What you want in your Prince of dreams?

[muhsina]

I was just wandering what qualities you would like to see in your life partner?

I would like to see the following:

1) In case he prays five times a day I would like him not to wake me up in the middle of night to seek forgiveness and would appreciate if he arranges for hot water himself to wash his various visible and invisible organs.

2) I would like him to be ready for the breakfast only after having a bath and on a certain time so I don’t go through the unpleasant feeling of online cook available at anytime.

3) I would like him to refrain from any frivolous acts in the day time if they are meant for the night and vice versa so that he doesn’t loose his sense of orientation and start behaving in a queer way.

4) I would appreciate if he avoids exploring any public or private parts of his body in the presence of others so that other people should not get the impression that he is concerned about their absence or is ignorant about their morphological or physical properties.

5) I would really like that either he should not piss while treading on way facing open air or a window which has the probability of getting opened any time and if he has biological compulsion then I would like that he should not reserve a hand to take care of his private organ so that if a stranger is asked about his act then the stranger is told that "the man whose one hand is inside his trouser is sharpening his tool" to the surprise of the questioner.

6) I would like that while he wears the shirt or trouser he should make sure that no button is missing so that he does not have to go through the unpleasant pain of getting pinched by a needle after he commits that mistake. This will be specially appreciated in case of pants as the absence of a button in the pants and the subsequent pinching of the needle will have dire consequences on his masculine features.

7) I would like that if we go for shopping he first ask me to choose a suit instead of imposing his choice on me which in many cases is the output of oppressed sexual desires according to Sigmund Freud and results in the choice of a suit which is good for a show in a circus.

8) I would appreciate that he "may" buy a suit for his mother or sister with a guilt feeling without letting me know about this heinous crime against wives.

9) I would appreciate if he wear underwear before going to a mixed gathering to avoid any risk of sudden activation of testosterone level due to his unrealised fantasies.

To be continued.......Will reflect on other socio-cultural aspects later

[eusuphxai]

looking at these high standards I will always be single

[Musafira]

1) He must be Pashtun and preferably from Afghanistan,

2) I'd want him him to be Muslim but I do not want someone so extreme that he judges others. He should only be concerned with himself, me and our kids.

3) He must be be respectful of other races and religions. He doesn't have to like or agree with them but I want him to be polite.

4) I'd want him to be someone who enjoys the beauty of nature and would spend time outdoors with me occasionally admiring it

5) .I prefer him to be both physically and emotionally strong. Though I know physical strength will fade with age I'd like it to start lol. Emotionally I cannot stand a man that whines and complains constantly.

6) I want someone who has a good sense of humor and makes me smile. Being around such a person would make the gloomiest days brighter

7) He should be thoughtful and caring. I want him to remember special occasions and help me around the house occasionally without me asking

8) He should try to be supportive of my ambitions if they are reasonable

9) He should be hardworking. No matter what his occupation is I would want him to try his best to do a good job

10) I hope he will be someone who makes me feel loved and appreciated and in return I will do my best to make him feel that way too

Since this is a dream list lol I could go on and on so I'll just stop here

[Feroza_Banu]

I already got what i wanted

[PFgulalai]

Shucks! I am a female with these "qualities' otherwise we we both could have a wonderful life together..maybe in our next "janum" Lol..
I am not that demanding...lol..
I can't stand guys who do not read books (good books: I judge people by the kind of books they read for learning), have little knowledge, have no sense of compassion towards humanity, have no amibitions, are not family-oriented, are not humorous,are not politically aware (Pashtun nationalism should be of utmost importance to him), and above all, are not intelligent. He should be honest, truthful, and loyal as well as caring and loving (well we all want that...). I don't mind little aggression and wildness (since that is very normal).He should love kids and animals especially dogs. He should be simple and down-to-earth devoid of any pretentions. I don't care how he looks since that is the most useless parameter to guage someone's personality. I love adeventure sports such as bungee jumping, rafting, climbing, and skiing so that would be a pleasant surprise if he is also interested in that,lol. I wont' mind getting lost in the wilderness with him..Oh!! and if he plays some musical instrument, that would be awesome. I don't care if he plays it good or bad. He should be able to impress my father through his general knowledge/wisdom/political knowledge (considering my political background) and my mother through his nice behavior,lol.
Oh yeah! The most important qualification is to be a Pashtun . I am only attracted to simple Pashtun men
that's for now...I might update the list later :P

1) He must be Pashtun and preferably from Afghanistan,

2) I'd want him him to be Muslim but I do not want someone so extreme that he judges others. He should only be concerned with himself, me and our kids.

