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    salam
    women work ?
    The first suspicion: a case and must work for women as half of the society:

    Advocates say women's emancipation: to be exploited women because they are half of society, and even complements the other half, increasing national wealth, and locked between four walls of a waste of dignity and paralyze their movement and potential disruption to their productions and scientific and practical and intellectual.

    answer:
    11 - No one disputes the rulings of Islam understands that the contracts of women and conduct business properly in session does not depend on leave one of the guardian or husband. No one contests that if a woman did not find one to support from the husband or relatives did not house money duty so that it may work to gain strength..
    2 - The women in general in Islam which should not be assigned to spend on themselves, but the guardian of the father or husband or brother or anyone that is spending it to devote itself to married life and motherhood, and the effects of this are obvious in the regularity of the home and supervision of the Educational Boys and maintenance of the futility of men, women, solicitation and guile to remain a decent clean reputation in the community.
    3-Islam took into account the nature of women and it Aftrt preparations, medical studies have shown that a woman's multiple psychological and physical may God created the body contrary to configure the man. Science has proved that the difference too between men and women of the cell, and the end of the tissues and organs; Considering the difference in the blood and bone and the reproductive system and muscular system and the different hormones in different psychological as well as, we believe ventured men and hardness compared to guard women and modesty, came the modern research to expose the case symmetry ideological difference between the sexes, so that boys think differently to atone for girls, and storage capacity and information in the brain is different in the child than in girls, and the man's brain bigger and heavier and more recesses of the brain of women, exploring the history, we find that excel in every art hardly legions sift, while Nabgat we find that a few of the women in any of these areas
    4-The physiological functions of women is hampered by work outside the home, is enough to look at what is going on in women in menstruation, pregnancy and childbirth to know that going out to work outside the home is disruptive to the original work itself and go against fitr on her behalf and composition of biological
    5-Of women in her work takes effort and energy to do so if she does well is better to do:

    A - it is required to provide an atmosphere dew marital affection and compassion, smell good and ten time intimacy,

    No women fun physical which is intended to link only with nationality, but before and after the spirit of nice and the same honest, up by her husband suffer from the aftermath work, and grim, the same as suffering the in his work, but will soon then only a little and if Bkahlh conceal himself a luxury, it goes back to normal of the company, kindness, and working women, if not eliminates, including such housing, then at least weaken it so much.

    B - a claim the right to carry the child and needs variety. There are the needs of the membership of hunger, thirst, hygiene, and a need for psychological security resulting from the moderation in cash, and the preservation of the child from the consequences of neglect, and needs for social recognition not to censure or hatred and not being accountable to no overcharge. There is the need to play, and the need for freedom and independence.

    C - is required to undertake regular home affairs, and it takes considerable effort.

    It is ironic that the work of women in the home is classified in the part of hard work, it requires considerable effort in addition to long hours of between 10 and 12 hours a day.

    These broad aspects of the work of women in the home, can not be met on the face of completeness is concerned with the great work

    The second suspicion: Protest to increase national wealth:

    Advocates argue that women's involvement should be functioning more in the national wealth of the country, and that the country is losing a lot of women's work on the Palace of the House, except for its laziness and get used to the killing of her time with is not helpful

    Answer:

    1 - The women's involvement affect the economic life of a bad influence, given that its work in the competition for men in the field of natural activity, leading to the publication of unemployment among men.

    2 - if it is proved that the functioning of women leads to unemployment for men was likely to be the man who Zahmth her husband or her father or her brother, any economic gain for the family if the functioning of women leads to unemployment and the dean in charge of spending it?!

    3 - The interests of the people are not always measurable scale, purely physical, if we assume that the functioning of women increases in national wealth, but it is certain that the nation is losing so the loss of moral and social, not appreciated, that is the loss of harmony of the family and coherence, what losing run, reported damage to the nation: loss of physical or social loss?!.

    4 - This view of the material does not apply to the reality of our lives and the lives of other communities, even in communism, there is in every society groups are disabled for material production, armies and the staff does not increase the wealth of the nation's material, has been chosen for all nations to devote the army to protect the country without being obliged to work and earn a living , Can it be said: This disruption of the wealth of human and lead to lower national wealth in the country?!

    The lives of the people are not all calculated profit and loss account physical Vakarm, gallantry and sacrifice, loyalty, and help others make all of this loss of material, but do not give up a great profit by honest people who cherish human dignity.

