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No I am not Married yet, I am 20 years old.
I already got a girl but not thinking about it yet, now I am free...but after marriage, I won't have all fun I am having now
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Karachi 28 is not bad, My uncle got married at 28, he is 31 now and got 2 kids now.
but no need to hurry about
, inshallah you will find someone
, I am planning to get married when I am 22 or 23 inshallah.
Last edited by Master Khan; 12-17-2011, 12:00 PM.
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28 and not married! In about 16 physically and 18 legally you become adult
! It means at least 10 or more years struggle with your carnal human unavoidable desires and instincts!
I some time seriously ponder over the institution of marriage in Muslim, Pashtun and other Eastern or religious societies. Getting married is a very difficult task, socially , economically and culturally but at the same time you cant have extra matrimonial relations which is considered adultery, fornication , a sin and may be a crime and offence.
If you get married in 18 years still many problems if cant then either have to commit a sin or struggle against your own nature. What a dilemma!
West has solved the problem by having boy friend/girl friend relations but what Pashtuns and Muslims do! I don't have any solution! Do you have any!
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if you are over 22 and want to get married then you should. if you want to get married at any age because you think you are running out of time then you should not. that is how you end up ruining your life as well as someone else's by being stuck in a meaningless marriage for the rest of your life.
I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.
non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.
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People should get married as soon as puberty hits, if their parents can support them. It is the most healthy thing ever. Maturity of the mind comes at different stages of life for different people, heck, some people are 40 and are still immature. But, natural urges should be taken care of early; otherwise, it could ruin a society.Last edited by Guest; 12-17-2011, 05:40 PM.
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