lol oooh i help my mom cook then i get everything ready bring all the milmano plates and spoons and dastarkhans hahahaha then when ladies come my mom sits and i finish cooking then all of us together we set the dstarkhan food and everything then the others bring it back and me and my aunt wash the dishes lol then it goes in a circle because then we take chai and firni and all the khwage stuff then after that the mewa haahahah oi so much work