because I feel that he did not get treated fairly.

[Sheenka]

msg the mods and ask

[qunduz92]

Adam, it was mainly the double standards i was seeking to question.

how come repeated violaters and perverts are left to run on the loose harassing pashtun women forum members right and left, encouraging and supporting the deaths and execution of pashtun people, psychos who threaten to hurt forum members and so forth?

Are there any rules that exist here or is this some fake platform where rowdy non-pashtuns assimilate and go wild?

[qunduz92]

msg the mods and ask

why cant i ask them all here? these concerns relate to all of us including you and we should all take part.

[tor_khan]

I generally have a calm and collected head. I think I make sound judgements.

I don't agree with every opinion that is floated past me. I do accept challenge. It makes me review what I think.

I don't agree with name calling.

I don't, as it happens, agree with trial by public forum.

That's all I have to say about the matter.

[IamDZJ]

i was dying to know at first but then i decided it is none of my business.

[Catya Sher]

The truth is not savory.

Here is the version given to me not by Unknown who nobly refused to discuss the situation or defend himself, a virtue in itself.

Female members or one female member exaggerated or perhaps even told
a lie about what Unknown had said.

Can anyone imagine Unknown saying anything outrageous or rude to a woman
on this Forum? He barely said any insult to the Above, despite perpetual
tormenting by her.

So why would he say anything SO bad to other women here?

But the complaints were believed and to me, unfair action was taken.

That's my take on this. Someone else may have more perspective than I.

[Michin Khel]

what unknownprince is banned? I am shocked, he was pretty decent fellow. It must be very huge reason due to which he got banned

[Laila]

I am really sick and at bedrest (please keep me in your duas)......so this took a lot to log on, but i felt it was needed for me to respond.

I will take a little bit off of the moderator's plate.

Here is my side. Unknownprince has every right to say his side of the story and defend himself.

Last week while on a thread it was mentioned that I knew how to make a 'fake' profile, and that i would do put a 'photo' of a member from here up on it.

Now i would directly show you the quote; however, I dont think the post from there is no longer valid.

Now here is my response: No, I did not post anyone, absolutely anyone's photos.....and even put it on some random dating/marriage website. To me, that is a total disrespect to another member, especially a female....a Pashtuna member. I respect everyone's own right to privacy and space......so taking someones photos is out of the norm for me, and something i would not be okay with if it had happened to me. So whether Unknown was being serious or not, i didnt appreciate it. I did feel that he was accusing me of doing such an act.

I did get in contact with a moderator(s) and let them know 'hey i dont know whether someone is accusing me of such thing.....but i would like an admin to just get to the bottom of it and clear it up because i wasnt sure if this incident actually happened or the seriousness and what not.....just to clear misunderstandings, that is all. Then i was contacted by two other female members that he had done the same thing to them.

So no, i dont think Unknown should have gotten banned. I have nothing against him, not a grudge. But i do think he should have approached it completely differently. Instead, he should have personally messaged me and voiced his concern and asked if i had done it. I would have given him the most honest answer.

So I do hope this clears it up So when Unknown comes back, he can speak to clear up the misunderstanding, or he can simply ignore it and move on from it

[Michin Khel]

So it was because of you, you paranoid freak
as usual khaza fitnay sabab jorra shwa

[Laila]

^ Actually, he was able to avoid his ban.

[IamDZJ]

ham maar ye, ham pa kaar ye
hum wranay kawe, ham jaarre

one has no right of accusing someone else of having done something that nasty if they were not sure about it. if you are sure about it and you are genuinely concerned then you may approach someone with the plan of making the situation better than worse. the fact that multiple members were approached indicates that you were not sure what you were doing which gives you no right to accuse someone with wrong allegations. and the fact that you chose someone like laila to approach with your allegation proves that your intentions are not that good to begin with either.

sounds to me like a classic case of moronic behavior of a lowlife using the reputation of two different parties by framing one and then accusing the other so he/she can raise to glory by playing the role of the ultimate "hero". too bad it backfired.

i would also like to take this opportunity to announce how left out i feel at the moment. no one accused me of anything.

[Michin Khel]

^ Actually, he was able to avoid his ban.

You should have judged his overall character on forum before reporting to staff. You must have known that female related reporting is taken very seriously among pashtun staff on this forum. In real life pashtun commit murders on small matters related to women like this one.

[Laila]

You should have judged his overall character on forum before reporting to staff. You must have known that female related reporting is taken very seriously among pashtun staff on this forum. In real life pashtun commit murders on small matters related to women like this one.

I reported it to the moderator after i was approached by two female members saying he had done the same thing to them.

And, i also PM'ed Unknown and told him it was unnecessary what he said.....he did not bother answering me back.

[Catya Sher]

Good reply by Luffy, the last one above.
That is the central point.
Perhaps Unknown was trying to locate who had taken one of our members' photos
and done that.
So he wrongly accused 3 women members - big deal -!
Not the end of the world, to say the least.
They could simply say " NO I did not do that ".
It seems over-alarmist to contact the moderators for such a reason.
Then when one really needs them for something serious,
they won't have energy to reply!

Sounds overall like a gigantic misunderstanding with possible overreaction.

How about a compromise, of letting him return
May 1 ?