~ Your biggest struggle?

[abubaker]

kama sta geera? (we call it zheera)in your avatar all I see is a handsome young with no beard.

and wrora they will allow you. rasa dilta che sha kandahary hafeezan dar shkara kam.

we have almost 100 Kandaharys who have memorized the Quran. in Islamic center. I will show you how much Pashtuns are advanced here.

mashallah great to hear that


hagha handsome mandsome was nashtha, a di zwanai wakhthuna wal

[Feroza_Banu]

Can you make a thread to share the success of marriage with us.

I need help. My mom wants me to get married soon. These internet tips dont apply to us Pashtuns.

It will help the Pashtun world. Inshallah when you come here I will take you, angaar and your friends if you have any on nice trips. I love guests. Guests make me happy.

I will make sure you and my fiance(If I ever find one) are close-friends.

dont be mean to her please.

awwwwwwwwwwwww... u know what. the best time to visit you would be on ur engagement or marriage party... ur mom is right, u are grown now mashaAllah... now u have to get married dakhaira sara...

i think it will be a good topic to ask all the married people to share their tips with others... i will make a topic soon inshaAllah

and one more thing... why aren't u visitng CA? we will take u around inshaAllah. its a very beautiful place especially in summer.

[abubaker]

wrora. beard is true beauty. Having a beard should never be a struggle.

true

wrora, we have 4 new Islamic schools opening this year. and we are having a beautiful 100million dollar mosque opening in Manhattan(Financial capital of the world)

hmmm iam not a big fan[spelling] of expensive masjids, most of the time they turn in to tourist attraction rather then a centre for learning, but may be things are different there allah alim

[Mayana]

can you post a pic please. I need a new avatar.

Aks ta paata nasweh lol

Here a new avatar:

wrora. beard is true beauty. Having a beard should never be a struggle.

wrora, we have 4 new Islamic schools opening this year. and we are having a beautiful 100million dollar mosque opening in Manhattan(Financial capital of the world)

=)

[Mayana]

LOL you're a disgrace to the race :P

jk.. it's not that hard.. the key is.. put in a lot of salt and lemon juice, chi sha toorweh sih.. and don't make it to narih, only put in a little of water.. also make sure chi masteh toorweh yi, da khojho masto da its khoand nakayi..
Shaaa gaatta toorweh shlombeeh

[Pakhtunzai]

^Wrora, I'm glad we think on the same wavelength because all pakhtuns are pakhtuns, same blood, same people, same language and same culture.

All this tribal pride to be honest I think is bull!

But I would keep my tribe name to have some sort of identity in my name if you know what I mean but other than that..One blood


My biggest struggle would have to be with my imaan, the constant struggle to stick to the deen and not be led astray especially in this kind of society.

[Mayana]

So how do you guys feel about your struggles?
Do you feel like they are limiting in who you are and you won't be able to tackle them?
Do they make you doubt your beliefs?

Or are you thankful for struggling?

[Dukhtar-e-Kabul]

[COLOR=Indigo]So how do you guys feel about your struggles?

I am struggling in learning Pashto. Its really difficult. But yet easy for me I guess since I hear it all day from my hubby.

Do you feel like they are limiting in who you are and you won't be able to tackle them?
Do they make you doubt your beliefs?

I am here tackling them as you witness. Pray for me Mayana,

[Alia]

hahaha xD
one time i had stress with police :S

[Mayana]

So maybe the biggest struggle there is is finding and accepting yourself after all..

[Master Khan]

digging out your old thread khorakai .
My biggest struggle in my life right now, Away from my homeland, studying, and got nothing!.
I just want to be in my homeland with a good busniess..Inshallah.
is like I am in prison now.

[Master Khan]

unknowprince where you from?

[Mayana]

digging out your old thread khorakai .
My biggest struggle in my life right now, Away from my homeland, studying, and got nothing!.
I just want to be in my homeland with a good busniess..Inshallah.
is like I am in prison now.

Au kana ( ) I wanted to see how people feel about this now..

Yeah, you're right.. away from home, every king is just a beggar.. away from home, we're like a pot plant, we can only root in our own soil.
But look at it this way, wrora, you'll return with more, inshaAllah wa ta'la. You struggle now but will come out of this struggle greater and stronger inshAllah. =)

[Master Khan]

Au kana ( ) I wanted to see how people feel about this now..

Yeah, you're right.. away from home, every king is just a beggar.. away from home, we're like a pot plant, we can only root in our own soil.
But look at it this way, wrora, you'll return with more, inshaAllah wa ta'la. You struggle now but will come out of this struggle greater and stronger inshAllah. =)

I know but you feel Lonely, when you go back home , your whole family is there and its just great, when you came back here you are just alone.
There is no life here...only Money.

what do you mean? I live in US, and my parents are from Afghanistan.
Where are you from?

Oh just asking lol, you seem to have no struggles so thats why I ask .
Where I am from? lol, look at my location wrora

[Dust]

the biggest struggle among the pashtuns is that they see everything outside themselves as it should be and not as what it is. we have detached ourselves from reality. our values have lost their purpose and have become hollow. there is no point in protecting or fighting for a banner that makes you lesser than you ought to be.

WOW! A synopsis of our plight as a people.

To add to what you said: We always point fingers at others for our misery.