3) He must be be respectful of other races and religions. He doesn't have to like or agree with them but I want him to be polite.

4) I'd want him to be someone who enjoys the beauty of nature and would spend time outdoors with me occasionally admiring it

5) .I prefer him to be both physically and emotionally strong. Though I know physical strength will fade with age I'd like it to start lol. Emotionally I cannot stand a man that whines and complains constantly.

6) I want someone who has a good sense of humor and makes me smile. Being around such a person would make the gloomiest days brighter

7) He should be thoughtful and caring. I want him to remember special occasions and help me around the house occasionally without me asking

8) He should try to be supportive of my ambitions if they are reasonable

9) He should be hardworking. No matter what his occupation is I would want him to try his best to do a good job

10) I hope he will be someone who makes me feel loved and appreciated and in return I will do my best to make him feel that way too

Since this is a dream list lol I could go on and on so I'll just stop here

[Palwasha]

I am only attracted to simple Pashtun men

Is there such a thing?

[PFgulalai]

Absolutely...based on my personal experience :P

Is there such a thing?

[Roshina]

I already have what I want, khwdey de laree. :D Can't describe, since it's too long a list! :D But I can say this:

He's brilliant -- I mean, as brilliant as a human can get (tf,tf, da nazara na shee). He can support many different and opposing sides of every argument he is aware of, and that's the first thing that attracted me to him. He knows how to talk to females and males, and he knows his limits in dealing with all genders. As far as religion is concerned, he knows who he is and he knows what I am, and that's all that matters to both of us. He has enough wits and intelligence to challenge me in a logical (and almost always humorous) manner, and I do the same to him.

When we have a discussion and he's the one with better arguments and a more eloquent way of making his point, I go:

" That's only because I'm a woman! It's not my fault I'm just naturally less intelligent than you!"

He knows when I'm saying something looking forward to a discussion with him and when I'm saying it WITHOUT looking forward to his opinion When he does give an opinion when I don't want it, I remind him that I'm just perfect and I can never be wrong -- and, guess what, he acknowledges that That includes when I wanna talk about a certain female friend with him in hopes to just have him listen to me talk, rather than commenting on what I'm saying, lol.

He knows how to handle and treat me, and he knows how to get from me what he wants -- and at which times. He also knows that every once in a while, I'll say, "We haven't fought in a while. Let's fight," and that makes his day! :D

His voice is SO damn attractive it kills me, and I tell him I could listen to him talking day and night, morning and evening, and never get tired.

He has such a beautiful sense of humor that it's almost difficult for me to anger him even when I want to anger him just to tease him (followed by a bright, mischievous smile).

He loves kids and he knows how to handle them.

His writing skills are so freaking superb that I often have him edit my major papers and theses because his editing skills surpass even his writing skills.

He values my education, supports it in every imaginable and unimaginable way, and he's perhaps the most supportive friend I have as far as my spiritual and material endeavors go.

He's the only human with whom I can say whatEVER I want, whatEVER is on my mind, and in whatEVER way I want to say it in. He does the same with me. And we have no limits in saying what we want to each other or about each other. It's just, we know when to give a critique of something about each other and when to give a compliment. And he -- my GOD, I tell you -- knows how to compliment his beloved

He has everything that every male, especially Pashtun, should have, and I would be stupid to ask for anything more -- if possible at all.

He's what I call my god and I'm what he calls his goddess (caution: not to be taken literally necessarily).

