An advice from you ...

[emkhan]

I came here to UK on a student visa in January 2011. Now my course is about to finish by this December. But all I have lived here, honestly saying I have not enjoyed here. I want to know from you, what suggestion would you give me.
Should I go back home or should I apply for extending my visa ?
I shall be grateful for your kind suggestions and advice.
I want advice from all the foes and friends.

Thank you

[Al Hanif]

what's your nationality ? afghan or pakistani ?

[emkhan]

what's your nationality ? afghan or pakistani ?

Pakistani

[Al Hanif]

do you have other brothers who came to study in the west prior to you or with you ?

[emkhan]

do you have other brothers who came to study in the west prior to you or with you ?

What do you mean by brothers ? you mean real brothers or you are talking about friends ?

[Millatpal Noorzai]

I came here to UK on a student visa in January 2011. Now my course is about to finish by this December. But all I have lived here, honestly saying I have not enjoyed here. I want to know from you, what suggestion would you give me.
Should I go back home or should I apply for extending my visa ?
I shall be grateful for your kind suggestions and advice.
I want advice from all the foes and friends.

Thank you

I hope you can read and understand Pashto:

جانانه خپل وطن ته راشه
پردۍ وطن ده میړو قدر کموینه

Just back to your homeland and live a stress free life. A friendly suggestion.

[IamDZJ]

you should follow your heart and be where ever you are happy. then again, i am pretty sure your father spent lots of money to send you off to uk for studies so if you leave it halfway and chicken out then you would be dumping all his efforts in to the garbage.

[emkhan]

I hope you can read and understand Pashto:

جانانه خپل وطن ته راشه
پردۍ وطن ده میړو قدر کموینه

Just back to your homeland and live a stress free life. A friendly suggestion.

You are right brother, back home you don't have stress. Here life is fast, stressed, tensed, no social life here, everyone is busy, talking about money, talking about stupid things.

[Al Hanif]

What do you mean by brothers ? you mean real brothers or you are talking about friends ?

real brothers siblings or even cousins

[emkhan]

you should follow your heart and be where ever you are happy. then again, i am pretty sure your father spent lots of money to send you off to uk for studies so if you leave it halfway and chicken out then you would be dumping all his efforts in to the garbage.

My parents say "come if you are not happy there" but my brothers say "don't come"
But you are right, my father spent lots of money on me for a goal to achieve.

[emkhan]

real brothers siblings or even cousins

No dear, I am the only guy in my whole "khel" who has ever been to UK lol.

[IamDZJ]

don't be a momma's boy then. finish your studies then leave. life is tough.

[Al Hanif]

No dear, I am the only guy in my whole "khel" who has ever been to UK lol.

your parents probably wouldn't say that to you because they love you and they are shy but they are actually spending a lot of money like the other one said

you should never forget their sacrifice May Allah SWT bless them Ameen

so you should come back home if you don't have anything to do in UK

[emkhan]

Do what you want.

Personally, I would go back if my education and work experience was complete. You can live a great life in Pakistan if you have money, while in the UK, the taxes are too high.

Yes the taxes on everything have made the life sick here. Those who are UK residents have come sick of this but can't cry because they have been trapped, now they can't come out of it. I would never like to live such a life.
Back home we have such a free nice life alhamdulillah.
But being a student I have so many exemptions in so many charges and taxes.

[کیش]

Finish your studies young gun.