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  • Portrait of Pain Ignites Debate Over Afghan War

    http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/05/wo...n.html?_r=1&hp

    I dont know if this news has already been posted here, but I thought the story will be relevant to this forum.

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    KABUL, Afghanistan — She cannot read or write and had never heard of Time magazine until a visitor brought her a copy of this week’s issue, the one with the cover picture of her face, the face with no nose.



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    Time Inc., via Associated Press

    Time Magazine’s recent cover photo of Aisha, an 18-year-old Afghan woman whose nose and ears were sliced off in 2009, under orders from a local Taliban commander.

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    Eros Hoagland for The New York Times

    Aisha at a women’s shelter in Kabul, Afghanistan.


    On Wednesday, the young woman, Bibi Aisha, left Kabul for a long-planned trip to the United States for reconstructive surgery. Earlier in the day, as she prepared to leave the women’s shelter at a secret location here that has been her refuge for the past 10 months, the 18-year-old was unaware of the controversy surrounding the publication of that image.
    “I don’t know if it will help other women or not,” she said, her hand going instinctively to cover the hole in the middle of her face, as it does whenever strangers look directly at her. “I just want to get my nose back.”
    Reaction to the Time cover has become something of an Internet litmus test about attitudes toward the war, and what America’s responsibility is in Afghanistan. Critics of the American presence in Afghanistan call it “emotional blackmail” and even “war porn,” while those who fear the consequences of abandoning Afghanistan see it as a powerful appeal to conscience.
    The debate was fueled in part by the language that Time chose to accompany the photograph: “What Happens if We Leave Afghanistan,” pointedly without a question mark.
    “That is exactly what will happen,” said Manizha Naderi, referring to Aisha and cases like hers. An Afghan-American whose group, Women for Afghan Women, runs the shelter where Aisha stayed, Ms. Naderi said, “People need to see this and know what the cost will be to abandon this country.”
    As Ms. Naderi would be the first to concede, however, things are already bad enough for women in Afghanistan without a return to a government run by the Taliban. Noorin TV in Kabul has been running what it has called an investigative series suggesting that the shelters, all operated by independent charities, are just fronts for prostitution. The series has offered no evidence, and the station never sent anyone to visit the principal shelters.
    President Hamid Karzai, once seen as a champion of women’s causes until he failed to deliver on promises to appoint many women to cabinet posts, convened a commission to investigate complaints against women’s shelters. A report is expected soon. The panel’s chairman is a conservative mullah, Nematullah Shahrani, who has publicly bandied about the prostitution claim.
    Even in the absence of a government run by the Taliban, Afghan women suffer from religious extremism, although they have enjoyed a great deal of progress. Thousands of girls’ schools have opened since the fall of the Taliban, and women are active in the Parliament and the aid community, where an estimated half a billion dollars in international assistance is now destined for gender-equality programs.
    “Feminists have long argued that invoking the condition of women to justify occupation is a cynical ploy,” wrote Priyamvada Gopal in The Guardian, a liberal British newspaper, on Wednesday, “and the Time cover already stands accused of it.”
    BagNews, a left-leaning Web site about the politics of imagery in the media, saw the matter in conspiratorial terms. “Isn’t this title applying emotional blackmail and exploiting gender politics to pitch for the status quo — a continued U.S. military involvement?” wrote Michael Shaw.
    Richard Stengel, Time’s managing editor, said he thought not. “The image is a window into the reality of what is happening — and what can happen — in a war that affects and involves all of us,” he wrote in a statement on Time’s Web site.
    Bibi Aisha (bibi is an honorific; Aisha asked that her family name be withheld) makes an apt symbol of the excesses of the Taliban, and of Pashtun tribal society in remote parts of Afghanistan more generally. Her face, aside from the disfigurement, is as beautiful as that of the Afghan refugee girl whose cover photograph in National Geographic in 1985 became an iconic image of the country’s plight.
    At age 12, Aisha and her younger sister were given to the family of a Taliban fighter in Oruzgan Province under a tribal custom for settling disputes, known as “baad.” Aisha’s uncle had killed a relative of the groom to be, and according to the custom, to settle the blood debt her father gave the two girls to the victim’s family.
    Once Aisha reached puberty, she was married to the Taliban fighter, but since he was in hiding most of the time, she and her sister were housed with the in-laws’ livestock and used as slaves, frequently beaten as punishment for their uncle’s crime.
    Aisha fled the abuse, but her husband tracked her down in Kandahar a year ago, took her back to Oruzgan, and on a lonely mountainside cut off her nose and both ears and left her bleeding. She said she still did not remember how she managed to walk away to find help.
    In Pashtun culture, a husband who has been shamed by his wife is said to have lost his nose, Ms. Naderi explained; from the husband’s point of view, he would have been punishing Aisha in kind.
    American aid workers in Oruzgan Province took Aisha to the Women for Afghan Women shelter in Kabul, where at first she was too traumatized even to speak. They introduced her to a psychologist and gradually she recovered, learning to do handicrafts, but showing little interest in school work. Even before the Time cover appeared, the organization had found a benefactor in the Grossman Burn Foundation in Calabasas, Calif., which agreed to underwrite eight months of reconstructive surgery.
    Once during Aisha’s stay at the shelter, her father visited to try to persuade her to return home to her family, but she refused to do so. “I am still angry that they did this to me,” she said. Still, she had hoped to call home to tell them that she was going to America, she said, but there was no cellphone coverage in the Taliban-dominated area she comes from.
    Aisha dressed up for her last day in Kabul in a bright pink pantsuit with tassels and beads, and she hugged the other girls and women in the shelter. She said she was happy and excited to be going to America.
    She changed into a more somber black gown for the trip to the airport and arranged her veil just below her eyes. Ms. Naderi lifted her 14-month-old baby onto her shoulder and they headed for the plane, Aisha holding her shirt as they walked. It is not, Ms. Naderi pointed out, a happy ending.
    “Her 10-year-old sister is still there and we have no idea how she is,” she said. “They’re probably taking all of their anger out on her now, or even demanding another girl from her family to replace Aisha.”

