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    Saudis warned against marrying foreign women

    By P.K. ABDUL GHAFOUR | ARAB NEWS

    Published: Jul 18, 2010 23:34 Updated: Jul 18, 2010 23:34



    JEDDAH: Sociologists and rights activists have warned young Saudi men of negative social and economic consequences of their marriages to foreign women. They also warned that the practice increases the number of unmarried women in the Kingdom.
    To avoid problems, those who seek foreign wives are advised to first obtain official permission.
    Nizar Al-Saleh, assistant secretary-general of the National Center for Research on Youth at King Saud University, said some Saudis travel to foreign countries with the intention of entering into temporary marriages. At the end of their vacation, they divorce their wives.
    "This practice shows their disrespect for family values. They do this for temporary personal enjoyment but they don't think about its negative consequences. It will definitely affect their family life," Al-Saleh said.
    According to Al-Saleh, marriage to foreign women is not advisable for those who are seeking a stable family life. "Persons involved in such marriages often leave their wives and children abroad without taking care of them. They lose their children and the trust of their wives." Many families have been suffering complex problems as a result of such marriages.
    He warned that such marriages would cause the disintegration of families. He emphasized the need for establishing families on sound grounds and called for educating youth in secondary schools and colleges about the importance of legal marriages.
    Saleh Al-Khathlan, vice president of the National Society for Human Rights, referred to the problems caused by marriage with foreign women. "The government will not accept such marriage contracts and the foreign wives will not be allowed to enter the Kingdom. Even if they succeed in bringing their wives to the Kingdom, the Saudi men will face stiff punishment."
    He added: "There are many Saudis who cannot bring their foreign wives and children to the Kingdom and they stay abroad without proper care." Al-Khathlan also indicated that many Saudis wanting to marry foreign women have been cheated by agents.

    Fears of spinsterhood, illnesses

    Sociologist Abdul Aziz Al-Ghareeb from Al-Imam Muhammad ibn Saud Islamic University, spoke about the negative impact of such marriages on the Islamic faith and culture of their children. "It will also increase the rate of spinsterhood among Saudi women," he pointed out.
    Such marriages also result in Saudis getting deadly diseases such as AIDS and hepatitis. Children from such marriages may also suffer from diseases such as autism and paralysis, he added.
    Ali Al-Hanaki, adviser to Awasir, an organization that looks after Saudis abroad, highlighted his society's efforts in solving problems faced by such Saudi families. "We coordinate with government departments to provide these Saudi families with necessary care and assistance," he said.
    Towfik Al-Suwalem, chairman of Awasir's board of directors, referred to his organization's efforts to correct the legal status of such families by proving the legality of their marriages. "We also provide them with assistance in cash and kind and help them come to the Kingdom, if they want to, in coordination with the Ministries of Interior and Foreign Affairs," he explained.
    He disclosed Awasir's plan to visit 30 countries in order to check on the conditions of Saudi families living there. "We would like to present a study on the repercussions of foreign marriages on Saudi society," Al-Suwalem said and urged the media to enlighten the public on the negative effects of such marriages.


    Saudis warned against marrying foreign women - Arab News

    What do you all think about this?
    Last edited by Guest; 07-19-2010, 11:04 PM.

  • #2
    Originally posted by shlombay
    Obtain permission? what happened to freedom??

    Freedom in Saudi Arabia? Is that a joke?
    Who has freedom there besides the royals?

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    • #3
      There is no compulsion in religion.

      If someone wants to do as they please then they may. Who are we to tell them otherwise? It is between them and Allah.

      If people are concerned about Islam, then we can help them; however, if they don't want our advise then we should not shove our beliefs down peoples' throats.
      Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

      [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

      [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Jasmine
        This was done so they men can not marry women from outside.
        You can advise, but that is all you can do. Period.

        People use religion for political reasons, this should not happen.
        Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

        [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

        [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Jasmine
          And what to do with the millions of unmarried woman? Prostitution?
          That is why Islam allows a man to marry upto four wives in order to help society to keep safe from this corruption. This is what Western Europe faced after WWII, but because their system did not have an answer to that phenomenon a lot of women were left without a companion for the rest of their lives. Truly a sad period in human history.

          It is amazing that history has never recorded men being more then women.
          Last edited by MeemWawMeemNoon; 07-19-2010, 11:44 PM.
          Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

          [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

          [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Jasmine
            They actually have I have studied that there are more women.

            but which woman wants to have her husband shared?
            They don't have to. No one forces them, not even Islam, but one thing one must admit is that companionship is a natural need, and Islam has the answer to correcting the problem of gender ratio--which 100% of the time women out numbering men or an equal ratio.
            Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

            [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

            [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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            • #7
              Of course, I am. They are not allowed to dictate how people should live their lives. Heck, even the Prophet (saw) has been forbidden to do so in the Quran.
              Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

              [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

              [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Jasmine
                But its a necessary measure they feel as though the culture will disappear.
                They can what they want, but just don't do it under the guise of Islam.
                Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                • #9
                  Assalamu Alaikum

                  It is coming from Saudi Arabia, they are notorious for this: it does not have to be mentioned.
                  Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                  [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                  [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                  • #10
                    "Sometimes."

                    I don't see the purpose behind this. The Prophet (saw) did not only restrict himself to Quraish women.
                    Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                    [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                    [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                    • #11
                      Muslim societies of today are living contradictions.

                      Saudia Arabia does not even treat non-Saudi Muslims humanely, how can they ever follow the path of the Prophet (saw) properly. This warning just goes to show that.
                      Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                      [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                      [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                      • #12
                        Growing up as a child I thought that. Now, I know better and I really feel pity for people who associate puritanical Islam with the Wahabi influenced House of Saud.

                        Ordinary and uneducated Muslims have been used to promote that Saudi Arabia stands for true Islam. If they only knew that Saudi Arabia would spit in their face if and when given the chance.
                        Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                        [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                        [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                        • #13
                          Pure Islam.
                          Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                          [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                          [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                          • #14
                            Yes, it is true. I have seen some clips on youtube that confirms this. If I find them I will post them.
                            Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                            [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                            [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                            • #15
                              Insha Allah.
                              Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                              [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                              [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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