I hate it when my family depends everything on me....i dont like the pressure.
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Such is life my Dear. You will be the head of a family one day. They are merely preparing you for the bigger picture that lies ahead. Experience is what they are teaching you, and giving you. Letting you discover difficulty, mistakes and positive outcomes on your own. I always look forward to it with my family. It makes me happy they trust me to things, and make me contribute to the deep issues families face. Think of it in a positive light, and you will actually enjoy it. It might be the last thing you want to hear now, but facing our weakness is the way to go. Tackling them, and standing up agan, what a feeling! =)
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Mesbah dear, you couldnt have said it better.
Its hard when you have so much pressure on your parents and other family members. You feel like you need to constantly do your best to not disappoint anyone. I am always worried, what if i dont become a doctor, what if it doesnt work out for me, I hope my parents are not disappointed. I think they would be disappointed, i mean coming from two doctors, they always expected i would go down their same route. But they never pushed me, though the high expectations is there and will always be there.....i dunno maybe i am just crazy
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No, you're not crazy, not at all. They expect a lot, because they know you can live up to them and fulfil each and everyone. Your success is more than their own. Expectations don't just come like that. We don't (obviously) expect things from strangers ... it comes from your own, because they care, their experiences, their mistakes, their achievements. Not to say they make you do the things they made mistakes in, no. They want you not to find yourself in the same position, as it can be avoided with a word or two, at the time, something they might not have had.
I won't lecture you anymore than I have (almost sound like a angered mum). You can do it. Have faith in yourself, don't let your weaknesses overcome you. Be the master of your desires, and use your strengths to your advantage. You can do it. =)
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I always do thatOriginally posted by Baidariwal View PostWhen I stay up late at night for no apparent reason, and end up getting only 2-3 hours of sleep ... and then feeling tired and sleepy at work
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I mean right now its 01:16 am, and I need to get up at 06:00 am for collage, and then in collage I am like
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well nothing really in particular. On weekends I just stay up late and watch random videos on youtube and work on my assignments and stuff, and then sleep during the dayOriginally posted by KandaharyWhats the reason for you staying up late?
so yei then it gets hard to sleep on Sunday night
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