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  • #31
    Originally posted by Iqra View Post
    Seriously Al Hanif, I am sure you didn't mean anything wrong..and I know Babygak already spoke for herself but how she dresses is no one's business here.

    I don't get why people always like to throw that in.
    seriously i dont get it. why would a girl get so angry when its come to hijab?
    im sure this wasnt going to be a bad thing if he talked about her style and which colour she likes to wear.lol

    how do you dress?




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    • #32
      Originally posted by sunni View Post
      so defensive and angry reply, it shows you, you are doing wrong and you should wear it.
      you knows the rules in islam and day by day you will learn more and do what islam tells you.

      you stoped in the first steps as its excuse for you to learn 100% ?
      no one can learn 100%.

      start wearing your hijab else shaitan is 1-0 you.

      if you wont wear the hijab you will do the same to the rest islamic rules.
      if you gona fail in the first step then you gona fail in the next one too.

      its your choice.


      It may be an angry and defensive reply because the original question I asked had nothign to do with wearing a hijab.. You really dont know me. I am trying to learn my religion, and I will do everything when I am ready. I will put it one day, inshallah, but for now i am not ready. I will not be pressurised into wearing a hijab and when I wear it, I know I will be wearing it for the right reasons. Only Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will know that it has come from my heart....

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      • #33
        Originally posted by Babygak View Post
        It may be an angry and defensive reply because the original question I asked had nothign to do with wearing a hijab.. You really dont know me. I am trying to learn my religion, and I will do everything when I am ready. I will put it one day, inshallah, but for now i am not ready. I will not be pressurised into wearing a hijab and when I wear it, I know I will be wearing it for the right reasons. Only Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will know that it has come from my heart....
        i wanna learn my religion.

        i learned the prayers but im not ready this time, i learned fasting but im not ready to fast in ramdan.......etc

        i know what you mean but don't make it takes long till you stop thinking about wearing hijab.

        good luck sista.

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        • #34
          Originally posted by sunni View Post
          i wanna learn my religion.

          i learned the prayers but im not ready this time, i learned fasting but im not ready to fast in ramdan.......etc

          i know what you mean but don't make it takes long till you stop thinking about wearing hijab.

          good luck sista.
          wishing good luck is Shirk

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          • #35
            So how do you know that I do not pray? how do you know that I do not fast... the simple answer is this - you dont know...

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            • #36
              beltawfeeq*
              allah ma3ak*

              .

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              • #37
                Originally posted by Babygak View Post
                So how do you know that I do not pray? how do you know that I do not fast... the simple answer is this - you dont know...
                i didnt say u dont.
                i just showed you, you may say this and say you cant do em cuz u aint ready.

                nvm.

                salam aliykum.

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                • #38
                  wa alaikum assalam

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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by sunni View Post
                    so defensive and angry reply, it shows you, you are doing wrong and you should wear it.
                    you knows the rules in islam and day by day you will learn more and do what islam tells you.

                    you stoped in the first steps as its excuse for you to learn 100% ?
                    no one can learn 100%.

                    start wearing your hijab else shaitan is 1-0 you.

                    if you wont wear the hijab you will do the same to the rest islamic rules.
                    if you gona fail in the first step then you gona fail in the next one too.

                    its your choice.
                    who are you to question or say anything to a sister?

                    Share what is valid in Islam ..what the rules are ...but to say who will fail and who won't ... really you don't have a right to do so.

                    A random guy questions a girl if she wears hijab or not when what she was asking/sharing had absolutely nothing to do with hijab...

                    Hijab is an act for Allah tala, no one else ..therefore it is no one else's business either.

                    I understand if brothers walk around to speak of the benefits of Hijab, that's great ..but to walk around and belittle those who are not ready/ don't wear hijab is just not right.

                    Originally posted by sunni View Post
                    seriously i dont get it. why would a girl get so angry when its come to hijab?
                    im sure this wasnt going to be a bad thing if he talked about her style and which colour she likes to wear.lol

                    how do you dress?




                    I didn't feel her post was that angry ...