This . . . is my "prince charming," and whenever people tell you that there's no such thing as "prince charming," they're just saying that because they haven't been blessed and lucky enough to find theirs (yet).

[Sheenka]

looking at these high standards I will always be single

u r right lolz will never find a guy with all these qualities :P

[muhsina]

Girls
You are getting more and more serious while I meant it just for fun. This means none of you read my post or pro'ly dint understand it.

[Sheenka]

make it shortcut i never read long pharagaraph :P

thats how bad i am

[PFgulalai]

Holy cow!!!! that's spot-on! I am happy for you both. It's beautiful like a fairy tale. He is so lucky to have you as his better half.
"And they lived happily everafter"

His voice is SO damn attractive it kills me, and I tell him I could listen to him talking day and night, morning and evening, and never get tired.

I forgot to add "voice" to my list. Thanks.

This . . . is my "prince charming," and whenever people tell you that there's no such thing as "prince charming," they're just saying that because they haven't been blessed and lucky enough to find theirs (yet).

Lol..so there is light at the end of a dark tunnel

[Feroza_Banu]

I already have what I want, khwdey de laree. :D Can't describe, since it's too long a list! :D But I can say this:

He's brilliant -- I mean, as brilliant as a human can get (tf,tf, da nazara na shee). He can support many different and opposing sides of every argument he is aware of, and that's the first thing that attracted me to him. He knows how to talk to females and males, and he knows his limits in dealing with all genders. As far as religion is concerned, he knows who he is and he knows what I am, and that's all that matters to both of us. He has enough wits and intelligence to challenge me in a logical (and almost always humorous) manner, and I do the same to him.

When we have a discussion and he's the one with better arguments and a more eloquent way of making his point, I go:

" That's only because I'm a woman! It's not my fault I'm just naturally less intelligent than you!"

He knows when I'm saying something looking forward to a discussion with him and when I'm saying it WITHOUT looking forward to his opinion When he does give an opinion when I don't want it, I remind him that I'm just perfect and I can never be wrong -- and, guess what, he acknowledges that That includes when I wanna talk about a certain female friend with him in hopes to just have him listen to me talk, rather than commenting on what I'm saying, lol.

He knows how to handle and treat me, and he knows how to get from me what he wants -- and at which times. He also knows that every once in a while, I'll say, "We haven't fought in a while. Let's fight," and that makes his day! :D

His voice is SO damn attractive it kills me, and I tell him I could listen to him talking day and night, morning and evening, and never get tired.

He has such a beautiful sense of humor that it's almost difficult for me to anger him even when I want to anger him just to tease him (followed by a bright, mischievous smile).

He loves kids and he knows how to handle them.

His writing skills are so freaking superb that I often have him edit my major papers and theses because his editing skills surpass even his writing skills.

He values my education, supports it in every imaginable and unimaginable way, and he's perhaps the most supportive friend I have as far as my spiritual and material endeavors go.

He's the only human with whom I can say whatEVER I want, whatEVER is on my mind, and in whatEVER way I want to say it in. He does the same with me. And we have no limits in saying what we want to each other or about each other. It's just, we know when to give a critique of something about each other and when to give a compliment. And he -- my GOD, I tell you -- knows how to compliment his beloved

He has everything that every male, especially Pashtun, should have, and I would be stupid to ask for anything more -- if possible at all.

He's what I call my god and I'm what he calls his goddess (caution: not to be taken literally necessarily).

This . . . is my "prince charming," and whenever people tell you that there's no such thing as "prince charming," they're just saying that because they haven't been blessed and lucky enough to find theirs (yet).

awww this is really cute... mashaAllah... may Allah swt bless your lives together.

[PFgulalai]

Lol...I read your post before anything else and I actually thought it was serious and going by the responses here, I think many took it quite seriously. I am one of them

Girls
You are getting more and more serious while I meant it just for fun. This means none of you read my post or pro'ly dint understand it.

[Levanaye Zalmaye]

You girls ask for too much. Whatever happened to falling in love with a guy with just big muscles? /flex