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The main point that Muslim sisters have to bear in mind, those sisters who want to get closer to the their Creator. As for the others, you can ignore my post:
You have to follow the instructions of the One Who has Created you. Period. With the completion of religion, i.e. Islam, Allah Ta'ala has laid down everything that a man and a woman should do in order to get closer to Him.
For a woman to protect her dignity, she is advised to cover herself and not to beautify herself in public. Also, that she should not degrade herself by responding to the ignorant.
That is what you should do.
If something is getting serious, then report it to authorities, whoever that may be. Tell your brother, father, someone who can talk to the ignorant on your behalf. Don't do it yourself. If you are going to respond because you don't want any problems then say this: I fear Allah, please leave me alone.
Now, please keep in mind, that if a man refuses to be decent then it does not mean that you should stoop to his level. He will simply drag you lower in your spiritual climb. If he had any decency he would not have said anything in the first place.
I totally disagree that a woman should talk back in a vile manner. Life is not forever. At the end of the day worry about your spirituality. A woman talking back to an indecent man is not going to change him.
Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:
[61:8]They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.
[61:9]He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.
In Afghanistan, from what i saw; even if a woman wears a burqa....men try to look at her hands and feet, they try to stare at her just to imagine her body, they pull on her burqa, they pinch and grab her, they whisper stuff......
In Afghanistan, from what i saw; even if a woman wears a burqa....men try to look at her hands and feet, they try to stare at her just to imagine her body, they pull on her burqa, they pinch and grab her, they whisper stuff......
image if they wasn't wearing one, Atleast all they can see is her hands and feets and thats it...if they wasn't wearing one then there would have been problems.
^MWMN i respect for whatever you said but dont forget that a women in veil or burqa is not safe and will hear stuff in south asia
Yes beloved brother,
however what should a sister do? Take it all off? Speaking back is not the solution either.
One thing is that Muslim countries have been cursed by Allah. They lack decency and authority.
In the West, if there were no proper laws, you would see the same.
Nonetheless, women even if they are covered will get harassed, so it is better for them to go covered then not.
Islam will prevail, a promise made by the Creator of this universe:
[61:8]They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with the breath of their mouths, but Allah will perfect His light, even if the disbelievers hate it.
[61:9]He it is Who has sent His Messenger with the guidance and the Religion of truth, that He may cause it to prevail over all religions, even if those who associate partners with God hate it.
i agreed with lailo sis coz in afghanistan and pakistan, even if u wear buqra they will still talk and even they know its haram, this things happens in islaamic conutries its ashame
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