Oh, and the insecurity ... Gosh, I'm really sorry for their wives and sisters and daughters. You know what I've learned? The men who are extremely strict are the ones who themselves aren't to be trusted because they're the ones who do everything they deny their women (sisters, daughters, wives). I know a few men like this myself! And everyone realizes that the reason they're that strict with their women is that they fear their women will do what THEY do with other women. How sad is that?