Afghan Trust: Support Orphans

[IamDZJ]

^ if you really want to adopt an afghan child and not have to worry about someone coming to snatch him or her from you later on in life then go to afghanistan and visit a hospital. speak to the person in charge of the hospital and explain your situation to them. they always end up with babies that have been abandoned by the parents or parent.
there might not be an official process of adoption but in order to bring him or her back to usa, you might have to convince one of your relatives to pretend it's their child and that they are letting you take care of it or adopt it.

[pashtun_rise]

ok..but m afraid my hubby wont let me go to afghanistan since he fears too much of loosing me..i can come to peshawer however.Do u know any1 who can help me out? Who can help me get the baby from afghanistan?

[pashtun_rise]

Stupid! m dying to have a baby out of a mother's love.N here ppl like u r making fun.

[Afghanistan2010]

you can't adopt as it is,but you can freely take care of a child without changing the name of the child (especially the family name ).

[pashtun_rise]

Ofcourse the family name or tribe whoever he belongs to will be with him...m not that much cruel to take away a person's family name.

[Afghanistan2010]

Don't steal any child,make it not public to all world that you support a child or two or three,leave it with you and your husband if you support anyone.

And inshaAllah there shall be no problems with this.

I pray to Allah,that he would give other people the same oppertunity as Allah has given you an open heart.

[IamDZJ]

enjoy the sight.

[Breshna]

https://www.afghanorphans.net

Please click here to download Direct Debit form

Afghan Orphan.Net Charity.

This is who i support and...trust.

Their work has been checked...out,

they are doing a...lot for Orphans.

Ramadan is nearly...here.

Do open your heart and...donate.

You can donate by visa from...any country.

Or even...PayPal.

[Shamlawar Khurasani]

www.afghanorphans.net

Please click here to download Direct Debit form

Afghan Orphan.Net Charity.

This is who i support and...trust.

Their work has been checked...out,

they are doing a...lot for Orphans.

Ramadan is nearly...here.

Do open your heart and...donate.

You can donate by visa from...any country.

Or even...PayPal.

Yes, I support them too. They are mashaa Allah very good brothers.

I think they are the best charity Afghans have created in all of EUROPE ands UK

[pashtun_rise]

I had already tried b4...but havent got any news yet.Regarding making me it public...u r right i shudnt but i thought here i may find a clue to how n where shud i procede.N its becoz i consider it haram to steal a baby thats y i already said that i wont snatch sm1's baby.I wd legalize the baby through papers in the court and get visa thru proper means ..its not like i d steal.May Allah forbid me from doing this.All i wanted is a baby bcz only i know how hard it is not to have a baby.I ll try to contact a hospital though.lets c...

[Breshna]

What country are you...from?

[Shamlawar Khurasani]

What country are you...from?

i am from Holland and UK

[pashtun_rise]

From FATA...but have been living in various regions.Right now in malaysia.Married since 2yrs.Do u think its not allowed to adopt baby in islam?

[Breshna]

I have family back home who have their own...children

and still have adopted children who are...orphans.


Adoption in Islam
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.25 Narrated by Aisha
Abu Hudhaifa bin Utba bin Rabi'a bin Abdi Shams who had witnessed the battle of Badr along with the Prophet (saws) adopted Salim as his son, to whom he married his niece, Hind bint Al-Walid bin 'Utba bin Rabi'a; and Salim was the freed slave of an Ansar woman, just as the Prophet (saws) had adopted Zaid as his son. It was the custom in the Pre-Islamic period that if somebody adopted a boy, the people would call him the son of the adoptive father and he would be the latter's heir. But when Allah revealed the Divine Verses: "Call them by (the names of) their fathers……" (33.5) the adopted persons were called by their fathers' names. The one whose father was not known, would be regarded as a Maula and their brother in religion.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 6.305 Narrated by Abdullah bin Umar
We used not to call Zaid bin Haritha (r.a.) the freed slave and adopted son of Allah's Messenger (saws) except Zaid bin Muhammad till the Quranic Verse was revealed: "Call them (adopted sons) by (the names of) their fathers. That is more than just in the Sight of Allah." (33.5)

The Messenger of Allah (saws) himself adopted the slave-boy Zaid bin Haritha (r.a.) given as a gift to him by his wife Hadrat Khadijah (r.a.)…..Hadrat Zaid (r.a.) lived and grew up in the Prophet’s (saws) household along with his other children, and until the Divine Verses of Surah Ahzaab were revealed years later in Madinah, Hadrat Zaid bin Haritha (r.a.) was called and recognized and Zaid bin Mohamed (saws)!

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 4974 Narrated by Abu Umamah
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "If anyone strokes an orphan's head, doing so only for Allah's Sake, he will have blessings for every hair over which his hand passes; and if anyone treats well an orphan girl or boy under his care, he and I (Prophet Mohamed (saws)) shall be like these two in Paradise," putting two of his fingers together!

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 4973 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "The best house among the Muslims is one which contains an orphan who is well treated, and the worst house among the Muslims is one which contains an orphan who is badly treated."

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 8.34 Narrated by Sahl bin Sad
The Prophet (saws) said, "I and the person who looks after an orphan and provides for him, will be in Paradise like this," putting his index and middle fingers together.”

In light of the above guidance of the Quran and Sunnah not only is adoption permitted in Islam, it is highly encouraged and an extremely meritorious act in the Sight of the Lord Most Gracious.

There is absolutely no restriction in Shariah regarding a single woman adopting a child, but because the relationship of blood in Islamic Law has obvious ties towards marriage, inheritance, etc.; there are certain guidelines in Islam a believer who wishes to adopt must follow:

• The child will always be called by his/her biological father’s name.
• The child will only inherit from his original blood-relationship. He will not be eligible to inherit from his foster-parents. The foster-parents who adopt the child have the option to will or bequeath upto a maximum of one/third of their wealth to their adopted children after their death, if they wish to do so.
• If the foster-mother has nursed the adopted child in her infancy, then she will be considered a mehram of the child; but if the foster-mother has not nursed the adopted child, then she will not be considered a mehram of the adopted child.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

• Adoption

As long as you don't change the Childs...identity

its fine.

[pashtun_rise]

Thanx for such information...m still willing to go further...even i wd ve my own child...i actually saw a dream regarding this.My husband also says it doesnt matter if we wd ve our own child (which Allah knows best).We ll give inheritance to the adopted baby as well n as much as that of our own baby.But i saw in another thread of afghan adoption ...where sm1 says in afghanistan no adoption is allowed these days? I ll check the immigrants list then...or some hospitals.