Why women should not drive.

[roadrunner]

A lot of the women I've seen have been better drivers than the men I've seen. Statistics would probably prove it, as would lower insurance costs.

It's just what stupid men with inferiority complexes think. Some women are that way too.

[sgulab]

Exactly Mayana. I was thinking the same thing when I first read his post. But his ideas cant be generalized to every single person in the female population. There are still some woman out there that are perfectly standing in the middle... not to ditsy and not to.. manly.

[Alchemist]

Right so, may I ask, what stirred this? Or better still, it wasn't stirred but a fixed state of mind?

All the man-bashing that was going on in other threads. Where girls were writing nonsense about the Patriarchal Pashtun Culture, as to how it "Favours" men over women...and how women were living in misery because of men.

But yeah...

I think women are inferior to men.

I challenge all of you girls on this forum to ANYTHING.

What ever you do. I can do 10 x better. :D

And no troll runner.. women may more insurance premium OVER All. Only young guys pay more insurance than girls but that's only because we like to drive fast and risky...after all cars were invented by guys. And Insurance companies were invented by guys.

I got into two car accidents... both times a woman rear ended me.
The worst are chinese women...they panic real fast...then their brains just freeze...in the middle of the parking lot. They don't want to go forward or backward... they just STOP.

Sometimes I am driving and I see car going slow ..changing lanes awkwardly... hesitating ...panicky ...and I think "Yup..its a woman" ... Sure enough ... I pass by the car...it's a woman.

My mom is not allowed to sit beside me when I am driving. 50 meters before the stop sign she goes "SLOW DOWN!!! OMG!!....WE ARE GOIING TO CRASH!" And she cringes..bites are teeth and pushes against the dash board. Don't get me wrong.. my mother raised three lions on her own. She is more man than some of the boymenz here and she'd probably chew some of the girls here for breakfast and spit em out like a cannon... still she is a woman.


Did you know that mostly women suffer from hysteria?
Female hysteria - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia


This thread was made just to enlighten some of our sisters here than they are not picture perfect females. I know men have defects....we already covered them in 50 threads and 5000 pages of discussion. So this was a small but insignificant attempt at balancing the battle of the sexes.

Sorry if I offended anyone :D









NOT!

[Sheenka]

Alchemist, where have you been all my life? I love the way you think. I totally envy the way life is back home, but very few men actually wish to live the same way when they step foot on foreign land. I only hope chauvinists like you could show the same manhood in foreign countries as well, life would be perfect all over the globe for us pukhtanay.

I'd love it if my man would live the perfect life i.e.

- Wake up at Fajar
- Get dressed and drive the kids to school as I shouldn't really be able to drive
- Then he can get himself to work and do a hard 9-5 shift, if he’s fortunate that is! I mean, he being the sole earner he'll probably even have a weekend job to make ends meet
- He can then go out shopping after his tiring day because we're not allowed to and unable to drive
- Before any relaxing he'd have to again take the kids out for Quran lessons or other extracurricular activities
- At the end of the day I’d lay out a lovely feast for him only that he'd be too tired to eat it
- He can also spend his weekends labouring on outdoor tasks like gardening or washing the car as I'd not be allowed to myself and hiring someone would break my pardah
- I'll also only book doctor and other appointments when he's home as I won't be allowed to drive the kids or myself anywhere
- Similarly we can go shopping for other stuff only when he’s around, or I rather he does that alone too, he can worry his little head over what to buy and where to get it from

And this is just the average everyday stuff I can think of from the top of my head, there is so much more to life and getting a man to run around fulfilling it would be the best thing on earth

Basically, I could be a lady of leisure while he's the real servant around me. All I do is clean, wash, cook, and satisfy him, which really isn't much effort for a woman anyway

he is in his own little world!

[Zayam]

lost honor ...

well your dam right that men have lost their honor...

Who knows what will restore it.

Actually it is "damn" , not dam (that is something that holds water)-hardly worth a reply

[faye]

try breastfeeding your adopted baby, alchemist.

