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arranged marriages should not be abolished, because sometimes a person cannot find somebody to marry. So he might need assistance from his friends/family or whoever...
Like imagine you go uni and you dont find anyone to get married to, then what you gonna do? You will ask people if you find a girl matching these criteria let me know...then that way its an arranged marriage. So not all marriages can be love marriages...like that you get in love with a girl and say i wanna get married to her. It happens but not all the time
One other point is that being arrogant and not accepting advice from others is going about things in the wrong way. When we are young, we might be immature a bit and maybe not seeing the whole picture. So if we have good parents they will maybe show us that you are not seeing this aspect or that aspect...so its good to have advice, but when it is forced then thats where issues come
Arranged in our culture means taking girl back to watan and giving her to ur uncles son. No questions ask. Because good girls don't question their parents. Lol.
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