Help Thread

[Blue Flower]

Hello guys i want to share with you an idea of creating a help thread in which we should post questions regarding daily life issues and then members will post their helping answers.
Since we do not know eachother but atleast we can contribute by helping in with sincere veiws, plz last thing i want to see is a personal fight or any discrimination, so i start by asking u a question.

Q1 How long a husband should wait to marry another if he is not having children from her wife , he would marry of course when he is sure that he is medically fit?

[Al Hanif]

Hello guys i want to share with you an idea of creating a help thread in which we should post questions regarding daily life issues and then members will post their helping answers.
Since we do not know eachother but atleast we can contribute by helping in with sincere veiws, plz last thing i want to see is a personal fight or any discrimination, so i start by asking u a question.

Q1 How long a husband should wait to marry another if he is not having children from her wife , he would marry of course when he is sure that he is medically fit?

2 weeks, one day, 55 minutes, 2 seconds and 33 hundredths of seconds.

More seriously, he should ask his wife first if she agrees him to marry another woman. And he should respect her decision if she doesn't agree.

[Amir al Ghaznavi]

Hello guys i want to share with you an idea of creating a help thread in which we should post questions regarding daily life issues and then members will post their helping answers.
Since we do not know eachother but atleast we can contribute by helping in with sincere veiws, plz last thing i want to see is a personal fight or any discrimination, so i start by asking u a question.

Q1 How long a husband should wait to marry another if he is not having children from her wife , he would marry of course when he is sure that he is medically fit?

well do we even know if its the wifes fault? that should be determined first

[IamDZJ]

if tomorrow you had in to an accident and both your feet were cut off. Could you justify it if she left you for a man with feet?? Would you like that??
The foundation of marriage should only be love and respect. If you had those two for your wife and she suggested you marry someone else so you could have children, you would say " what would I do with children if they are not ours?".

[Al Hanif]

if tomorrow you had in to an accident and both your feet were cut off. Could you justify it if she left you for a man with feet?? Would you like that??

Yes. She can leave me if she wants. I don't need her pity.

[Admin Khan]

if tomorrow you had in to an accident and both your feet were cut off. Could you justify it if she left you for a man with feet?? Would you like that??
The foundation of marriage should only be love and respect. If you had those two for your wife and she suggested you marry someone else so you could have children, you would say " what would I do with children if they are not ours?".

What an amazing/thoughtful response.

[Gulalai]

anyone know of good online 'self-publishing' websites that aren't as confusing as lulu.com or amazon's publishing website because those use PDF format

or is making a PDF not that complicated?

[Gulalai]

omg thanks for the help adam that was so useful you're such a thoughtful guy thank you so much you saved me so much time i owe you -_____-

[Gulalai]

nevermind, found a pretty good website ^.^

[sunni]

Hello guys i want to share with you an idea of creating a help thread in which we should post questions regarding daily life issues and then members will post their helping answers.
Since we do not know eachother but atleast we can contribute by helping in with sincere veiws, plz last thing i want to see is a personal fight or any discrimination, so i start by asking u a question.

Q1 How long a husband should wait to marry another if he is not having children from her wife , he would marry of course when he is sure that he is medically fit?

you dont have to wait if its the prob from her side.....tell her that you wanna marry another one.....(you should can have the money and the energy to give them thier needs. you should be Equality to them in everything like giving money and house.....etc (there is one thing you cant Equality it and itsnt invloved here is loving them Equality this things you cant Control it)

good luck brother

[KhyberKhan]

Hello guys i want to share with you an idea of creating a help thread in which we should post questions regarding daily life issues and then members will post their helping answers.
Since we do not know eachother but atleast we can contribute by helping in with sincere veiws, plz last thing i want to see is a personal fight or any discrimination, so i start by asking u a question.

Q1 How long a husband should wait to marry another if he is not having children from her wife , he would marry of course when he is sure that he is medically fit?

What's wrong with adopting?

[IamDZJ]

What is the politest way of telling someone not to buy you lunch as you don't enjoy or digest well food that has been paid for by someone else??

What is that feeling that you get while tipping an Afghan cab driver or waiter/waitress? do you normally tip Afghans??

Is there something seriously immoral about sitting in the front seat of a cab that is being driven by a moustachless bearded Pakistani uncle?? (I got the dirtiest look ever the other day for doing this..It was so bad, I nearly cried.)

[Blue Flower]

What is the politest way of telling someone not to buy you lunch as you don't enjoy or digest well food that has been paid for by someone else??

What is that feeling that you get while tipping an Afghan cab driver or waiter/waitress? do you normally tip Afghans??

Is there something seriously immoral about sitting in the front seat of a cab that is being driven by a moustachless bearded Pakistani uncle?? (I got the dirtiest look ever the other day for doing this..It was so bad, I nearly cried.)

The best way should be that u frankly tell him that your stomach is not well, ask him for juice or other drinks before he brings that dish, disliking a food item which is offered and kept in front of u is unethical.

Giving tip to someone doesn't mean that you are degrading anyone, the idea behind it is that you are supporting the person economically, in some cultures giving a tip is considered bad.

This type of beared style is kept by Ahalhadees and Deobandi fractions in muslim society, through their actions they have turned whole muslim community in to immorality so u should be on your toes wherever u might sit.

[Blue Flower]

Thanks for your Views!

I want to tell u about that husband story he is a family friend of mine, he had to wait for ten long years and spend millions of rupees on her wife he visited UK and USA for Test Tube and IQI but all in vain at last his parents got into the matter and got him married now he is having a boy and a girl from the second wife.
In my view adopting a child is also a solution but it will depend totally on the behaviour of the wife if she keeps her husband happy he wont marry anyone else but if she will fight and make husband life as hell he will be forced to marry a second girl.
You can't predict for sure that how a pakhtun might do in the end.
Now we should encourage our members to show big heart and post their issues!