Opinions about body piercing!!

[Gulalai]

It's not the same at all. Asking someone for their opinion is just that. Asking their opinion. If the person on the receiving end takes it the wrong way and comes up with perverse ideas, the problem would lie with the pervert, not the questioner.

If i told you i have my nose pierced would you not picture a nose with a nose ring in it?
If i were to say i have long curly blond hair with side swept bangs, would you not think of that hair?
So If i were to say i have a bellybutton piercing, would you not think of a belly ring on my navel?
and obviously that might turn some men on.
Now i am not saying that it is completely a women's responsibility to keep perverted thoughts out of men's heads.
It needs to come 50-50. To keep dirty thoughts out of their heads, men should stay away from these types of conversations and also lower their gaze, and women should be aware of what they say and where they say it..

what do you mean by adornment?

You dont have to do something so that you can show it to others. It doesnt mean that when you get your belly button pierced that you have to start showing it to people.

a·dorn·ment
[uh-dawrn-muh-nt]
–noun 1. something that adds attractiveness; ornament

No one said that if you get a bellybutton pierced it should be shown to others, all we are saying is that if you have something private, then it's private for a reason, so it should stay private.

what's wrong with asking for opinions, may I ask? She asked, you gave. That is all. Anything else you insinuate, like "oo,hoy, she is trying to titillate everyone" is just coming from your imaginations.

right. so all we are doing is giving our opinions....

[roadrunner]

- why would she want to do a broad survey on other peoples opinions when in the end other peoples opinions dont matter.

Because she might be curious to do a survey on internet men. She only asked for opinions. Other peoples' opinions don't matter to me in the slightest, but i sometimes ask them for it.

and its not a project or anything because she said what its for. why insinuate things she did not say..EXACTLY why say "shes curious" when you dont know.

Where does she say the reason? I've read the original post and it just says give me your opinion on.. So why insinuate she's trying to titillate you? Or whoever said this.

- why would you want a mans opinion when your not going to show it to men. and its not normal to ask an opinion from someone that your not going to take on board anyway. if its for yourself then do it if you like it as your not doing it for anybody else.

Because she wants to show it to her future husband/boyfriend/fiancee, who might be normal like any other man, and wants to know what men generally like. Or she's just doing a survey for something. Or one of the many other things it might be.....

[eyeliner]

The thing is if anyone is saying that i shouldnt have made such a thread about such a matter..........because men are going to contribute to the thread......then those very people shouldnt have wasted their time, giving their opinion. I don't see why people are judging others for what they do either. I said that i wanted people's opinions whether it be islamic, cultural......etc.......so i dont see why people are putting words into anyone elses mouths......and saying that a man's opinion isnt necessary.......i didnt at the start of the thread say anything about a specific gender's opinion being necessary.....because if i had made a thread limited to gender, boys would have still posted in it.

[Mayana]

Nose piercings are nice

[Laila]

The thing is if anyone is saying that i shouldnt have made such a thread about such a matter..........because men are going to contribute to the thread......then those very people shouldnt have wasted their time, giving their opinion. I don't see why people are judging others for what they do either. I said that i wanted people's opinions whether it be islamic, cultural......etc.......so i dont see why people are putting words into anyone elses mouths......and saying that a man's opinion isnt necessary.......i didnt at the start of the thread say anything about a specific gender's opinion being necessary.....because if i had made a thread limited to gender, boys would have still posted in it.

Dont worry about it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

At least, it doesnt change my decision

[IamDZJ]

oh come on!
i was hoping for a fight...
mayana you should get your nose done by some girl your age back home with a needle.... you will be sorry you were born.

[eyeliner]

[QUOTE=Fahd;253464]eyli & laila hope u change ur mind
im giveing advice as u r from ma family and pashtuns


Summed up by this that there is nothing wrong in the ear or nose piercing for decoration. The hole in the navel and tongue, and other parts of the body did not find the words in which the scholars and the closest ban him for two reasons: first: that the examples and the Torture Show. II: Do not need women to adorn so this often, but is closer to the distortion of it to the decorations, and the fact that the husband did not see the reason why it does not justify to do legally. In addition, it was probably from the habits of some debauched in permissive societies morals.


this confuset me.
well your husband can find justification for something being legal and it may not be legal..........would it mean you can still do it?

[Mayana]

oh come on!
i was hoping for a fight...
mayana you should get your nose done by some girl your age back home with a needle.... you will be sorry you were born.

LOL khoarakii

Do you think I should get mine done? It will just draw even more attention to my Persian/Jew nose

[IamDZJ]

persian nose? i can understand jew but why persian?
waye chi
pezwan-i mean, CHARGUL PA JIGA POZA KHUWAND Ka...LAKA PA LUWARR CHINAR CHI WACHAWEY TALOONA

yours is the nose for it.

[Mayana]

Persians think I Persian; Jews think I'm Israeli, I conclude it's the nose LOL
haha I'm joking

Hmm.. jiga poza indeed. I'm kind of like Qrratu in this matter, I can't get myself to do it and I don't even know why. =/

[Gulalai]

The thing is if anyone is saying that i shouldnt have made such a thread about such a matter..........because men are going to contribute to the thread......then those very people shouldnt have wasted their time, giving their opinion. I don't see why people are judging others for what they do either. I said that i wanted people's opinions whether it be islamic, cultural......etc.......so i dont see why people are putting words into anyone elses mouths......and saying that a man's opinion isnt necessary.......i didnt at the start of the thread say anything about a specific gender's opinion being necessary.....because if i had made a thread limited to gender, boys would have still posted in it.

No one is putting words in anyone's mouth except you.
None of us were judging anyone, and if that's what you thought we were doing then im sorry for the misunderstanding. That wasn't any of our intentions. We were just stating our opinions, hence me saying "My Personal Opinion" at the beginning of my post. Laila understands that it's just a difference of opinion and she didn't make such a big deal out of it. I wasn't trying to change her opinion.. and i deffinatly wasn't trying to insult her which is what everyone is making it sound like...
Sorry for any misunderstandings Laila khore

[Fahd]

weird weird weird and laila
hummmmm im saw old theard about this posted by mahzala
and u said u will not going to do that because u will be killed
humm just to tell u
LOL GUL u didn't say any thing wrong
relax lil girl

ok im the only guy putting ma self btw girls fights ??
LOLz

[Gulalai]

weird weird weird and laila
hummmmm im saw old theard about this posted by mahzala
and u said u will not going to do that because u will be killed
humm just to tell u
LOL GUL u didn't say any thing wrong
relax lil girl

ok im the only guy putting ma self btw girls fights ??
LOLz

[eyeliner]

@ gulalai......i didnt say anything about your post..........i thought your post was reasonable...there was others saying things

[Fahd]

@ gulalai......i didnt say anything about your post..........i thought your post was reasonable...there was others saying things

i know it's me