Why women act stupid?

[randolph85]

men are easily taken advantage of by women.

[$hiva]

you have a bad habit of tossing a bunch of random garbage together when you have no other point. women don't stop acting childish with their spouses after marriage in our culture, they stop doing it in public and every woman in the west does not believe in striping or going to clubs.
in the west, women are taught the value of independence. in the middle east, they are thought about family values. both are highly essential when it comes to building up characters. in the west, if a woman wants something, she works for it and provides herself with it. in our culture, regardless of how much your husband works, if you want something, you emotionally blackmail him until he gets it for you.
and being able to provide for one's self, knowing one's rights or speaking up for one's self rather than depending on others are good qualities that are rarely considered appropriate according to our societies.

One side effect of the westernization process that turns Afghan women (I don't care about other countries) into thinking they're victims and not valued by their own men, is this attitude towards Afghan men, as if they're stupid and the cause of their victimization.

Anyway, what does an Afghan woman living in Afghanistan want?

A responsible Afghan woman wants something that is for the benefit of her family. She might desire clothes and jewelry and so on but a good Afghan woman only wants what benefits her family.

But essentially, a responsible Afghan woman, anywhere, cannot afford to be stupid. By stupid I mean, childish and irresponsible.

In the west mistakes are fine, everything is fine, no one gives a damn, do what you want, but of course once you screw up, you're on your own... We on the other hand have our primitive discipline, don't make mistakes, don't be stupid, don't fall from grace -- this is what our culture enforces.

And who's stupid in the end of the day? What all that western bs education taught all of these liberated Afghan women? Who are they? are they western or Afghan? Sadly, they're neither western nor Afghan, they're the ones who fell into that grey area where they no longer belong.

We're a harsh people with harsh rules and customs, that is what has made us survive and still maintain an identity, which despite all its negative aspects, is still something that no one in the world can take for granted.

Anyway... Islam is pure entertainment while Afghaniat is a discipline.

[Pakwatan]

Women make decisions based upon their feelings. Feelings are constantly changing.

Men tend to make decisions based on logic.

[$hiva]

Women make decisions based upon their feelings. Feelings are constantly changing.

Men tend to make decisions based on logic.

Decisions have nothing to do with thinking, decisions are a product of events.

[$hiva]

Now I know why women act stupid, its very simple, they like stupidity.

The co called intelligence or rational thinking unravels a woman of all her deceit and corruption, so naturally women hate rational thinking and so do most men.

The only light that a person has is rational thought.

[Kochagasht]

i guess that is why some of us go into therapy, just to have our fears or feelings validated. just to have that touch of assurance from an authority, that everything will be alright ...it is all psychological after all

[Badlun]

women are not stupid but generally innocent, innocuous, true, pure, authentic, sensible, going into details, positive minded, optimist, naive,genuine, original, credulous, loyal, sincere, dedicated, faithful, delicate, pretty, beautiful , subtle and sublime.

All such qualities make women stupid for some people. Ideal human being is woman not man. Lthough what matters is person not gender but woman is more refined, more emotional, more sentimental and more sensational. There are good and bad women but woman as a whole is sharp, intelligent and dynamic by nature.

[$hiva]

women are not stupid but generally innocent, innocuous, true, pure, authentic, sensible, going into details, positive minded, optimist, naive,genuine, original, credulous, loyal, sincere, dedicated, faithful, delicate, pretty, beautiful , subtle and sublime.

All such qualities make women stupid for some people. Ideal human being is woman not man. Lthough what matters is person not gender but woman is more refined, more emotional, more sentimental and more sensational. There are good and bad women but woman as a whole is sharp, intelligent and dynamic by nature.

The title of this thread is about women acting stupid, not that they're stupid, there is a big difference.

It takes high intelligence in order to pretend stupid.

[Badlun]

The title of this thread is about women acting stupid, not that they're stupid, there is a big difference.

It takes high intelligence in order to pretend stupid.

Acting stupid and be stupid may not be that different. Be stupid is state of mind , personality while act stupid is its manifestation or behavior.

However if you differentiate being a stupid and acting stupid then again I will oppose this notion as women do not act stupid but act in a true , genuine, innocent way thats why it seems they act stupid.

[$hiva]

Acting stupid and be stupid may not be that different. Be stupid is state of mind , personality while act stupid is its manifestation or behavior.

However if you differentiate being a stupid and acting stupid then again I will oppose this notion as women do not act stupid but act in a true , genuine, innocent way thats why it seems they act stupid.

A bitch turned my friend into a f'n moron, alienated him, shamed him, and now she's openly lesbian and chasing paki fish?

You call that innocence, or a death sentence if it was back home?

[Badlun]

A bitch turned my friend into a f'n moron, alienated him, shamed him, and now she's openly lesbian and chasing paki fish?

You call that innocence, or a death sentence if it was back home?

I think your friend acted stupid by involving with a Lesbian. She is now acting genuinely as she got her true sexual orientation that she is not straight but lesbian and will go after what is her true nature.

This happens with many. Most of the times lesbian girls are apparently the most enthralling ones and one is slipped very easily when see such gorgeous beauty but once the reality is explored in conversation or in bed then its a life time shock. You can detect a lesbian by very close contact once you touch her or talk to her with full intimacy. The same is true for gays.

[$hiva]

I think your friend acted stupid by involving with a Lesbian. She is now acting genuinely as she got her true sexual orientation that she is not straight but lesbian and will go after what is her true nature.

This happens with many. Most of the times lesbian girls are apparently the most enthralling ones and one is slipped very easily when see such gorgeous beauty but once the reality is explored in conversation or in bed then its a life time shock. You can detect a lesbian by very close contact once you touch her or talk to her with full intimacy. The same is true for gays.

But then if someone is a lesbian, do they go about like a horny dyke openly taunting their perversion?

Lets be frank here, homosexuality is a deviation, a perversion, there is no pride in gay pride.

[$hiva]

I think your friend acted stupid by involving with a Lesbian. She is now acting genuinely as she got her true sexual orientation that she is not straight but lesbian and will go after what is her true nature.

This happens with many. Most of the times lesbian girls are apparently the most enthralling ones and one is slipped very easily when see such gorgeous beauty but once the reality is explored in conversation or in bed then its a life time shock. You can detect a lesbian by very close contact once you touch her or talk to her with full intimacy. The same is true for gays.

I'll offer a more even and balanced reply today, because I have had the experience of working with both a gay man and a lesbian for more than a year and during this time I did question and study them.

What makes homosexual people of both genders homosexual, is not the sex part, its the simple fact that they fall in love with a person of the same gender. This usually starts during puberty just like straight people, hence a homosexual individual knows from teenage years that there is something not right with them.

In other words, especially for women, they don't just become a lesbian while in their 30s, those who think they do are simply interested in the sex part of the lesbian life style, which makes it simply another form of sexual fetish -- most likely prompted by pornography which glorifies lesbian sex... People who sleep with people of the same gender are not all homosexual, they could simply have a fetish for such sexual activity, real homosexual people fall in love with people of the same sex and in fact most of them are very shy and inhibited about the sex part.


Sometimes people are so lost and hungry for an identity that they will convince themselves that they're homosexual, especially amongst women, since lesbians are cool compared to gay men; however, like all things imagined and born out of a desire for identity, it does not work.

Identity is a historical legacy, one cannot invent it.