the question of raising kids

[$hiva]

bringing a child into this world is the highest form of responsibility. to bring a child just because... is a criminal act

in my own view bringing a child in the west, sending him/her to the schools, and letting that child absorb the internet and the so called western culture is a criminal act. similarly letting that child absorb the afghan/Muslim culture is an even higher criminal act

ideally one should spare oneself from the responsibility and the child from this world but running away from responsibility is death.



so where and how one should bring up a child? in order for that child to have a future that is more than one of the sheep?

i don't know. i'm thinking about it. until i have the answer, i won't bring a child into this world.

[jankhan]

There are no strict rules for it anywhere. Its all about your own experience.
So go for it. Don't fear anything.

[$hiva]

There are no strict rules for it anywhere. Its all about your own experience.
So go for it. Don't fear anything.

if you have been following my posts today, it should be obvious to you that had i actually tried to do what you ask me to do i would have most likely spoiled the whole thing.

why is it that sometimes we do something without any thought and sometimes we don't do something even though its the obvious thing to do?

but then again we think highly of our little egos and we do what we have learned to do, or supposed to do.

if something needs to be it will be done, there is no effort or trying or fear involved.