Pashtun wedding traditions

[Dreamer]

u made it so easy, i would never go to wedding like urs

God wants life 2 be easy... its humanity who over complicate things

[Sheenka]

not easy like this, god also has said to enjoy ur life too, and u dont do wedding everyday do u?

[Dreamer]

not easy like this, god also has said to enjoy ur life too, and u dont do wedding everyday do u?

End of the day what I mentioned are the only necessary things for a wedding... all else is cultural/ additions.... none of which is necessary

[Sheenka]

do pashtun ppl dance with knif, before cutting the cake??

End of the day what I mentioned are the only necessary things for a wedding... all else is cultural/ additions.... none of which is necessary

its ur personal views, this things r practiced a lot back home and there lots of other things, i love them i dont like those english wedding no fan at all

[Dreamer]

its not my personal views... thats religious rules and the sunnah of the prophet

[Feroza_Banu]

feroza sis did u hide ur face from angaar lala?

lol

[Sheenka]

its not my personal views... thats religious rules and the sunnah of the prophet

its religous as well heena night

lol

u ddint answer, so i guess u did

[Dreamer]

Application of Henna is a cultural practise.... religion doesnt state anything 4 it nor against it.... there is no such thing as a henna night in religion... if its applied then its applied if not then its not.... again please refer 2 the only FARD aspects of a MUSLIM marriage...

[Saifullah]

Many practices we see in weddings are mostly not in Islam and some are against Islam as well....Islamic way of weddings are more simple and less extravagant.

[Sheenka]

Application of Henna is a cultural practise.... religion doesnt state anything 4 it nor against it.... there is no such thing as a henna night in religion... if its applied then its applied if not then its not.... again please refer 2 the only FARD aspects of a MUSLIM marriage...

so no attan in ur wedding

Many practices we see in weddings are mostly not in Islam and some are against Islam as well....Islamic way of weddings are more simple and less extravagant.

what are against islaam in wedding?

[Dreamer]

we never said that we wouldnt have attan.... its simply not necessary

[Sheenka]

u wont have nakrizi shpa which ur causins and anuty will bring nakrizi and apply it on ur hands and then u have to pay

[Saifullah]

The Prophet (pbuh) said: “giving a banquet on the first day is rightful; on the second day, it is nice but giving a banquet on the third day is an outward show and propaganda.” (Abu Dawood) II, 307).

Prophet said: “The worst banquet of all is the one to which rich people are invited while the poor are not.” (Ibn Majah, Hadith no : 1913)

Weddings should not be mixed gatherings.

[Dreamer]

u wont have nakrizi shpa which ur causins and anuty will bring nakrizi and apply it on ur hands and then u have to pay

No... I prefer as I mentioned a simple registry office event

[Saifullah]

Husband going to the woman section to collect his wife or sit there....that is not right because non-mahram women are around...