    Rather than maintenance of the family and child care and upbringing of children less matter in the eyes of those sophisticated dental ethical values that are not measured purely physical scale.

    5 - Those who say: The presence of women in the home to get used to laziness, therefore fatten our women than Westerners, these do not know the trouble the home and work, and how a woman complains of Enaih, what evening evening only a helpless, imagination itself to meet with neighbors and friends. And girls as long as the school they receive the flag may not overwork him, and if completed the school does not stay in the house of her father and her mother only by preparing for the transition to the marital home, it is in this case receive practical lessons from her mother in the management of the house, and its and their affairs, not may nonetheless be overburdened with work outside the home.

    The work of women in the home was a daughter or wife not less than the work outside the home, hardship and trouble, and often more difficult and burdensome.

    The third suspicion: the use of maid in the care of the house:

    Advocates say a woman going out of her house to work: What do you say if a woman wanted to work outside the home and the project came servant acting on behalf of the work of the house and custody of children and their upbringing?!.

    Answer:

    1 - remains a work in its own right is prohibited outside the home as long as they are not being forced to, does not absolve them from committing this act is prohibited to bring the maid is paid by the prejudice to the performance of their duties at home, because the education of children by their mother and inform them of affection motherhood and affection can not be collected by the maids.

    2 - The words of the objector means that he does not weight or as maids, and they did not consider deserve care and attention, and that they like less than others, and such consideration is not true may not be, because when we say that the prevention of women's work outside the home, it said general provision covers all women domestic workers and Almkhaddomat, how Nsog for domestic work outside the home, which is forbidden them, and allow the Mkhaddomat to work outside the home, which is forbidden to them?! Is this the only such commission prohibited to get rid of banned one?!.

    3 - The presence of the maid or nanny in the house has many negative effects on children in particular and the family generally


  • #2
    i post this in other theard but it's ignored
    now all u can read it

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    • #3
      2 put it simply its allowed... One need only look at Prophets wife Hz Khadija
      Frater aliquis in fide nec fratrem humanitatis


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      • #4
        ^ exactly my point dreamer...........summer.........this article really confuset me.

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        • #5
          a few of his other wives worked as well... Any work is allowed so long as its not degrading
          Frater aliquis in fide nec fratrem humanitatis


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          • #6
            past not like future

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            • #7
              Most women today who want to work, want to work to be financially independent so that they can threaten to leave their husband at anytime. This is a behavior and ideology that encourages divorce. The more women work the more divorce will increase.

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              • #8
                Samin many women i know are divorcing husband even though they are house wives...so i wouldn't say that is the root cause of divorce that women work. If a husband aint happy wid a working wife, they shud make this clear before they marry. But many people back home are happy wid wife working coz they are greedy for money
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Samin View Post
                  Most women today who want to work, want to work to be financially independent so that they can threaten to leave their husband at anytime. This is a behavior and ideology that encourages divorce. The more women work the more divorce will increase.
                  that is NOT true!
                  how can you prove it?

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Saifullah View Post
                    Samin many women i know are divorcing husband even though they are house wives...so i wouldn't say that is the root cause of divorce that women work. If a husband aint happy wid a working wife, they shud make this clear before they marry. But many people back home are happy wid wife working coz they are greedy for money


                    lol on the other thread i was going to respond saying that every man and women have their own preference
                    some women would rather be a stay at home mom instead of going to uni
                    and some men are attracted to women who earn their own money
                    so we can't keep generalizing everyone

                    ....but i forgot to say it LOL

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                    • #11
                      Wat our problem is that we are leaving Islam. We like to follow part of Islam and reject stuff we dont like. Ive mentioned this before our men will be strict on their wives, but when they go market or somewhere they will stare at women 24/7, they will follow girls and they might drink or go clubbing. Thats why they are so strict on their women because they think every man is filthy minded like they are. No doubt we must look after our wives according to Islam and never transgress the limits.

                      Islam is a balanced religion and women can work if they follow islamic rules. We need to take our mind out of the gutter and look towards progressive thinking within the fold of Islam. People wanna introduce western laws, we don't need that because Islam shows us everything about how to be balanced, but our men don't follow that. They just wanna impose things without making people realise the essence of faith and to make actions be from the heart rather than any other reason. To be connected to their faith...
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                      • #12
                        Divorce is increasing in the Muslim world . You can google that.

