2nd love marriages

[ufo973]

Assalam O Alaikum,

I have a strange question from you Afghans!!!

Can an Afghan love his wife and spend a lovely life with her if he knows he is not her first love and she already loved someone else too much?

Is such life possible? what would be the difficulties?

[Yousufzai]

Wa alaikam salam.

When you speak about Afghans, you're speaking about more than thirty million people. People in that region are way too diverse for anyone to answer your question. Your situation could depend on a number of factors: his ethnicity, level of education, culture, socioeconomic background, etc.

You need to approach him about this issue yourself and see how comfortable he'd be in such a relationship.

[HalloIsBack]

so you want to marry a girl or woman who was already married because of love or she loved already someone really deep?
my advice to you: show this girl or woman that you are much better guy than he, love her more than he did, treat her like a queen!
and you will be her first love!

[DaZahroJaam.]

yes unless the second marriage was based on love of either spouse. if you can't stand being around someone in the absence of love, resentment will follow shortly.

[randolph85]

No, just remember she will always have that dude in the back of her mind.

Doesn't that sting?

[ufo973]

No, just remember she will always have that dude in the back of her mind.

Doesn't that sting?

This is the most difficult part :/