Low Faith in our People Sometimes

[Laila]

Woah....dang we also have a cleaning lady.....gotta keep an eye on her now. Though i havent noticed anything missing

[Shamaar]

Woah....dang we also have a cleaning lady.....gotta keep an eye on her now. Though i havent noticed anything missing

Wallah, take it from me - just get rid of her. I am always going to do the dirty work from now on. It's way better than having your stuff swiped.

[Laila]

Wallah, take it from me - just get rid of her. I am always going to do the dirty work from now on. It's way better than having your stuff swiped.

Well she has been trustworthy. We have had her for nearly 6 years now. But it wouldnt be hurt to be cautious with anything around the house. But after your post, its a wake up call, you can never be cautious enough.


Plus, we need her :D

[Shamaar]

Yeah, I guess there are decent ones out there too. And if you've had her for 6 years without any problems then that's a good sign too. Keep her

[Laila]

Yeah, I guess there are decent ones out there too. And if you've had her for 6 years without any problems then that's a good sign too. Keep her

Yeah, she is a really nice lady. Sometimes i will be out, and maybe only one person is home. And so far, nothing is missing. But still, your post made me realize even though she is trustworthy, it still doesnt hurt to not leave things out so that they can possibly be taken.

[unknownprince]

man all you guys had the life ^^^^^

But yeah, I would strongly suggest not to go to the filthy police. She is still a Muslim, and its not worth letting them have the chance to bother her and her family. If there are a lot of Pashtuns in your area, get an elder woman to talk to her (or even better a group of elder women who can ask her about this).

[Shamaar]

But yeah, I would strongly suggest not to go to the filthy police. She is still a Muslim, and its not worth letting them have the chance to bother her and her family. If there are a lot of Pashtuns in your area, get an elder woman to talk to her (or even better a group of elder women who can ask her about this).

Bro, I get what you are saying and all but you have to admit the people here usually have higher moral values than our own. The police aren't really going to bother her if they have no reason to do so, and talking to her isn't really bothering.

If it was a non-Pashtun I would be disappointed too, but in this case it hurts more since it reflects badly on our people as a whole. This makes me want to make even more effort to drive the point home to her.

I mean, I have no reason to cause her personal or emotional harm, but the fact remains that what she did is wrong. It would be better for her, since she is in this kind of business, to correct her ways now rather than someone pressing more serious charges against her in the future. Many people here have security cameras installed and if she were to be caught on one of them then she might face serious issues.

Firstly, I am just going to inquire with the police as to what can be done in this type of situation. If they have no solutions then I will have to use other means.

[amna.]

Shamaar I was in the very similar case as you are. We ended up just firing her and learning our lessons.

[شمله ور خراساني]

Tasbih has no religious significance. Its bid'ah.

And telling these stories online only harms people. Because if the relatives of this servant of yours read this, this wont bring your tasbih back. But this will hurt the status of this woman even more.

And Shamaar! You are actually backbiting right now.

[Shamaar]

Shamaar,
I hope you get your tasbih back. I have prayed for your recovery.

Dera, dera manena Afghanprincess khor. That means a lot to me.


And thank you شمله ور خراساني wror too for your priceless input.