Love marriage???

[Shehbaz Khan]

Faye I've such a picture I will upload it here later

[faye]

i remember seeing this old couple in india. probably 70-80 years old and they looked so contented and were holding hands as they walked along. i am sure they would have been in an arranged marriage. i went to a lot of homes there too and saw happy couples and their children.
people from the west, who haven't seen these families, can think negatively about arranged marriages.

[MostafaM]

I really don´t know if something like love exists or is it a twisted version of the fear of being alone.....

Attaching one´s heart to something evanescent......I don´t know......doesn´t sound right to me.

[faye]

lol, your mood says something different, mostafa.

[MostafaM]

....and who said I am in love with a human being?

Makawa nazoona janana! lol

[faye]

strawberry ice cream?

[MostafaM]

^Books!



Back to topic:

I think an arranged marriage is better and admiration as well as respect comes while being engaged and married.

[afgpwincess]

^^^^
aww lool

[Master Khan]

^Books!



Back to topic:

I think an arranged marriage is better and admiration as well as respect comes while being engaged and married.

yep because Parents knows better .
its not just about how the girl is, its also about her family...too many threads about love and marriage...then again its PASHTUNforums

[Alchemist]

Funny Indian Proposal - YouTube

[AFG21]

its 2011 holmes, these girls are dating. keep it classy and keep your game sharp and youll do fine

I don't think so I never heard of pukhtane girl dating a guy, they only date after a engagement, But how do you know if the girl is right for you.

[AFG21]

I really don´t know if something like love exists or is it a twisted version of the fear of being alone.....

Attaching one´s heart to something evanescent......I don´t know......doesn´t sound right to me.

Aaaa don't give up on love, you wil find one day some one and the you will think the other way around :P LOL.

[MostafaM]

Aaaa don't give up on love, you wil find one day some one and the you will think the other way around :P LOL.

LOL

Wrora,

I do not GIVE UP on love.
It´s just a fact that from a ethological point of view, concepts like compassion, love, hatred etc. are all "emotions" that developed through time and they all have a selfish foundation......

The romantic love that we talk about is a selfless idea, almost an utopic idea with absolutly no relevance in real life.

We can write poems, books and essays about it or shoot films.....but love as a selfless concept doesn´t exist.

Everything is a give and take.....there is no just take, take and take even more untill I am dead.

So, giving up on something that doesn´t exist is almost impossible! haha

[Laila]

I am surprised there are a lot of male replies here awww I knew you guys had a soft spot, somewhere.

[afgpwincess]

^^^^lool males always have a soft spot for love :P