And dont worry, you and havi wont be banned. Even afghan-hehe is not banned even though he crossed limits.
The forum is surely strict on non-pashtuns like tajiks and punjabis who join the forum to mock/insult afghans and afghanistan. You dont need to get worried, you and havi are getting your points across in very respectabl manner.
This forum is not strict when it comes to banning when u compare it to defence.pk. Pro-pakistani pashtuns were never banned, they left it on their own.