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    I read it this morning and it ruined my entire day.The story is relevant to this forum, certainly. She is another Pashtun girl, who was sacrificed for the family feud as "swara" at age 12, along with her younger sister.She got married to yet another barbaric Talib to whom she served as a slave.She ran away but was hunted down.In order to save his nose, he cut her nose and ears.She ran away and some kind-hearted humans (not angels) saved her. The guardians of religion took away her nose and the Kafirs are now giving her nose. West is worried...thinking if it is a right decision to leave this country which has the potential to become a country of nose-less and ear-less women? I would quote the Time's Editor, Richard Stengel, here: “The image is a window into the reality of what is happening — and what can happen — in a war that affects and involves all of us,” he wrote in a statement on Time’s Web site."
    And there there are many Bibi Aisha's that are paying for having noses.
    "O Pakhtuns!, Your house has fallen into ruin, let us rebuild it".
    "I want to see my people educated and enlightened. A people with a vision and a strong sense of justice, who can carve out a future for themselves in harmony with nature".

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    • #3
      I am wondering what would be the fate of her 10 year old sister, who is still stuck there.I can imagine nothing less than barbarism. She has to bear the brunt of her sister's escaped now.
      Last edited by PFgulalai; 08-05-2010, 02:30 PM.
      "O Pakhtuns!, Your house has fallen into ruin, let us rebuild it".
      "I want to see my people educated and enlightened. A people with a vision and a strong sense of justice, who can carve out a future for themselves in harmony with nature".

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      • #4
        I read this a coupla weeks ago, though I don't remember anything about her being married to a Talib. From what I know apparently the family went to Talebaan coz she ran away, who then gave out the orders for this punishment, but it was her husband and bro in law who committed the horrendous act. It's a report from Amerca and it's from Time Magazine, I'm not surprised Talebaan were thrown in there somewhere. I don't support Talebaan, but they're blamed for most crimes, sometimes there are just sick individuals who act on their own accord.

        I can't believe the her sister's left behind =/ Why can't they try and save her?

        This reminds me of those acid victims too, it's very distressing and so unfair, and what is Karzai doing about it all.. nothing.

        Originally posted by gulalai View Post
        She got married to yet another barbaric Talib to whom she served as a slave.She ran away but was hunted down.In order to save his nose, he cut her nose and ears. She ran away and some kind-hearted humans (not angels) saved her. The guardians of religion took away her nose and the Kafirs are now giving her nose.
        Lol @ guardians of religion, interesting phrasing..

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Guley View Post
          I read this a coupla weeks ago, though I don't remember anything about her being married to a Talib. From what I know apparently the family went to Talebaan coz she ran away, who then gave out the orders for this punishment, but it was her husband and bro in law who committed the horrendous act. It's a report from Amerca and it's from Time Magazine, I'm not surprised Talebaan were thrown in there somewhere. I don't support Talebaan, but they're blamed for most crimes, sometimes there are just sick individuals who act on their own accord.
          Hmm I don't have my own reporting.My understanding of the entire issue comes from TIME magazine which a world-renowned magazine in Journalism and I trust it more than some B-grade mag or newspaper in Journalism. I don't know about your sources though.I cite some of the excerpts that I used for my understanding of the entire issue.

          "Ironically, Aisha herself had never heard of Time magazine before a visitor brought a copy of this week's issue to her at a women's shelter in a secret location in Kabul. She was unaware of the controversy surrounding the magazine's publication. She agreed to the photo shoot to raise awareness of the Taliban's brutal tactics, the magazine said.

          "I don't know if it will help other women or not," she told The New York Times. "I just want to get my nose back."

