Would you??

[IamDZJ]

Shave your head at a charity event??? How would you or your family members react if you or one of them did it???
Question is directed at women mostly.

[Friend]

Well, it depends on her status. If she is a wife then divorce is confirm. An unmarried woman will think hundred times before doing such an ugly and stupid thing.

[Pisho]

Its not stupid.. I have tgought of this.. But then i think its gonna be hard growing it back.. I really wanned to shave my hair my senior year of hs..

[IamDZJ]

Well, it depends on her status. If she is a wife then divorce is confirm. An unmarried woman will think hundred times before doing such an ugly and stupid thing.

there could be three reasons for a reaction such as this...

--the man considers her and her hair his own property and doesn't like the idea of her doing with her own hair
--the man doesn't understand the concept of hair growth
--the man is a coward and doesn't want to face society's criticism on how he should keep her with in the frame of what is and what is not acceptable by the society

now suppose a woman in your house, village or country told her husband that if he shaved his head, she would divorce him. wont you be laughing your head off?? all of a sudden, it's a silly reason to divorce your souse for.

it's a beautiful act and a man worth spending one's life with would be already sitting in the seat next to you, getting his head shaved as well.

[Pisho]

Doing so for a charity or a good cause yes.. But just to do cuz u feel like being bald to test ur husband or family thats stupid DZJ u r not gonna find another AFGHAN that will shave his head with u.. I can tell i right now

[IamDZJ]

Don't irritate me. I never said one should do it to test the patience of their loved ones. And for your kind information, not only do I not need to find someone else, I already know someone to whom this idea originally belongs to.

[Pisho]

Im not trying to irritate no one.. Im having an adult conversation,
I was talking of MALE AFGHANS, u will not find a male afghan that is ok with his partner or wife to shave her head.. Very rare.. If ever found.
Idk why u so hostile all the time? U ask a question and when people answer u get angry?

[torkham]

If you are an integrated western occidental, you have bought into the dream, then go shave your head for charity. It's all the rage.

[IamDZJ]

Pisho did I ask you what my chances were or finding a Pashtun man who would allow me to shave my head while I am married to him?? Or did I suggest that you should shave your head to experiment with people's feelings??
When you pull **** like that out of your ass and pass them on as my word, I tend to get irritated. Kindly don't.

And torkham, do you know what a person who wears a lungi and shades at the same time while claiming to oppose cultural integration is called?? A hypocrite.

[randolph85]

the hell kind of charity is this?

[Talal]

A bit off topic but how exactly do these hair shaving charities work ?

[randolph85]

i think someone pays money for a cause when another person humiliates them self.

[IamDZJ]

Virtue and integrity is in one's character not hair that one should feel stripped off of it if their head was to be shaved off. You are insecure and unhappy about the size or shape of your head.
You are just a bunch of paranoid conceited uptight stuck ups who are possessed with the idea of being perceived as perfect individuals. When not busy bull****ting each other with your idea of appropriateness, always ready to jump at each other's throats and judging each other or living in the fear of your own shadows.
Perhaps if someone enslaved you all and shaved your heads off, you would learn some humility and a better defination for appropriateness charity and humiliation.

[randolph85]

Virtue and integrity is in one's character not hair that one should feel stripped off of it if their head was to be shaved off. You are insecure and unhappy about the size or shape of your head.
You are just a bunch of paranoid conceited uptight stuck ups who are possessed with the idea of being perceived as perfect individuals. When not busy bull****ting each other with your idea of appropriateness, always ready to jump at each other's throats and judging each other or living in the fear of your own shadows.
Perhaps if someone enslaved you all and shaved your heads off, you would learn some humility and a better defination for appropriateness charity and humiliation.

you are in crazy mode, judging people for their responses while not even giving a proper context to the question.

is this a real example? a hypothetical? a question about vanity vs. virtue?

come on sista

[IamDZJ]

Why should I tell you that?? What difference does it make?? So you can lie about it if it's a hypothetical question??