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  • #1

    unfaithful freindship

    lets share some of our own stories that we have seen, or heard of, about unfaithful friendships, when i was a kid my mum used to tell me stories of friendship, and not to make anyone ur freind or tell ur personal to them untill u fully trust them, however sometimes even if u trust someone very much, they can be unfaithful at the end.

    This is a real story, and it happened in my school back-home
    there were two girls, best freinds, they used to be always togather and really trusted each other, but one of them decided to betray, her freind. It was akhair char shamba (wed when ppl cooks sweet rice), so the two sis came to school togather (they were from well known family) her sis and her were in the enterance of school, sister thought she went inside, but she didnt, she went with her freind to her house, after that she got disappeared for a week, her parents blamed the head teacher police were everywhere looking for her, finally they found her in a ruined house, she was in coma.
    so her best freind sold her on 7 men, and she left the city.
    i dont know what happened to the girl, i hope she is fine and her other sis left school as well ppl used to run after her when she used to come school and were asking about her sister : (

    to me this was a lesson to learn
    Tags: freindship, unfaithful
  • #2
    the thing is as humans we have this tendency to put our trust in others, and do good to them to the point that one day, you look back and it makes you cry. Actually a similar thing got me really depressed today, something happened which really got me thinking about doing things for others then getting it thrown in your face. But i guess we just can't help it.

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    • #3
      can yo share it eye wat happened?

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      • #4
        ^ there are so many situations, so many incidents. It may hurt when friends do that, but even family/cousins are like that

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        • #5
          Actually expectations hurt alot.. So better to keep your nose open !!
          yao warokay ghwandi baagh ao pa khwa ye seen rawan!

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          • #6
            thats very sad, sheenkay did u know her?
            i've heard similar story thses things happens in afghanistan alot

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            • #7
              Hmm... I have personally been through only one incidence of betrayal, but I've seen many, many happening to others. Just remember this one fact of life: What goes around comes around. My own story has already proven it to me, so, if I were y'all, I'd just let nature take over it. When it comes back around, it's the best scene to watch, and I've had the pleasure of watching half of it already. So, rest assured, folks, those who are worthy of your love and respect would never betray you; those who you THINK are worthy and end up betraying you, know that if you think about it or let it hurt you too much, you're giving them the pleasure of feeling that they own you. So relax and let nature do the job for you.

              But learn from your experiences and feelings. Since you know what it's like to be betrayed, never betray anyone else. Develop good communication skills so that if there ever is a moment in which your friends feel like you've betrayed them or you feel like they've betrayed you but they act like nothing happened, then let them know.

              Smile, now!
              Last edited by Guest; 11-20-2010, 08:28 PM.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Roshina View Post
                When it comes back around, it's the best scene to watch, and I've had the pleasure of watching half of it already.
                Reading this froze me. Truly depressing to see you reveal your state of mind.

                Astaghfirullahi rabbi.

                Indeed studying Islam is only an academic interest for you. How could advise people like that?
                Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                • #9
                  how do u know the individaul is untrustworthy?

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                  • #10
                    Roshina,

                    you are so shameless. It is not about attention. Believe me. I am sincerely writing this.

                    It is not easy talking to you. You have put yourself on a high pedestal and you won't listen to anyone. Not everyone who disagrees with you is your enemy.

                    I truly felt sad when read that. It is not about putting you down.

                    Take what I wrote as you wish, but a true believer does not think like you.

                    The Prophet (saw) was so forgiving to the Meccans when he re-entered after the Victory of Mecca. Yet, you who are portraying yourself as a know it all about Islam are advising people to feel good justice is served. We should never feel happy when another human being is suffering, even if it is our enemies.

                    The purpose of Islam is to take away vengeance and hatred from within us.
                    Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                    [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                    [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                    • #11
                      any one who has the ability to fool me has earned him/herself the right to do so.

                      I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

                      non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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                      • #12
                        If someone were to betray me, I would just blame myself for not being wise with my decisions. I would learn from my mistake and try not to repeat it. Life is a learning process, I would never wish to see someone face or witness what I have faced. In fact, I might even carefully analyze the situation to prevent it from happening again. This whole 'Baddua' and ' I wish to see you burn!' or "Karma is a B!Tch, hEheHeh, what you did to me will also happy to you, just wait" Is just not my cup of tea and I quite frankly find it childish and immature.

                        For example, If let's say Meemwawmemnoon betrays me, I would never wish to see him 'suffer'. I would leave it to the hands of God, and keep it moving. I'm different, I for one don't define pleasure as seeing someone witness pain and torture. If things are 'extremely' serious, the country I was born in has by birth given me the right to seek justice. So people, stop wasting your time by watching other people suffer, get your own acts together. Utilize your time more productively. Just because someone betrayed you, doesn't mean you have to spend your entire life waiting for that moment where he or she suffers. Not everything warrants a retaliation.
                        Even Adobe Photoshop can't change me.

                        A line[Durrand line] of hatred that raised a wall between the two brothers -Hamid Karzai

                        For generations, the Hindus of India prayed for deliverance from "the venom of the cobra, the teeth of the tiger and the vengeance of the Afghan."


                        The men of Kábul and Khilj also went home; and whenever they were questioned about the Musulmáns of the Kohistán (the mountains), and how matters stood there, they said, "Don't call it Kohistán, but Afghánistán; for there is nothing there but Afgháns and disturbances." Thus it is clear that for this reason the people of the country call their home in their own language Afghánistán, and themselves Afgháns. The people of India call them Patán; but the reason for this is not known. But it occurs to me, that when, under the rule of Muhammadan sovereigns, Musulmáns first came to the city of Patná, and dwelt there, the people of India (for that reason) called them Patáns—but God knows!

                        -Ferishta, 1560–1620

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                        • #13
                          ^A true Islamic advice.
                          Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                          [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                          [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                          • #14
                            So, perhaps, when you were wronged, the first time around, nature knew what it was doing? So, why be happy and enjoy the scene, when your betrayers are getting what they "deserved?"

                            Your two posts are so contradictory. Don't save face. Just stick to what you initially wrote. Or, admit that you were wrong, or that you have re-visited your stance.
                            Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                            [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                            [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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                            • #15
                              ^You came back to edit after you saw what I wrote? Get over yourself.
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                              What is that supposed to mean? That you are allowed to say anything you want and present your views are Islamic and I should keep quiet because I don't exist in your world?

                              Do you see how pathetic that sounds?

                              You believe that God does not exist, yet you portray yourself as a Musilm. Do you see the contradiction in your logic? No wonder you are promoting revenge.

                              I might not exist in your eyes, but I will make sure to correct any of your "Islamic" fatwas which go against Islamic tenets. Other people will notice those posts.

                              The arrogance in you. Mind-blowing.

                              ps
                              If I truly don't exist in your world, it is called the ignore option. Would you do it? Of course you wouldn't.
                              Last edited by MeemWawMeemNoon; 11-20-2010, 10:39 PM.
                              Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:

                              [61:8] They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.

                              [61:9] He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.

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