Negative People

[spogmai shaglay]

SOME PEOPLE ALWAYS LOOK FOR THE NEGATIVE

There was a hunter who bought a bird dog, the only one of its kind in the world. That could walk on water . He couldn't believe his eyes when he saw this miracle.

At the same time, he was very pleased that he could show off his new acquisition to his friends.

He invited a friend to go duck hunting. After some time, they shot a few ducks and the man ordered his dog to run and fetch the birds. All day-long, the dog ran on water and kept fetching the birds.

The owner was expecting a comment or a compliment about his
amazing dog, but never got one.

As they were returning home, he asked his friend if he
had noticed anything unusual about his dog.

The friend replied, "Yes, in fact, I did notice something unusual. Your dog can't swim."

[unknownprince]

hmmmmm? I don't get how that person was negative, maybe just blunt and aware??

[spogmai shaglay]

hmmmmm? I don't get how that person was negative, maybe just blunt and aware??

u could say aware of the good quality but still want to remove negative in every positive thing happening....

or u could so blind to positivity and good quality and fails to recognize it.....

you will find many many people like these.....

[Catya Sher]

Such people like this are common. I believe it means they heed the wrong voices in their minds which teach them to search for some tiny flaw in even the best of situations. So they can complain. That word is key.

When you hear people who complain all the time usually they try to get attention for themselves. They try to focus everything back on themself by pointing out the shortcomings of other people. It's a clever tactic which serves their ego.

This trick deflects attention from their OWN negative qualities, and failures. Their associates will be directed to focus on those of other people or situations.

There's a subtle but not good dynamic which takes place when one hears a Constant Complainer. Aka, Chronic Complainer.

They also seek to get a good person to tell them "No it's not so bad" "Look at the bright side, which is...."

That is a mechanism to extract energy from the sunny person. Beware, everybody, of these people. They are not negative for no reason. There's a power play behind their critical comments.

[spogmai shaglay]

Such people like this are common. I believe it means they heed the wrong voices in their minds which teach them to search for some tiny flaw in even the best of situations. So they can complain. That word is key.

When you hear people who complain all the time usually they try to get attention for themselves. They try to focus everything back on themself by pointing out the shortcomings of other people. It's a clever tactic which serves their ego.

This trick deflects attention from their OWN negative qualities, and failures. Their associates will be directed to focus on those of other people or situations.

There's a subtle but not good dynamic which takes place when one hears a Constant Complainer. Aka, Chronic Complainer.

They also seek to get a good person to tell them "No it's not so bad" "Look at the bright side, which is...."

That is a mechanism to extract energy from the sunny person. Beware, everybody, of these people. They are not negative for no reason. There's a power play behind their critical comments.

to add to it.....all these people point out the same flaws in others that they have in them selves........

Negative attitude is contagious tooo....beware of such people........no matter what, they are always on the other side of you........what u agree to, they disagree without any logical reason...... and what u disgree, they agree again without ant logical reason....

Chronic complainers.....as they are called......complain that its too h ot when its and that its tooo cold when its cold... are never happy and content....

i dont know, but sometimes they are not aware that they are so negative....

[spogmai shaglay]

Some people mistake criticism for negativity.

Right....but there is a way of criticizing....rather if we call it critical analysis, it sounds better...

and criticism should never start with negative points.....

Criticism need not be 100% negative....

if positive points are pointed out first then the negative aspects are accepted in a better way....if we just point out flaws without appreciation the person for his/her good work criticism definitely going to be mistaken for negativity...

we will talk on this Criticism isssue more...i a will make a thread on it.....

[spogmai shaglay]

Amazing post Spogmai

Manana Wardakprince.....keep reading.. i will post more Insha Allah.......