she can't do that. what is wrong with her?? doesn't she know you are too young to provide for her daughter. talk to your parents or something. tell her that you want the best for her daughter and you will able to provide that once you are out of uni and have found yourself a job. and that you don't want to depend on your parents after marriage..and that until then she should try to understand how you and her daughter feel about each other. ta ma khafa kiga. may be she just wants to check and see if you really want to marry her daughter or are just fooling around. tell your parents to talk to them.