Q&A

[abubaker]

why should we even have two separate threads for the exact same purpose in the first place

no offence zazai wrora

i love zazi they are nice people very hospitable

[Michin Khel]

hey hmmmm should i answer this question here ????? or should i just private message it 2 u?????

mabye some people would not like me to answer this question in front of everyone if any1 has a problem with me answering it here just let me no?

Islam zda kawano k sharam nishata zaka tolo makh k jawab post ka.

[king-zazai]

Derar Zazai Sahab.

do you think hitting a wife is okay?

Bismillah

Hitting your wife in islam is allowed and I will explain HOW and WHY
but the right way which is obvious is that a husband can not give her
broken bones, bruises, or hurt her deeply and NOO WAYYY can you hit
her in the face or other parts that are sensitve.

that being sayed I'm sure you have heard non-muslims bring up the
verse in the quran saying in Surah Nisa chapter 34: "and beat your
wives..." the translation "beat" is wrong rather it means lightly
where damage can not be shown.

I could not answer these question better than this video....
Beating Wife in Islam : Dr Zakir Naik plz check it on youtube

YouTube - Beating Wife in Islam : Dr Zakir Naik

However, seeing pashtuns and their "anger" reminds me of a hadith
which I would like to add

Mu'ad (ra) said: I had a slave and she took care of my sheep. One day
I discovered a wolf had killed a sheep (she lost one of his sheep).
Mu'ad then said: I am a child of adam I get mad like they get mad so
he slaped her in the face. (he right away knew he did sumthing bad).
So he went to rasul (saw) and told him what he did. Mu'ad said should
I free her or what? rasul(saw) sayed bring her to me.R asul(saw) asked
two questions:
1.where is allah? she pointed her finger and looked up
2.who am i? she pointed her finger to rasul then to sky
rasul(Saw) said free her for she is a beliver (muslim,dawood)
as you see when Mu'ad hit the slave girl he right away knew he did
something bad and wanted to fix it adlnd ask for help from rasul(saw).

And also those who hit their wives the wrong way and beat them they
are heartless because how can you hit some who you love so much and is
part of you?

And in pashtun society, yes, there have been alot of cases but I mean
they misunderstand and a wife should not be hit if she obey's her
husband but if the man has some problem or anger problem that is a
diffrent issue. if you want to know what to do if hitting happens let
me know? But if it gets to that point you wonder what has happened to
this relationship. Allah help us, make us live good lives and give us
best in this world and the next, ameen.

Just to add pashtuns are the most romantic people one way or another

[king-zazai]

Zazai sahab what a husband should do if his wife deny sexual intercourse with him?

bismillah

what a husbad should do is remind the wife that the angels curse her until the morring if she refuses to sleep with him and he is angry at her.

secondly this is a man's desire which needs 2 be fulfilled by his wife and thats WHY men have to get rightouss modest wife not those western usless wives then she will listen and remind her of what rasul(saw) sayed also if a man calls her and she in cooking she should go and sleep with him.

women need 2 no that a man disires need 2 be fulfilled and if they refuse allah-u-alim what he might do if he cant sleep with his own wife

so just remind your wife what the rasul(saw) sayed and if this contiunes like she still does not listen and still does not want 2 sleep with you then you have a major problem with your wife and. 1 of the reasons that allow sexual intercourse is marriage and man in general want it more than women and if she keeps refusing AFTER u have told her of the hadiths then sit and talk 2 her calmly and ask her why and all that and if she still refuses then make divorce because this is a major issue which will just cause more problems

also a great scholor once sayed: one of the greatest things to find is a righteous wife.

[king-zazai]

Professor ZAZAI. What do you think of Shias?

o wow...one of my main topics shia and sufis hehe

well here is the thing the topic in itslef is a LONG one but here i will try 2 make things shrot and clear 2 u...

shia's believe that abu bak and umar ibnj khattab(ra) where bad people and they actually have texts in thier shia books saying they should swear at them

also they praise the man who killed umar ibn khattab(ra) and say he was a brave man and also they say a du'wah in thier prayer cursing umar abu bakr and thier 2 daughters ai'sha(ra)

while we sunis follow these ppl and have great respect to them and love and honour them for what they did for islam it boils one blood when they here them say bad thigns about the greatest man after rasul(saw)


also they think the quran is not complete they say we left some parts out


and they fornicate and say its ok

basicalyy they r non muslims and im not being rational!!


ibn taymiyaah sayed we should not even have contact with them and not even talk to them
and ibn hazam was arguing with a preist which a shia told them the quran was fabricated and ibn hazam sayed: shi'ites is not a proof against the quran, nor against the muslims because shi'ites are not muslims


also the 1st shia was a JEWW!! abdullah ibn sabah was his name and thier was alot of ppl who fake converted 2 ruin the deen

thier r many other false beliefs and wrong things they do but i have argued with them and they r veryyyyy ignortant ppl and its funny because they talk like jews to hehe

[MazloomyarMaseed]

"what a husbad should do is remind the wife that the angels curse her until the morring if she refuses to sleep with him and he is angry at her."

Its this Mentality that makes Muslims look so backward and stone age minded. I mean how an earth is a Angel going to curse somebody until Morning. Will a building fall on her during the night or something? According to these sorta guys, they will praise a suicide bombers who will slaughter 10's of civilians and consider them just shaheeds ignoring the fact innocent civilians died,and now they want Angels to curse women.

Out of all the Millions of Peoples on this Planet, an threat of an Angel curse will force the woman to have sex with a man.

Oh god, What happened to buying her roses and a box of chocolates haha

Then you say Western Women are uselss and dont fullfill a mans desire and a Rightous Women fulfills a Mans sexual desire.

How do you know western women are useless, you ever dated one?

Secondly, Your making yourself look like a Supporter of Rape by forcing angels to scare the women and then saying women are to fullfill a mans desire.

Kind Regards