[Notorious Pashtana]

The worst are chinese women...they panic real fast...then their brains just freeze...in the middle of the parking lot. They don't want to go forward or backward... they just STOP.

hahahaha!!! sorry that's just too funny, and bloody true as well!!! lol

[Alchemist]

try breastfeeding your adopted baby, alchemist.

TECHNOLOGY!

We invented it...lol



I was going to post Rober Dinero's pic from meet the fockers...but I didn't want to risk having troll runner salivating on his screen AHAHAHAHA.. hmm maybe I should have ... oh well ... next time


and zayam... i dun curse :p

[faye]

well done kid, i concede, you win. (this one)

[sgulab]

behind every successful man there is a woman.

This battle of man vs women has been going on for ages. neither side can win because neither side is better then the other. And neither side can live without the other.

So there.

but if it helps your ego. then fine men are better

[Alchemist]

"behind every successful man is a woman" is an overstatement.

If you actually look into the record I bet more successful men have been destroyed by women!

Besides... have you ever noticed that the reverse has never been claimed?
Is it because there are no successful women to begin with? Or is it the excuse that men don't stand behind their women?
Or that every time a woman is successfull it's just assumed that it was because of her man...like hilary clinton's bill..or queen elizebeth's father...not that either of them are "successful" to begin with...but those are the only two that come to mind.

Just saying ... don't mean to burst your bubbles.

[faye]

where's this 'record' alchemist, to verify your 'bet'.

[Gulbabo]

uh oh... something is really wrong here.. looks like alchemist is scared of women, or a little insecure may be?

[sgulab]

"behind every successful man is a woman" is an overstatement.

If you actually look into the record I bet more successful men have been destroyed by women!

Besides... have you ever noticed that the reverse has never been claimed?
Is it because there are no successful women to begin with? Or is it the excuse that men don't stand behind their women?
Or that every time a woman is successfull it's just assumed that it was because of her man...like hilary clinton's bill..or queen elizebeth's father...not that either of them are "successful" to begin with...but those are the only two that come to mind.

Just saying ... don't mean to burst your bubbles.

hahaha. my bubbles wont burst because of your comments. OH PLEASE!
i know my worth- and I'll be sure to let my future husband know of his also InshAllah

[IamDZJ]

i have not read the original post in this thread but i have a feeling that the letter below might apply to it very well. it's something i read the other day out of boredom.



