What is true love and how do you know when you have found it?

[*Mahzala*]

This is such a common topic in young people's conversations, and one the older people like to avoid, which suggests that to every individual love is a different thing. From my point of view, most of it, obviously, is not limited to the typical love relationship we think of. In fact, if I was talking from that perspective, I couldn't, because (Alhamdulillah) I haven't yet found myself sailing that rocky boat. To start with, I once read that lust is like trying on clothes, while love is finding an outfit to keep. As for love, I think it is the most persistent and undeniable reality of life. Some people say it happens automatically, some voluntarily, and others say it is an inborn matter, a grip and bond between two souls. Love can make you bear any kind of pain and any kind of sacrifice. Sometimes when you love and end up giving so much of yourself, subconsciously you only discover how much you've given when the person you love hurts you or has to say goodbye. Tears are bound to shed from your eyes, no matter how you force yourself to keep them in. Well, that's what you get for caring so much about someone. Love is an eruption of feelings buried within a heart longing to break free. You can't find it, love finds you. And you do not fall in love, you grow to love, and then love grows in your beloved. And its foundation - respect.

(Again, this has nothing to do with the Laila/Majnoon talk)

[Master Khan]

i belive in love for allah and family
i just dont belive in this laila majnoon love tingy, i have never seen a couple that are in love here all my life LOL the most it goes upto is wifey position for the grl and den dat realtionship will last quite sum tym and den it will fail lol and then there is all this bull**** oh id take a bullet for my love i would do anything for u bla bla bla loll thats all talk becouse those ppl no that kinda situation will never arise so they are not going to be in dat position

lol, I seen alot of couples that have successful marriage and love each other..I don't know who you been hanging about with lol.
you are not going to get a girl with that attitude young man, you need someone in your life and not just smoking fags all day.

and your just pussy whipped

lol, how I am a pussy whipped, Explain ut wrora.

LOLLLLLLLL ahaha excatly dat bruv ahah respect

lol

[sahil112]

lol, I seen alot of couples that have successful marriage and love each other..I don't know who you been hanging about with lol.
you are not going to get a girl with that attitude young man, you need someone in your life and not just smoking fags all day.

i aint seen none around here and i hang around wid very mixed people so trust me if it was to happen it wud of happened 2 1 of them but nope lol
i wudnt want to get a grl right now anyway and the future have no idea lol
and i have quite a lot of grlz in my life and dont smoke ciggz all dai

[Master Khan]

i aint seen none around here and i hang around wid very mixed people so trust me if it was to happen it wud of happened 2 1 of them but nope lol
i wudnt want to get a grl right now anyway and the future have no idea lol
and i have quite a lot of grlz in my life and dont smoke ciggz all dai

Ok wrora, I guess you have dated girls lol, Dating girls is just not my thing..its just not true love lol.

[Michin Khel]

Love is trick of testasterone and estrogen

[Mysterious Jilay]

I think love exists, but only true love is pure. Like love for your family love for allah is pure because its clean love for the opposite sex isn't necessarily dirty lol but its more like somethin un useful unless u get married to them it becomes pure because u chose to have it the halal way. And thus the love is true cuz u chose to have a true relationship with that person.

[Master Khan]

I think love exists, but only true love is pure. Like love for your family love for allah is pure because its clean love for the opposite sex isn't necessarily dirty lol but its more like somethin un useful unless u get married to them it becomes pure because u chose to have it the halal way. And thus the love is true cuz u chose to have a true relationship with that person.

yep thats biscally it .

[Mysterious Jilay]

Then obviously you have to have trust respect and care for them, its totally islamic to love that person as much as u want when ur married.

[Master Khan]

aaoo kaana, all this dating, girlfriend boyfriend is pazoli lol,
Its all about love and then marriage , islam is important aswell khor.

[IamDZJ]

love has characteristics but no definition. no one can teach you what it is unless you go through the phase yourself.

[Mysterious Jilay]

Yaaa obviously gf and bf is a waste of time, but I dont see harm in getting to know someone as long as thy both have good intentions

[Michin Khel]

I think love exists, but only true love is pure. Like love for your family love for allah is pure because its clean love for the opposite sex isn't necessarily dirty lol

What is dirty love? you mean effects of sex hormones are dirty and palpitations of heart with poetry on tongue is pure?
Many love affair end up in physical relationships.

[Master Khan]

some people have boyfriend or girlfriend just to show off, they will be like "I am going out with someone".
I don't do these crap, but like you said, its quite alright to get to know each other...as long as your parents knows about it aswell.

[Mysterious Jilay]

What I'm trying to say is that its not ur only focus in the relationship lol. You can control urself especially if ur just getting to know the person no dating. Obviously you get those physical feelings cuz were only human its natural, but u can make it halal if u get married.

[Mysterious Jilay]

some people have boyfriend or girlfriend just to show off, they will be like "I am going out with someone".
I don't do these crap, but like you said, its quite alright to get to know each other...as long as your parents knows about it aswell.

Ya but sadly some parents won't accept that. So they consider arranged marriages which I don't hink in present time anyone would want that lol.