          When she was 12, Aisha and her younger sister were given to the family of a Taliban fighter in Afghanistan's Oruzgan province as a tribal peace offering, after Aisha's uncle killed a relative of her future husband. She was married at age 16, but she and her sister were housed with her in-laws' livestock and treated as slaves. She escaped, but her husband tracked her down in Kandahar last year. Her brother-in-law held her down, while her husband sliced off her ears, then her nose.

          "When they cut off my nose and ears, I passed out," Aisha told CNN, describing the attack. "It felt like there was cold water in my nose. I opened my eyes, and I couldn't even see because of all the blood."

          According to a Pashtun tribal saying, a husband who's been shamed by his wife is said to have lost his nose, and Aisha's husband probably believed her punishment was appropriate, Manizha Naderi, an Afghan-American aid worker, told the Times. Naderi's group, Women for Afghan Women, runs the Kabul shelter that's housed Aisha for the past year, and is also helping to fund her reconstructive surgery, along with Time and the Grossman Burn Foundation.


          "The Taliban pounded on the door just before midnight, demanding that Aisha, 18, be punished for running away from her husband's house. Her in-laws treated her like a slave, Aisha pleaded. They beat her. If she hadn't run away, she would have died. Her judge, a local Taliban commander, was unmoved. Aisha's brother-in-law held her down while her husband pulled out a knife. First he sliced off her ears. Then he started on her nose. "

          A note to readers by TIME magazine editor about the story:


          Our cover image this week is powerful, shocking and disturbing. It is a portrait of Aisha, a shy 18-year-old Afghan woman who was sentenced by a Taliban commander to have her nose and ears cut off for fleeing her abusive in-laws. Aisha posed for the picture and says she wants the world to see the effect a Taliban resurgence would have on the women of Afghanistan, many of whom have flourished in the past few years. Her picture is accompanied by a powerful story by our own Aryn Baker on how Afghan women have embraced the freedoms that have come from the defeat of the Taliban — and how they fear a Taliban revival.
          I thought long and hard about whether to put this image on the cover of TIME. First, I wanted to make sure of Aisha's safety and that she understood what it would mean to be on the cover. She knows that she will become a symbol of the price Afghan women have had to pay for the repressive ideology of the Taliban. We also confirmed that she is in a secret location protected by armed guards and sponsored by the NGO Women for Afghan Women. Aisha will head to the U.S. for reconstructive surgery sponsored by the Grossman Burn Foundation, a humanitarian organization in California. We are supporting that effort."












          [QUOTE=Guley;110744]I can't believe the her sister's left behind =/ Why can't they try and save her?This reminds me of those acid victims too, it's very distressing and so unfair, and what is Karzai doing about it all.. nothing.

          I can save her.I only have to eradicate such barbarians.

          And this is how we deal with the issue:

          "She leaves behind a home country where the U.N. estimates that nearly 90 percent of women face some sort of domestic abuse. There are fewer than a dozen women's shelters in all of Afghanistan, and a popular TV channel in Kabul has been running unsourced reports alleging that all of them are fronts for prostitution.President Hamid Karzai has convened a panel to investigate complaints against the shelters, but appointed as its chairman a conservative mullah who has also perpetuated the prostitution rumor.

          Originally posted by Guley View Post
          Lol @ guardians of religion, interesting phrasing..
          The TIME's editor has beautifully put it for me:

          "But bad things do happen to people, and it is part of our job to confront and explain them. In the end, I felt that the image is a window into the reality of what is happening — and what can happen — in a war that affects and involves all of us. I would rather confront readers with the Taliban's treatment of women than ignore it. I would rather people know that reality as they make up their minds about what the U.S. and its allies should do in Afghanistan. "

          "O Pakhtuns!, Your house has fallen into ruin, let us rebuild it".
          "I want to see my people educated and enlightened. A people with a vision and a strong sense of justice, who can carve out a future for themselves in harmony with nature".

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          • #6
            Originally posted by gulalai View Post
            I read it this morning and it ruined my entire day.The story is relevant to this forum, certainly. She is another Pashtun girl, who was sacrificed for the family feud as "swara" at age 12, along with her younger sister.She got married to yet another barbaric Talib to whom she served as a slave.She ran away but was hunted down.In order to save his nose, he cut her nose and ears.She ran away and some kind-hearted humans (not angels) saved her. The guardians of religion took away her nose and the Kafirs are now giving her nose. West is worried...thinking if it is a right decision to leave this country which has the potential to become a country of nose-less and ear-less women? I would quote the Time's Editor, Richard Stengel, here: “The image is a window into the reality of what is happening — and what can happen — in a war that affects and involves all of us,” he wrote in a statement on Time’s Web site."
            And there there are many Bibi Aisha's that are paying for having noses.
            I too was extremely saddened by this piece. It was horrifying to think of the ordeals of this girl and more so of the girl that has been left behind. Honestly, I'd be surprised if she'd be even alive today.

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