                    It's one thing to ask if someone wears hijab out of simple curiosity ..but sometimes the way certain individuals speak of hijab it is as if a person wears it they are the best and if a person doesn't then they are the most evil...leave that aspect to Allah tala as none of us know each other well enough here to judge a person by one simple act ...

                    and how I dress is none of your business, Alhamdulillah

                    Originally posted by sunni View Post
                    i didnt say u dont.
                    i just showed you, you may say this and say you cant do em cuz u aint ready.

                    nvm.

                    salam aliykum.
                    Learn how to show / teach someone something properly

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                    • #40
                      all I wanted to know is if anyone else hates their Job and wish that they did something else

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                      • #41
                        Originally posted by Iqra View Post
                        who are you to question or say anything to a sister?
                        im her brother in islam.

                        Share what is valid in Islam ..what the rules are ...but to say who will fail and who won't ... really you don't have a right to do so.
                        i was giving example to Lesson and a warning her.
                        A random guy questions a girl if she wears hijab or not when what she was asking/sharing had absolutely nothing to do with hijab...
                        it allah wills and it may make her think about hijab more.
                        Hijab is an act for Allah tala, no one else ..therefore it is no one else's business either.
                        its ebada for allah and we have to a'mr belma'roof wa nahi a'n elmonkar.
                        I understand if brothers walk around to speak of the benefits of Hijab, that's great ..but to walk around and belittle those who are not ready/ don't wear hijab is just not right.
                        belittle? where did i or alhanif did say something to belittle her?
                        stop with the emotional posts, its not you its what most muslim and specialy afghan girls think like that.
                        they did reach thier goals by using our youth do what and say what they WANTED TO SAY.
                        I didn't feel her post was that angry ...
                        same goes to your post.
                        It's one thing to ask if someone wears hijab out of simple curiosity ..but sometimes the way certain individuals speak of hijab it is as if a person wears it they are the best and if a person doesn't then they are the most evil...leave that aspect to Allah tala as none of us know each other well enough here to judge a person by one simple act ...
                        its a sign most of the time to show a person is a muslim and good or not but yeah its not something to judge, nor i did judge her.
                        we are not judging anyone we just giving lessons and showing what allah said.

                        -like if a muslim would like to marry a girl he would go to a hijabi girl most of the time BUT that doesnt mean all of em are good and doesnt mean the non hijabi are bad girls, but her hijab was a reason for him to see the religioes side of her and how muslim she is.

                        dont get my posts wrongs babygak and seriously throgh your posts its show you are a grt sister mashalla.

                        and how I dress is none of your business, Alhamdulillah
                        it was a sarcasm question.
                        Learn how to show / teach someone something properly
                        i do and you should take everything nicly not in angry way.

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                        • #42
                          Originally posted by Babygak View Post
                          all I wanted to know is if anyone else hates their Job and wish that they did something else
                          i dont have a job but i hate studying and i hate it when we have like more than two exams in one week.

                          - i hated all the jobs i work at it. but you have to cross the river to reach the other side, you may fall in the river so you have to swim and its gona be hard sometime.

                          but you don't have to give up ever, i wouldnt care about anything if i didnt have a goal in this life which is worship allah and be in jannah and sometime we do mistakes but we do touba for forgiveness....etc

                          i hope you get a nice job inshalla.

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                          • #43
                            jobless

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                            • #44

                              Leave people alone. Stupid religious police approaching people out of nowhere to ask them if they wear the hijab or not. It's none of your business.
                              And al khanif, if you are such a noble being then why don't you go and get princess ameerah to cover her bra before making public appearances?? Aren't you her brother in Islam?? Heck she is even an arab. O boy.. And what about all those by dancers??
                              Last edited by IamDZJ; 11-30-2011, 10:07 AM.

                              I am no bird, and no nest ensnares me.

                              non commercial would cost less if he was in charge himself which he plans on doing. right now it's n herat but soon it will be in qanadahar.

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                              • #45
                                Originally posted by Babygak View Post
                                What does every one do for work/study...

                                Do you enjoy your work, do you wish you did something else...

                                Do you enjoy your studies, or do you wish you did something else...

                                I am in the Finance Industry, but I hate my job ...... i wish i did something more fun. like maybe be a teller at a bank. so I could talk to different people every day...

                                Lets be honest with our answers... there is no shame when earning honest money....
                                When i help patients..it gives me kind of spirtual satisfaction...i am ok with my field.

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