What is love ?

[pashtun_rise]

if you accept someone with their faults then why would you change them?

Negative point needs to be changed....consciousness helps out so.Change is a naturally phenomenon.Sometimes ..we change for others...and sometimes...others change because of us....e.g if you look at your past...how much you have changed and by whom? Make a guess.

Change is bad if it occurs in a negative way...and best if in a positive way.That too depends on circumstances...and the people we come into contact with.Love remains the same always...or gets stronger with each passing day.

[Afghanistan2010]

Love is companionship in a higher level,putting trust in someone,sometimes it makes you blind.

As for majnun his laila was the whitest of the white among all the women of the world,while others saw her as a black,ugly woman.

[pashtun_rise]

hahaha...laila was wheatish but beautiful.Dont make her look bad.

[Friend]

One thing does not fit into my mind is that why the intensity of love that we have for a girl or a boy is not so intense for Allah and his Rasool s.a.w or that love is different ?

[Khostai]

One thing does not fit into my mind is that why the intensity of love that we have for a girl or a boy is not so intense for Allah and his Rasool s.a.w or that love is different ?

How old are you? You sounds so dum. Its like reading comments of 10 year old.
-_-

[Friend]

i am 11 but you are an atheist. It was not for you.

[Al Hanif]

For centuries, philosophers have tried to define love.

As a chemical imbalance of neurotransmitters for the materialists or as the result of being struck with a lightning bolt for the mystics, they all failed.

They all failed because the inherent structure of language is made so that a definition couldn't encompass all the contradicticting concepts at the same time. (Read Wittgenstein)

Only the poets succeded into approaching the true definition of love.

That's because they did not tried to EXPLAIN what it was with words but actually tried to SHOW what it was.

Likewise, here, today, on this thread, in exclusivity, I will reveal you what is love.

But first, you have to throw logic out and do the impossible.

There is a micro as well as a macro cosmos. The whole of existence is fractal in nature; what happens to planets, happens to galaxies, happens to water in a toilet bowl, happens to atoms. Cycles are just another characteristic of nature. Everything oscillates, this oscillation occurs in the physical (the minute vibration of atoms, etc) as well as in the non-physical realm of energy. Everything in nature does the same thing. Therefore, it only stands to reason that human civilization and evolution will follow this same cycle. There is too much evidence that human beings once possessed a vastly superior understanding of the nature of nature, to deny that human civilization follows some grander cycle than previously acknowledged. I believe that this understanding is the reason why things like the Mayan calendar were possible in a time where most scholars firmly believe that man was just figuring out how to wipe his ass off...

...but I digress.

So, Love is the reason why the Moon revolves around the Earth.

It is the reason why celestial bodies are describing elliptic orbits in the infinite vaccum of the universe.

This celestial ball is what I'd call love.

The attraction (gravity) that tends to draw them closer together and the repulsion (angular velocity) that prevents them from colliding.

[IamDZJ]

Negative point needs to be changed....consciousness helps out so.Change is a naturally phenomenon.Sometimes ..we change for others...and sometimes...others change because of us....e.g if you look at your past...how much you have changed and by whom? Make a guess.

Change is bad if it occurs in a negative way...and best if in a positive way.That too depends on circumstances...and the people we come into contact with.Love remains the same always...or gets stronger with each passing day.

tolerating a person's bad habits until they develop a liking for you and then emotionally blackmailing them in to changing for you is not love. if someone has a fault that you are not comfortable with, then you don't love them. also, there is no point in loving someone whose habits you have polished according to your own likings. he is no longer himself but something that you have created and i don't see the point of loving something that one creates on their own.

[pashtun_rise]

tolerating a person's bad habits until they develop a liking for you and then emotionally blackmailing them in to changing for you is not love. if someone has a fault that you are not comfortable with, then you don't love them. also, there is no point in loving someone whose habits you have polished according to your own likings. he is no longer himself but something that you have created and i don't see the point of loving something that one creates on their own.

Or you can think vice versa...as i said we too change for them...this is called adjustment.Because...no one is perfect.You call it polishing...i call it commitment and adjusting.