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Don't you call me son!Comment
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The best quality a man -- or any human, really -- can have is respect.
Nothing else the man or anyone else has is worth anything if he/she has no respect.Comment
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what would happen if u marry at the end of the day with some1 who have 1 quality or none of the above? How will adjust and act? Coz im sure there isnt a perfect person yet and in afghans lol im not disrespecting afghans girls n boysLast edited by Sheenka; 06-02-2010, 08:48 PM.Comment
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She would have to adapt to synthetic happiness.Even Adobe Photoshop can't change me.
A line[Durrand line] of hatred that raised a wall between the two brothers -Hamid Karzai
For generations, the Hindus of India prayed for deliverance from "the venom of the cobra, the teeth of the tiger and the vengeance of the Afghan."
The men of Kábul and Khilj also went home; and whenever they were questioned about the Musulmáns of the Kohistán (the mountains), and how matters stood there, they said, "Don't call it Kohistán, but Afghánistán; for there is nothing there but Afgháns and disturbances." Thus it is clear that for this reason the people of the country call their home in their own language Afghánistán, and themselves Afgháns. The people of India call them Patán; but the reason for this is not known. But it occurs to me, that when, under the rule of Muhammadan sovereigns, Musulmáns first came to the city of Patná, and dwelt there, the people of India (for that reason) called them Patáns—but God knows!
-Ferishta, 1560–1620Comment
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gd answer khan bt how wud u do dat?Comment
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Most arranged couples don't get what they expect but they learn to adapt and love each other..Comment
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Sheenkay,
This is the topic, http://www.pashtunforums.com/showthread.php?t=1737
Watch the video posted by Kandahary.Even Adobe Photoshop can't change me.
A line[Durrand line] of hatred that raised a wall between the two brothers -Hamid Karzai
For generations, the Hindus of India prayed for deliverance from "the venom of the cobra, the teeth of the tiger and the vengeance of the Afghan."
The men of Kábul and Khilj also went home; and whenever they were questioned about the Musulmáns of the Kohistán (the mountains), and how matters stood there, they said, "Don't call it Kohistán, but Afghánistán; for there is nothing there but Afgháns and disturbances." Thus it is clear that for this reason the people of the country call their home in their own language Afghánistán, and themselves Afgháns. The people of India call them Patán; but the reason for this is not known. But it occurs to me, that when, under the rule of Muhammadan sovereigns, Musulmáns first came to the city of Patná, and dwelt there, the people of India (for that reason) called them Patáns—but God knows!
-Ferishta, 1560–1620Comment
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We humans are much stronger than we think we are. We have the ability to adapt to most, if not all, situations and environments, even if we are afraid of letting ourselves be placed in such situations because we think we won't survive.Originally posted by sheenkay View Post
But to answer your questions, I believe it would depend on the personality of both individuals in the marriage. Some of us can handle any type of people; others of us can't, or maybe for just a short while. It would also depend on which qualities the partner end up having and which ones lacking.
Also, I think that if people are given a chance to talk to their potential partners before marriage is settled/arranged, they will be able to better decide if marrying someone who is missing certain qualities that one dreamt of initially is worth it or not. If not, then (if the family/society) permits, the individuals may not be bound to the proposal; otherwise, I'm more than sure they'll figure out a way to settle their extreme differences or to live with their disappointments.Comment
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manana, all for thuoghtful answers am sorry coz i changed the topicComment
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Na, I think it's still relevant to the topic. Makes one think, too, you know. A "What if life doens't work out the way you want it to" type of question is always a thoughtful one.Originally posted by sheenkay View PostComment
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these qualities comes naturaly but i think a pure and man or woman is some1 who is pure of kabeera sins
Such as drinking, being with na marham, stealing, and other harm things if they pure of these thinks that is allComment
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BAAAAAAAAAAAAH what a fail
You guys missed the most important point.
It is about Ironing, and the importance of a man knowing how to Iron.
I guess everything else off tangent... could be useful/ important points.Comment
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