Disturbing Dream

[Zayam]

I had a disturbing dream while waking today. I try hard to trust Allah, to not let my past and those in it continue to hurt me. It seems when I think I am doing fine, my subconscious shows me, that the hurt may be buried, but it is not gone.

Does anyone know what I mean?

[KhyberKhan]

no. i heard your not suppose to tell others the details of bad dreams anyway. (i know you havent)

only the good ones.

[kandahari ella]

You're not over what happened in your past whatever that might have been. The emotional pain or hurt you feel in that dream is closely connected to the sorrow you experienced in waking life. It's going to be continuous dream that's going to make your soul bitter or bitterer-- that's probably why you mentioned that you "try very hard to trust Allah". Its your way of letting go of the past, but it seems like for your subconscious that's not enough. You need closure. You somehow need to find a way to deal with those past events, try to forgive and forget so you can be able to move on and achieve a general sense of balance and equilibrium in your life. You need to continue to stay close to your faith in Allah (swt) and find another way of finding closure with events from the past and gradually allow yourself time to heal and move on with life.

[flower]

Sometimes it's good to be reminded of past hurt because inshallah it will help us from making similar mistakes again.

[kandahari ella]

unknownprice- it seems like you'll give him good tips on how to be revengeful! =)

[amna.]

Allah wants to remind you about what had happened so its not repeated. Cheer up

[kandahari ella]

Haha. "An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind". He can heal other ways, and have faith in Allah (SWT) that better days will come. And move on with his life. Be the bigger and better person. I'm assuming he's dealing with only a handful of individuals, now if he was dealing with a totalitarian state where everything he believed in was being taken away, then I'd say go for the revenge.

I love V for Vendetta!

[IamDZJ]

funny..
back in the days when i was going through hell emotionally i would have such beautiful dreams every night but now that i am not in as much stress as i was before i have started having very bad dreams. sometimes i wake up with such an unpleasant feeling that it's completely hard to ignore.
dreams are dreams zayam. if they are good ones cherish them otherwise to hell with it. don't forget your glass of milk before sleep.

[Fahd]

I had a disturbing dream while waking today. I try hard to trust Allah, to not let my past and those in it continue to hurt me. It seems when I think I am doing fine, my subconscious shows me, that the hurt may be buried, but it is not gone.

Does anyone know what I mean?

never talk about bad dreams
because mybe that become real
khodai de nakeeh

and u should read aya alqurci when u want to bed and the last 3 sorat
alnas - alfalaq - alikhlas
when u read it
ba zan deh shop ka
then sleep on ur right side

[spogmai shaglay]

Zayam,,,,u are still trying hard on trusting Allah.....thats t he problem of most of us that we try to trust Allah, we dont have complete trust on Alah........trust Allah and see how Allah takes care of all the happening in your life......

and about your past, we have to accept it, learnto livewith it or forget it,,,, most of the times we dont forget things because we dont want to forget them and hence we are haunted by our past......

most of the times our dreams are what we think throughout the day.......or even something that is in our sub conscious mind.....because our subconscious is more powerful than our conscious mind.....we need to condition our subconscious according to whatever we want or whatever we achieve......

let your subcosncious know that you are happy, you dont care about the past......

we cant cry over spilled milk,,, what is done is done, what has happened has happened....i really wonder sometimes if we could turn back time,,,, but it isnt possible......we can just think about and work towards making our future better.......