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I just thought that women raise their sons. Sociaty has it´s say but since women/mothers are those people who influence us the most, I think their role in the process of character moulding is important.
Well lemme burst ur bubble it's not right
Well just think of it like this, did Hitler ask his mother before he became evil and started killig people? I know that was a long time ago think of his guy that killed the little kids at school, u think his mother told him to do so over breakfast? NO he killed his mom first then went off and killed little innocent children
Yes I know what u mean about mothers influencing their sons but what u said was wrong and I was surprised because u are really smart and for u to say something stupid like that made me comment, where I disagreed with u was u saying that WOMEN ARE THE CORE OF THE PROBLEM
The core of the problem is 'tarbia' the values these kids were injected with from childhood to manhood
This can be from their dads not only mothers. Anyone that the kid thinks is his role model
U see where I'm going with this? It's their physical and emotional environment..
Sorry I didn't mean to be rude
Its ok.
Fortunatly you proved my point my point right with one of your arguements:
You said:
"...The core of the problem is 'tarbia' the values these kids were injected with from childhood to manhood..."
That´s what I said previously.
Mothers influence their children more than anyone else.
Since we come from a culture where men had many wifes and those childrens had animosity towards each other because their mothers influenced them by forcing rivalry on them, brothers killed each other.
Afghanistan´s royals, their princes who blinded each other, killed each other.
There were wars over who should be king.
In smaller forms you had treachery inside families where people killed each other because of greater share of estate.
Mothers are the core persons who shape the personalities of their children.
You can´t deny that.
And don´t worry, you weren´t rude.
I am talking out of historical, socio-cultural knowledge and experience, you have the standpoint of a post-modern feminist of afghan origin which is fine.
I meant role models
Tarbia da har zay sa akhistal kezhe lol it's not only family members that teach u things life teaches u lessons no one can teach
I'm just saying don't blame it all on the mothers, yes a parent may influence u but it doesn't mean that brother rivalry is solely because of mothers
Maybe there are stronger forces that influence u like power, hunger for fame, and jealousy :-/
Talking if kings women back then were not counted much, so they were most likely not consulted for anything unless they were queens lol
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