Dear Martyr Man,
You will always be the victim, in every situation where someone tries to get close to you. You cannot relate to women as equals. You look for a strong-willed woman, latch on to her, but envy her strength and ability to express herself openly, so you attack her in vicious little ways. Ways so subtle that you can easily and convincingly deny any wrongdoing and make HER look like the crazy one for even suspecting that you are a passive-aggressive game player.
You played similar games with women before, and this was a chief motivator for their anger and "abuse" towards you. If they struck you physically, that was not right, but when you paint yourself as a martyr, you *always* fail to mention the emotional and psychological abuse you were inflicting on THEM.
That's right, Martyr. You are an abuser. You. Poor little cringing, eternally victimized you.
"But abusers scream, yell and hit, and I never do that!" you protest. "I'm not that way at all. I don't have the anger gene. I am completely incapable of anger."
What you are incapable of is the truth. But I am capable of the truth and here it is.
You ARE capable of anger. In fact, you are a very angry person, as your father before you must have also been - he is clearly the one upon whom you have modeled your behavior. Like him, you were too intimidated by other people to express your anger openly, so you nursed your rage in secret and struck out instead in subtle little ways. If you were asked to do something, you made sure you "forgot" repeatedly or did a poor job. You no doubt carry this behavior on in your work and it is the reason most of the other employees don't like you. People tend not to like someone who does not do his share of the work and is sullen and resistant to new ideas. They are probably tired of your constant subterfuge and backstabbing. No doubt you also play the divide-and-conquer game, playing people off against one another.
You haven't said much about your mother, but I'll make a few educated guesses. She was a strong-willed woman who dominated you and your father, and you both resented it, but neither of you ever told her so directly. Neither of you had the courage to assert yourselves openly. So you both "got even" with her by lying, false promises, "forgetting" or otherwise sabotaging things she asked you to do, and/or withholding your attention and love. Your casual remark about what you did with her books after her death was quite breathtaking in its heartlessness.
Your mother was a model for how you view women today. As I have previously said, you go after women with strong, assertive personalities, because they fit your mother's model and because you admire them for the qualities that you yourself lack. However, you also hate them because they are strong and you are weak. Because you cannot assert yourself openly, you play psychological games designed to break them down, subvert their will, and subtly - invisibly - assert YOUR control.
That's right, Martyr Man. You want control. You are not able to control yourself and so you are controlled by others - but you resent it. So you get a feeling of control by manipulating situations with a deft, invisible hand. You "forget" that a woman asked you to do something. You "forget" NOT to do something she finds hurtful or disrespectful.
You remember to do the things YOU enjoy and want to do, and your friends think you're a great guy - the kind of guy who would do anything for his friends! (Of course you would - your reputation depends on maintaining an appearance of kindness and willingness, and anyone who doesn't know you WELL would say what a nice guy you are - you would do anything to maintain that image). But when your partner asks you to do something, you suddenly lose your memory. You wander off and fail to return, leaving her to wonder where the hell you are, getting off on her discomfort and distress. If she does something you REALLY don't like, such as attempt to leave you, you hint around at suicide and disappear, leaving her to agonize for days over your fate. Really, you're off hanging out with your buddies and drinking and having fun, but she doesn't need to know that, does she?
No doubt she has noticed the fact that after your initial, highly romantic and complimentary approach, you do a complete about-face once she's "hooked" - like Jerkily and Hyde. Once she's in a relationship with you, the kind and gentle and loving courtship behavior ceases, and the passive-aggressive battle begins. First, you begin by slowly and subtly creating distance between you - by spending less time with her every day (always her fault, because of something SHE did...) withholding your attention and affection, making sure she gets the message that your friends, your other interests, EVERYTHING else are more important to you than the person you called the love of your life. When she challenges you about this behavior, you deny it, and make her out to be irrational and crazy for even suspecting it. After all, the success of a passive-aggressive campaign depends on secrecy and camouflage.
You lie easily, leaving out little details like a wife you haven't yet legally severed ties to, and children that you almost never see. You haven't got a divorce, and you won't, because even though you hate your wife, you feel chained to her. You are dependent on her. It's a parasitic relationship. No doubt she was angry with you because you provoked her, getting a charge out of her frustration and rage, and taking full opportunity to twist the situation around until you could make yourself out to be the victim. I haven't the faintest doubt you have cheated on her many times and lied to her many times, and that was the real cause of the attack that so wounded you emotionally. You brought it on yourself, but you won't admit that part. She's completely evil, in your little fairy tale, and you are the innocent little lamb, incapable of even the slightest twinge of anger.
Every human being on this planet feels anger. You yourself have expressed anger many times to me, not the least of which was your last letter. Yet, you still cling to this desperate delusion that you are incapable of anger.
That's a lie, Mr. Martyr. One of many.
Lies undermine the trust that is vital to all relationships. But you don't care about that as long as you can feel in control. Even when control comes at the expense of love, and that is sad.
Nobody can get close to you, Martyr Man. You'll let them within a certain distance, but then you are frightened by intimacy and of your will being sublimated to another's because deep down inside you know you are not strong enough to assert your own will openly and directly. No wonder you hate bluntness, straightforwardness, truth. Those things rob you of your defense mechanisms and make you feel naked and helpless. You cannot trust another person. Instead, you use passive-aggressive techniques to distance yourself from others and gain control over them. You wither under direct confrontation, but when you are able to operate undetected, you are a cruel and effective bully............................................. ...............................................