Girls.... what kind of guy you like the most?

[Pakhtunzai]

Insha allah may you find your dream man. I just hope I find my dream girl..I got 6 years!

^Ohh my my I knowww, it all seems to be about money these days! *sigh* what has the world come to...

[Iqra]

You can't put a timeline on this .......... it will happen when it is to happen InshaAllah!

[Dreamer]

^some people do have some sort of menal time line in their head

[Laila]

You can't put a timeline on this .......... it will happen when it is to happen InshaAllah!

LOL you sound like moor jan :D

Insha allah may you find your dream man. I just hope I find my dream girl..I got 6 years!

^Ohh my my I knowww, it all seems to be about money these days! *sigh* what has the world come to...

I know! stupid money! there is a difference between 'wealthy' and being 'financial stable' i hope girls know that.



I do want to put a timeline in this subject. I want to finish my degrees before i get married and have kids. Why do you ask? ummm medical school is a brutal process and i want to be there for my family. I dont want to put my time with my family on the line. I dont want to miss my childs first word or walk, get what i mean. I wanna get my career down, then settle so i can be there when needed and wanted.

But if it is in my destiny to get married and have kids before i become a doctor, so be it. I will still be happy =)

[Dreamer]

my cousins wife is Dr... here in UK you can become a Dr at age of 23 and she is at same level as me... she has 1 kid now and she works hard so its possible!

[Laila]

my cousins wife is Dr... here in UK you can become a Dr at age of 23 and she is at same level as me... she has 1 kid now and she works hard so its possible!

Well our system is different, here is why:

*4 years of undergrad (premedicine)
*it takes about 2-5 years to get accepted into medical school (usually people do their masters during this time orrrrr travel to other hospitals in other countries)
* 4 years of full time medical school
* then 3-7 years of residency/fellowship

our young medical doctors are usually between 26-32 years old

sooooo i prefer to at least complete medical school before i marry

oh and another problem. You are most likely moving around to other states in the nation for medical school, its really hard to get into one, its competitive so you dont know what location you end up in......

my father....ohhhhh man he is a different story lol

[Dreamer]

its all good... well her husband is a pharmacist so they match

[Laila]

Medical school before you marry? you will be old by then.

LOL i know that! :D

[Master Khan]

girl usally gets married at 18 to 20

[Laila]

girl usally gets married at 18 to 20

I am sorry, but usually not in the US. Usually girls wait at least for their bachelors or something.

[Pakhtunzai]

I am sorry, but usually not in the US. Usually girls wait at least for their bachelors or something.

Yeah what mastera said was typically for backhome, but here in the West I've mostly seen muslim women getting married around age 25 like my mom did. Which I think is a decent age but islamically as soon as we are able to support one another physically, mentally and financially then why not.

[Laila]

^ Yeah true, my mother was 26 when she married....and she was very wealthy, educated, and independent woman

[Pakhtunzai]

Masha allah thats good, my mom made sure she could do everything herself before she married my dad but left everything because she had to bring me up! And shes persuing her talents now masha allah...Come online sometime I'll show you some of the stuff shes done

[abubaker]

best age to marry 20-23 i mean you dont want to be a baba by the time your son/daughter is 15, if you want to play cricket with him that is

[Pakhtunzai]

^So true, this is why I want to have everything sorted by 23-24 insha allah.