Conceiving after loss: 'You can never replace a child

[Muslimah]

That is so sad. InshAllah that dear baby is in Jannah! Did you know that 60% of first pregnancies are miscarriages? I used to work with pregnant women. It is devastating.

[Muslimah]

What to what part Nazia?

When women first get pregnant, with their first child, their chance of having a miscarriage is 60%. It is even higher if you marry your cousin.

Is that the what part? Sorry...I am bad at explaining sometimes...my mind goes faster than my writing. :P

[Muslimah]

So if you are planning on getting pregnant, have lots of fibre, prenatal vitamins and anything with folic acid (like broccoli and spinach). It usually helps.

[IamDZJ]

says who?

[Muslimah]

hehe says the course I had to take when working with cranky pregnant women. Folic acid stops the baby from ever becoming deformed and ensures and helps the spine and brain to form healthy. Many brain and spine problems (such as cerebral palsy) is part of the baby at the moment of conception...so the sooner the better. Brocolli and cheese is good anyway!

[IamDZJ]

^ i didn't really read the article but broccoli sounds like a good plan. of course that is unless you feel like choking people and their children running around..

[IamDZJ]

i didn't do anything. i simply shared my dislike for children.

[Muslimah]

hehe,
If you never scream at your kids and always talk low, they will be the same. I neverrr yell at my students, and they know to be quiet in my presence or else they won't hear me talk. My friend is the same way with her kids too. It works! Then you won't have screaming kids you want to choke lol.

[IamDZJ]

you are right. screaming takes one no where but i have no respect for lazy people who can't control their children.

[IamDZJ]

there is lots of success behind not having children. lol

[IamDZJ]

tehehe! my legacy.. are you kidding me?
i will have or two may be. i will just make sure they are perfect in every manner. or else.

[Roshina]

When women first get pregnant, with their first child, their chance of having a miscarriage is 60%. It is even higher if you marry your cousin.

I was AMAZED when I found this out tooo!! The good thing is, though, that it happens so soon after conception that the mother never really feels the miscarriage or even know that she's pregnant!