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[Laila]

no dudai okhra

I dont have anything to eat



LOL i am just too lazy too leave my room

[Master Khan]

I dont have anything to eat



LOL i am just too lazy too leave my room

lol When you become hungary you will do anything to eat.

[Khushal Khan Khattak]

MFD, where are you going?

whats this about 8hr drives and universities? ???

[Laila]

lol When you become hungary you will do anything to eat.

Yeah i am so hungry, my mom is cooking right now

MFD, where are you going?

whats this about 8hr drives and universities? ???

I will be transferring to another school for fall of 11'....the school is located in Los Angeles which is an 8 hour drive for us. That is where i will get my bachelors in Biological Science. My parents have allowed me to go because both my parents gone through leaving home and living in dorms. But there is a condition.

The thing is, my father thinks its better for me to get engaged or married since i will be out of the house and on my own, i dont know if i can agree with that. What do you think? lets have a discussion on that. I would like to hear other people's opinions on this matter. I would appreciate helpful comments and possibly personal experiences if you have any

[Khushal Khan Khattak]

The thing is, my father thinks its better for me to get engaged or married since i will be out of the house and on my own, i dont know if i can agree with that. What do you think? lets have a discussion on that. I would like to hear other people's opinions on this matter. I would appreciate helpful comments and possibly personal experiences if you have any

WoW, thats like out of the blue.

Dorms, that too in the west and to top it all, in L.A. . Man, that is like the complete opposite of where an Afghan gal is brought up to be.

I know from experience, I have seen things being done there that well, no Pukhtun man can ever have the tongue to say. > .

Still, engagement is what my parents would advise me to do in similar situations if I was a girl.

My advice:
1) Engagement is a +/-. You may or may not choose to do so.
2) Staying out of the focus of dorm girls is a priority.
3) Try acting like an outcast thats the safest way to study and be safe in dorms.

Best of luck and Khuday di Mal Shaa Khoray. Dont forget your prayers & God. He will keep you safe.

[Laila]

WoW, thats like out of the blue.

Dorms, that too in the west and to top it all, in L.A. . Man, that is like the complete opposite of where an Afghan gal is brought up to be.

I know from experience, I have seen things being done there that well, no Pukhtun man can ever have the tongue to say. > .

Still, engagement is what my parents would advise me to do in similar situations if I was a girl.

My advice:
1) Engagement is a +/-. You may or may not choose to do so.
2) Staying out of the focus of dorm girls is a priority.
3) Try acting like an outcast thats the safest way to study and be safe in dorms.

Best of luck and Khuday di Mal Shaa Khoray. Dont forget your prayers & God. He will keep you safe.

I mean i understand where my father is coming from. While my mom left for medical school, she was engaged to my father. I mean its not only a dorm.....its being on your own. I will live in a dorm for one year, then on my own after that. You know how our families are when a girl is all by herself, in a foreign area hundreds of miles away from home. Its understandable. When i transfer, i will work in the labs and hospitals. I will establish a life there for how long it takes. At first i thought the idea of engagement was totally out of the blue and in fact i thought it was stupid. But i have grown to understand why.

My family encourages high education for women, but if it means for you to be leaving home and independent, then the family chooses to have her engagement, will only if she wishes to do so.

I have always accepted my parents decision, but getting engaged only because i am moving to another school, is well i really dont know.

[Laila]

^^ I was able to log in


Okay now what i mean chatterbox is that I have seen in some forums that on the homepage, there is a small chatterbox, where members can im one another and other members can join too, but its on the homepage and only registered users can see the messages......It works quite well.

[din]

salamalaikum

[Laila]

^^ Walikum salam

[din]

sngaya taso za dilta der kush hala yama che da pukhtan hujra ta raghaley yam

[Laila]

^^LOL go easy on the pashto

Good, quite good.

[Master Khan]

Its 3:00 am and I can't sleep!!

[din]

bakhsha ghwaram.

taso da kam zay ya

[din]

weley mkhan

[Laila]

bakhsha ghwaram.

taso da kam zay ya

Oh no need to....i am from Laghman.