                        Divorce rate in Kuwait 50pc ... and rising <-50% in Kuwait

                        Divorce Rates in Muslim Countries "Epidemic" | First Wives World
                        Divorce Rates in Muslim Countries "Epidemic"

                        Posted to Relevant News by Jill Brooke on Mon, 09/15/2008 - 11:48pm Here's a startling fact: Divorce rates in United Arab Emirates (UAE) countries have reached 46 percent, according to a Saudi Arabian study.
                        In the U.S., the land where Islamic leaders criticize the so-called morally loose and oh-too-independent women, the divorce rate is roughly the same.
                        Seems like a veil has finally been lifted to expose a problem that happens when a husband can just utter "I divorce thee" to his wife and then, poof, the marriage is annulled without going through a judicial process.
                        Now, according to Islamic scholars meeting in Abu Dhabi as part of the tradition of welcoming Muslim scholars during the holy month, divorce has become an epidemic in the Gulf and a crisis that need to be addressed to prevent family break-ups.
                        One solution being discussed is getting rid of the ability to have an oral divorce.
                        Some Arab countries, such as Morocco and Tunisia, have already moved away from oral divorce and now require divorcing couples to appear before a judge, mainly to safeguard the rights of the wife. (Always a good thing).
                        Regardless of how divorce proceedings are reformed, most scholars agree that preventing family break-ups is a crucial issue.
                        Sheikha Naima bin Yaish, a Moroccan scholar specializing in family Islamic jurisprudence, urged greater investment in programs that help keep families together and educate couples how to have a fulfilling marriage both sexually and emotionally. She blames the West -- natch -- for our cultural influences, but it sounds like it is a reality that needs to be addressed and cannot be ignored.
                        “Family now has a different role than it did in previous generations. It’s not possible for newlyweds today to enter into a marriage with the same mentality as their parents,” she said.
                        “The main role of the family today is to give emotional fulfillment to its members, starting with the wife and husband. They must fulfill each other emotionally otherwise the family is threatened with break-up.
                        “Adultery, usually the sin of husbands, is also a rising phenomenon among wives, and that too is due to lack of fulfillment for women.
                        “Couples must also fulfill each other sexually. This is a very important element of marital life.”
                        Sheika Yaish added that globalization had introduced the western concept of individualism to the Muslim world, which is not complementary to Islamic or Arab culture, and that it was also contributing to family break-ups.
                        A program in Morocco has helped prevent 70 percent of their cases from divorcing, she says.
                        “Through one organization, Karama for Women’s Development, we entered a partnership with the family court and asked them to send us their divorce files as a last effort to mediate between the husband and wife,” she said.
                        The group was so successful it had even managed to help a dozen divorced parents to remarry five years after their separation.
                        Sheikha Yaish said one of the essential elements young couples are missing today is education in family jurisprudence, what she called the culture and science of family interaction. This was adding to the rising divorce rate throughout the Muslim world.
                        Malaysia also tried a similar experiment. The country did a study of divorce rates and found it to be 36 percent. Now there’s a program that requires anyone who gets married to attend a month-long course to study the science of family.
                        “It is fully paid for by the government, and includes hotel accommodations and a tourism trip,” she said. “At the end of a year, divorce had fallen to 19 percent. They managed to cut it by half through education, and that was only targeting the newlyweds. I am sure they can do the same for those already married.”
                        However, for any of these programs to work, the men – yes, the men -- must be open to changing their attitudes and behavior.
                        Marriage counseling courses had been tried before. In March, the Ministry of Social Affairs launched a two-month program called Sweet As Honey, in response to complaints from Emirati wives that the unrelenting pace of change was putting intolerable stress on them and their marriages. But few husbands attended, a fact much lamented by many of the wives who did.
                        With men being 50 percent of a marriage, unless they are involved in change, it can't happen.

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                        • #13
                          not all men stare about women !!!
                          women stare about men all the time !!

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                          • #14
                            Yea that article brings up good points we need to wonder why divorce rates are increasing.
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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by summer love View Post
                              not all men stare about women !!!
                              women stare about men all the time !!

                              They just stare at you because you look funny []

                              I am joking bro so don't mind it

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